9 Differences Between Men and Women That Have an Unexpected Explanation

Today, we would like to talk about the differences between men and women. You might say that you’ve known about these differences for your entire life, but it’s not that simple. We are sure that we’ll be able to highlight a few facts you’ve never heard of before. And in the bonus section, you’ll find out where the fashion for high heels came from.

The length of fingers

Let’s conduct a short experiment. Place your hand on a flat surface and compare the length of your index and ring fingers. In general, in women, the index finger is longer. In men, the ring finger is longer. How can this be explained?

According to scientists, the length of these fingers depends on the level of male and female hormones that affect the fetus in the womb. So, the reason why the ring finger is longer than the index finger in men is testosterone.

The skin on the heels

Scientists have found out that women’s skin is more hydrated in the décolleté area and on the hands. Only the skin on their heels is dryer than that of men. So, in equal conditions, men’s heels will be smoother.

Breast

You might think, “Why would a man need nipples?” It might sound strange but every person was initially female. When an embryo begins to develop in the womb, the male Y chromosome doesn’t immediately start working.

During the first 5-6 weeks, development occurs only under the influence of the X chromosome, so the nipples have enough time to form. If the embryo is male, the Y chromosome “turns on” after this period of time, and a boy is formed.

Men can even produce milk. Lactation is activated under special conditions, for example, it may appear during treatment with the hormone prolactin.

Vision

Women are better at seeing colors, but men are good at tracking fast-moving objects. This is probably linked to our hunter-gatherer past when men were hunters and women were gatherers.

For example, an orange may appear redder to a man than to a woman. The grass is almost always greener for women because green objects appear more yellow to men.

Gaining muscle mass

Many women have to go to the gym regularly to have a toned body, while a man can just lift a barbell a couple of times to get a 6 pack. So, what is the “ingredient” responsible for muscle development? If you guessed testosterone, you’re right.

In women, it is also produced, but in much smaller quantities. So, it is easier and faster for men to gain muscle mass.

Hair loss

Going bald after the age of 50 is typical for around half of men (and for a quarter of women too). The reason for this is a widespread hereditary disease, androgenetic alopecia, which is also called “male pattern baldness.” Due to this condition, hair follicles shrink, and hair becomes thinner and shorter, and eventually disappears.

Follicle shrinkage can be caused by sensitivity to dihydrotestosterone, a by-product of testosterone. This means that the more muscle-building hormone a man has, the more likely it is that he will become bald.

Adam’s apple

Both men and women have an Adam’s apple, but it’s more prominent in men. Why? The Adam’s apple is the cartilage that protects our vocal cords. It is formed during puberty. Since adult men have larger vocal cords, their Adam’s apple is also more prominent.

By the way, the larger the Adam’s apple, the deeper the voice. There is a theory that our ancestors needed a low voice in order to scare away predators.

Brain size

A man’s brain is larger than that of a woman, but this doesn’t mean that men are intellectually superior to women. Also, some parts of the brain in both sexes are different in size and work differently. For example, the hippocampus, which is involved in learning and creating memories, is larger in women. And the amygdala, which is associated with experiencing emotions and remembering them, is larger in men.

Scientists conducted an experiment: they showed the subjects a video so that they could recall some personal experiences. It turned out that in men, activity was observed only in the right amygdala, and in women, only in the left one.

Beard

At first glance, it might seem that a beard doesn’t provide any benefits. So, why does it grow? There is a theory that the jawline looks more massive thanks to a beard, so its wearer looks stronger and more masculine. Perhaps, our female ancestors tended to choose men with a thick beard as their partners because they thought they would produce healthy offspring with them.

Bonus: Heels

Nowadays, high heels are one of the symbols of femininity, aren’t they? However, in the 17th century, Persian riders used to wear one-inch heels. And since owning horses was a symbol of wealth, heeled shoes also came to signify money and power. The Persians then brought their fashion to Europe.

