Sonia Todd of Moscow, Idaho, died of cancer at the young age of 38. But knowing the end was near, she decided to write her own obituary before passing away. As she explained, obituaries were usually written a couple of different ways that she simply didn’t care for. So, as one of her last acts on this earth, she put pen to paper and decided for herself how her obituary would read.
The result of Sonia confronting her own mortality as she penned her obituary was a piece full of humor as well as wisdom, appearing in the Moscow-Pullman Daily News. The words were so honest and inspirational that long after her death, they will still ring true, giving others something to aspire to. Ironically, Sonia wrote, “I never really accomplished anything of note.” How wrong she was. The truth expressed in the obituary she wrote proved to be quite an accomplishment in and of itself.
“Other than giving birth to my two wonderful, lovable, witty and amazing sons (James and Jason), marrying my gracious, understanding and precious husband (Brian), and accepting the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior – I have done very little. None of which requires obit space that I have to shell out money for,” Sonia Todd began, explaining why she was writing her obituary and why it wouldn’t be like others.
Adding that she didn’t want a bunch of her loved ones sitting around to write a glowing report of her, which she says would be “filled with fish tales, half-truths, impossible scenarios, and out-right-honest-to-goodness-lies,” Sonia explained she simply didn’t like putting people in those kinds of situations. With the explanation out of the way, she got to her version of the truth about her own life.
“I just tried to do the best I could. Sometimes I succeeded, most of the time I failed, but I tried. For all of my crazy comments, jokes and complaints, I really did love people. The only thing that separates me from anyone else is the type of sin each of us participated in. I didn’t always do the right thing or say the right thing and when you come to the end of your life those are the things you really regret, the small simple things that hurt other people,” Sonia admitted.
Although she said that she mostly enjoyed life, she also said it wasn’t perfect and that she encountered many bumps in the road, especially in her teens and early 20s. Even though some parts of her life were harder than others, Sonia said, “I learned something from every bad situation and I couldn’t do any more than that.” She also claimed there were benefits to dying young. Jokingly, she wrote, “I still owe on my student loans and the jokes on them cuz I’m not paying them. Plus, I am no longer afraid of serial killers, telemarketers or the IRS.”Addressing the fact that some people have told her that writing her own obituary is morbid, Sonia Todd continued, “I think it is great because I get a chance to say thank you to all the people who helped me along the way. Those who loved me, assisted me, cared for me, laughed with me and taught me things so that I could have a wonderful, happy life. I was blessed beyond measure by knowing all of you. That is what made my life worthwhile.”
It was the conclusion of her obituary that was the most important, however. Sonia encouraged others to change their lives. “If you think of me, and would like to do something in honor of my memory do this: Volunteer at a school, church or library. Write a letter to someone and tell them how they have had a positive effect on your life. If you smoke – quit. If you drink and drive – stop,” she wrote.
Her advise continued, “Turn off the electronics and take a kid out for ice cream and talk to them about their hopes and dreams. Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve it. Stop at all lemonade-stands run by kids and brag about their product. Make someone smile today if it is in your power to do so.”
Today seems like a good day to honor Sonia’s memory by completing some of these simple requests and reminding others to do the same. Luckily for us, we still have time for these things. And, thankfully, with her dying wish, Sonia Todd left us these words of wisdom that few realize until it’s too late
From Heartthrob to Unrecognizable: The Stunning Transformation of a TV Star
David Caruso: From TV Heartthrob to a Changed Face
David Caruso is a name that resonates with many television fans, particularly those who followed the small screen in the ’90s and early 2000s. Known for his compelling performances and memorable roles, Caruso’s career has seen both significant highs and challenging lows.
Early Life and Career Beginnings
Born on January 7, 1956, in Forest Hills, Queens, New York, David Caruso faced early adversity following his parents’ divorce, which left his mother to raise him alone. Despite these challenges, Caruso’s determination and passion for acting set him on a path toward success.
He started his acting career with small roles in television and film, appearing in shows like Hill Street Blues and movies such as First Blood (1982) and An Officer and a Gentleman (1982). Though his roles were modest, they helped build his reputation as a dedicated and passionate actor.
Breakthrough with NYPD Blue
In 1993, Caruso landed a pivotal role as Detective John Kelly in the acclaimed TV series NYPD Blue. The show’s success catapulted him to stardom, and his portrayal of the gritty detective earned him a Golden Globe Award. However, Caruso’s time on the show was short-lived. After just one season, he left the series due to disputes over his salary and the show’s management, a move that sparked controversy and led to a decline in job opportunities.
Challenges and a Comeback
Post-NYPD Blue, Caruso’s transition to film met with limited success. Movies like Jade (1995) and Kiss of Death (1995) did not resonate with audiences, making it difficult for him to regain his previous momentum.
However, in 2002, Caruso made a notable comeback with the role of Horatio Caine in CSI: Miami. The character became iconic, known for his memorable catchphrases and cool demeanor, and the show ran for ten successful seasons, cementing Caruso’s status in television history.
Changes in Appearance
Fans may notice that David Caruso looks different today compared to his earlier years. While aging naturally affects everyone, including Caruso, other factors might contribute to his altered appearance. After retiring from acting post-CSI: Miami, Caruso has embraced a quieter lifestyle, which may have influenced his physical look.
There are no reports of health issues or personal struggles, suggesting that any changes in his appearance are likely due to the natural aging process and his more relaxed lifestyle.
Legacy and Reflection
David Caruso’s acting career is a compelling story of highs and lows. From his breakthrough role in NYPD Blue to his revival with CSI: Miami, he has left a lasting impact on television. Despite a lower public profile in recent years, his work remains highly regarded by fans around the world.
Caruso’s journey highlights the unpredictable nature of success in the entertainment industry and the potential for a comeback through dedication and talent. His legacy as an actor endures, even as he now enjoys a more tranquil life.
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