The French king Louis XIV became a big fan of heels. He even issued a decree according to which only nobles were allowed to wear heels. The higher and redder the heel was, the more powerful the wearer was.

The Sun King only allowed those who he favored the most to wear red heels. But since the 18th century, heels have become a purely feminine attribute, although this didn’t stop rock stars like David Bowie and The Beatles from wearing them.

Which facts mentioned in this article were new to you? Tell us in the comments below.

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Husband Walks Into Hospital and Immediately Dumps Wife After Seeing Their Newborn Twins!

Here’s the article rewritten in simple language while keeping the same word count and paragraphs:

“You lied to me!” Instead of being happy about our newborn twin daughters, my husband got angry and accused me of being unfaithful. With hurtful words and a cold exit, Mark broke our family apart. Now, I’m determined to make him pay for leaving us.

I lay in the white hospital bed, feeling tired but happy. Even though my body was sore, it all felt worth it as I looked at the two beautiful baby girls resting beside me.

Midjourney

Here’s the article rewritten in simple language, maintaining the same word count, paragraph length, and removing the image sources:

The babies cooed softly, and tears of joy ran down my face. After years of trying to have children and a long, difficult pregnancy, I was finally a mom. It was the best feeling in the world!

I reached for my phone and typed a message to Mark, my husband: “They’re here. Two beautiful girls. Can’t wait for you to meet them.”

Midjourney

I hit send, a content smile forming on my face as I imagined his excitement.

This was supposed to be one of the happiest moments of our lives, and I never could have guessed how quickly it would turn into the worst.

A little while later, the door opened, and there he was. But instead of joy, Mark’s expression was cold — like a man walking into a meeting he didn’t want to attend.

“Hey,” I said softly, forcing a smile. “Aren’t they beautiful?”

Mark finally looked at the twins, and I saw his jaw tighten. His face showed disappointment before his lips curled in disgust.

Midjourney

“What is this?” he muttered, more to himself than to me.

Confusion filled me, pressing heavily against my chest. “What do you mean? They’re our daughters! What’s wrong with you, Mark?”

His gaze sharpened.

I could see the anger building up, ready to explode. And when it did, it hit like a storm.

“I’ll tell you what’s wrong: you tricked me!” he shouted. “You never told me we were having girls!”

Midjourney

I blinked, stunned. “Why does it matter? They’re healthy. They’re perfect!”

I reached for his hand, trying to calm him, but he yanked it away, disgust clear on his face.

“It matters a lot! This isn’t what I wanted, Lindsey! I thought we were having boys!” His voice grew louder, bouncing off the hospital walls, and I felt every word cut into me. “This family was supposed to carry on my name!”

My heart sank. “You’re serious? You’re mad because… they’re girls?”

Midjourney

“You’re darn right!” He stepped back like the sight of the babies made him sick. “Everyone knows only boys can carry on a legacy! You… you cheated on me, didn’t you? These can’t be mine.”

His words hit me like a punch to the gut. It felt like he knocked the air out of my lungs.

“How can you even say that?” I whispered, tears filling my eyes. “You’re really accusing me of cheating because I had daughters?”

But he was already walking toward the door, his hands clenching in anger.

Midjourney

“I’m not raising someone else’s kids,” he spat, his voice harsh and final. “I’m out.”

Before I could respond — before I could beg or scream or cry — he was gone. The door slammed shut behind him with a loud thud. And just like that, everything I thought I knew fell apart.

I looked down at my daughters, still in my arms, their tiny faces peaceful.

“It’s okay, sweethearts,” I whispered, though my heart felt anything but okay.

Midjourney

And for the first time since they were born, I started to cry.

Mark disappeared. No calls. No messages. The only news I got about him was from friends, who said he was on vacation somewhere sunny, drinking cocktails with the same guys who cheered us on at our wedding.

That’s right; he left me and went on vacation. It wasn’t just the betrayal. It was how easily he walked away, as if our life together meant nothing.

Midjourney

But the worst was yet to come.

I was back home, settling into a routine with the girls, when I got the first message from Mark’s mother, Sharon.

I was so relieved! Sharon was a tough woman, and I believed Mark would change his mind if his mother supported me.

My hands shook as I played Sharon’s voicemail. Her words were harsh and cruel.

Midjourney

“You ruined everything,” Sharon said angrily. “Mark deserved sons. How could you do this to him? To our family? How could you betray my son like this?”

I was so shocked, I dropped my phone. Her words cut deeper than anything Mark had said. To them, I hadn’t just given birth to daughters — I had failed. And they wanted me to pay for it.

I stared at my phone, trying to process this new attack.

Then my phone started ringing again. It was Sharon. I let it ring and watched as another voicemail notification popped up.

Midjourney

Then the texts started. Each message was more hurtful than the last. Sharon called me every name you can think of, blaming me for cheating on Mark, for having daughters, for not being a good wife… it just went on and on.

Mark’s entire family had turned against me. I was completely alone.

I tried to stay strong, but at night, the nursery became both my safe place and my prison. I’d sit in the rocking chair, holding my daughters close, whispering promises I wasn’t sure I could keep.

Midjourney

“I’ll protect you,” I said softly, the words as much for me as for them. “We’ll be okay. Everything will turn out just fine, you’ll see.”

But some nights, I wasn’t so sure. Sometimes, the loneliness and fear were so heavy that I thought I might break.

One night, I found myself crying as I fed the girls. It all felt like too much.

“I can’t do this anymore,” I sobbed. “It’s too hard. I can’t keep waiting…”

And then it hit me. I’d been waiting for Mark to come back and realize his mistake, but he hadn’t done anything to make me believe that would ever happen. He hadn’t even called.

I looked down at my girls and knew it was time to stand up for them and for myself.

A lawyer gave me my first bit of hope.

“With Mark’s abandonment,” she said thoughtfully, “you have a strong case. Full custody. Child support. We’ll handle visitation on your terms.”

Her words were like a lifeline. Finally, I had some control and something to fight for. And I wasn’t stopping there.

Mark wanted out? Fine. I was more than happy to divorce him, but he wouldn’t get away so easily.

I created a new social media profile, carefully sharing the story I wanted people to see.

Post after post showed my daughters’ milestones: tiny hands grabbing toys, their first smiles, and giggles. Each photo showed a piece of our happy life, and every caption carried a clear message: Mark wasn’t part of it.

Friends shared my posts, family left comments, and soon, everyone knew. Mark might have left, but I was building something beautiful without him.

The open house was my final stand. I invited everyone. The only person not welcome was Mark. I even made sure the invitation said so.

On the big day, the house was full of warmth and laughter. The twins wore matching outfits with tiny bows in their hair. Guests couldn’t stop admiring how adorable they were.

Then the door burst open, and there was Mark, angry and wild-eyed. The room fell silent.

“What is this?” he shouted. “You’ve turned everyone against me!”

I stood, my heart racing but steady. “You left us, Mark, because you didn’t want daughters. That was your choice.”

“You robbed me of my chance to pass down my legacy!” he shot back, his eyes filled with rage.

“You’re not welcome here,” I said, my voice calm. “We don’t need a man like you in our family. This is our life now.”

My friends stood beside me, their presence silent but strong. Defeated, Mark turned and stormed out, slamming the door behind him.

Weeks later, Mark received the court papers detailing the child support, custody, and visitation arrangements. He couldn’t escape. He’d still have to face the responsibility of being a father, even if he wasn’t going to be a dad.

Sharon’s final message came later — maybe an apology, maybe more anger. It didn’t matter. I deleted it without listening.

I was done with their family and done with the past.

That night, as I rocked my daughters, the future stretched out before us — bright, open, and ours alone.

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