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Good things are frequently discovered where you least expect them to be.
Haley Hodge has gone beyond books and online in her quest for baby names as her due date approaches. This mother of three, who will soon become a mother of four, made the decision to search local cemeteries for names from earlier generations and former lives in order to find inspiration.
Hodge documented this extraordinary journey in a now-viral TikTok video that has elicited conflicting responses from its 2.5 million viewers. In the video, Hodge can be seen talking about names with her husband Rivers and their kids while touring the Old Smithville Burying Ground in Southport, North Carolina.
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Many viewers were moved by Hodge’s inventiveness and appreciated how she honored the memory of the deceased with her choice of names.
One individual remarked, “This is the first video I’ve ever seen like this; never would have thought about it.” But I adore this concept so much! particularly if you investigate the individual.
“This really is stunning. Another TikTok user said, “What a way to honor those that have passed away.”
Not everyone, though, had the same sentiments. The concept unnerved other viewers, who brought up beliefs about pregnant women not being allowed in cemeteries. Hodge tells PEOPLE that although she had always felt at ease in cemeteries, she had expected some criticism because of different cultural perspectives on death.
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“It seems to me like going to a site where people’s greatest friends, grandparents, and other loved ones are buried. It’s not an evil place, according to Hodge. “These are people who were good people who lived lives, hopefully good lives.”
Furthermore, Hodge finds it inconvenient to be close to the deceased.
She continues, “I don’t think spirits are restricted to cemeteries if they exist.” “We’re already surrounded by it; hospitals have morgues, and we have babies born above morgues.”
Hodge also remembers her own early years, when her mother would take the family on trips and visit graves to teach them about the local history.
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According to Hodge, “she realized we’d be more interested if it was a spooky story rather than just history.” “It just grabs your attention more, kind of like kids telling scary stories at a bonfire.”
Hodge had used more traditional means to find names for her first three children, Finley, 10, Banks, 1, and Crew, 3, frequently making notes of names she heard on television. When asked where her name came from, she wanted this fourth kid to be able to tell an intriguing backstory.
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In addition, Hodge made the decision to film their trip to the grave, hoping to show it to her daughter in the future. She had originally intended to keep the videos to herself, but she ultimately decided to share the naming process with everyone.
“At first, I wasn’t going to post them,” she acknowledges. However, I later decided that sharing this was sort of cool. I anticipated that because it was unique, it would draw attention.
I Came Home to Find My Kids Outside with Packed Bags — It Was the Hardest Day of My Life
I came home to find my children sitting on the porch, suitcases packed and confusion in their eyes. They said I told them to leave — but I hadn’t. As my heart raced and panic set in, a car pulled into the driveway, and when I saw who was behind the wheel, I knew things were about to get worse.
As I pulled into the driveway, my heart skipped a beat. There were my kids, sitting on the front steps with their suitcases beside them. My stomach churned. We had no trip planned. Why were my babies waiting with packed bags?
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I jumped out of the car, slamming the door behind me.
“What’s going on?” I called out, rushing over to them.
My son, Jake, looked up at me, confused. He was only ten, but in that moment, he seemed so small, so unsure.
“You told us to,” he said quietly.
“Told you to what?” I asked, my voice sharp. I knelt in front of them, my hands shaking. “Why are you out here with your things?”
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“You texted us,” he continued, glancing at his little sister, Emily, who was clutching her stuffed rabbit. “You told us to pack our bags and wait outside. You said Dad was coming to get us.”
I froze. My brain raced. “What? No, I didn’t!” I said, my voice rising. “I would never—let me see your phone.”
Jake hesitated, then pulled it from his pocket and handed it to me. I scrolled through the messages, my blood running cold as I read:
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“This is your mom. Pack your stuff, take the cash I left, and wait for Dad. He’ll be there soon.”
The words blurred in front of me. I hadn’t sent that. I hadn’t told them to do any of this. My heart pounded, and I felt a wave of nausea. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing.
“Mom?” Emily’s soft voice broke through my panic. I looked at her, her wide blue eyes searching mine. “Are we going with Dad?”
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“No, sweetheart,” I said quickly. “You’re not going anywhere.”
I stood up, gripping Jake’s phone in my hand, trying to figure out what to do next. And then I heard it—a car pulling into the driveway. My blood turned to ice. Slowly, I turned around.
It was him.
“Kids,” I said, my voice low and firm. “Go inside. Now.”
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Jake and Emily scrambled to their feet, grabbing their bags, but they hesitated at the door. I didn’t have time to reassure them, not with Lewis, my ex-husband stepping out of his car with that smug, self-satisfied look on his face.
“Well, isn’t this cozy?” he sneered. “Leaving the kids alone like this. Really great parenting.”
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“Are you serious?” I snapped, stepping toward him. My whole body was trembling, but I refused to back down. “What did you think you were doing, telling them to pack up and wait for you? You have no right to be here.”
He crossed his arms, casually leaning against his car, as if he hadn’t just tried to steal my children. “They shouldn’t have been left alone, if you were being a responsible mother.”
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“They were alone for two hours! I had a babysitter lined up, but she canceled at the last minute. I had no other options. It’s not like I’m leaving them out here in the dark!” I was trying to stay calm, but every word he said made my blood boil.
He shrugged, completely unmoved. “Sounds like an excuse to me. Maybe if you can’t handle this, you should let them stay with me.”
I stared at him in disbelief. “You lost custody for a reason, remember?”
He smirked. “Maybe that was a mistake.”
Before I could respond, the door creaked open behind me. Jake and Emily stood there, wide-eyed and scared, their little faces streaked with tears.
“Stop fighting!” Jake cried, his voice trembling. “Please, Mom. Please, Dad. Stop.”
Emily was crying now too, clutching her stuffed rabbit tighter, her small shoulders shaking.
Seeing that no one was leaving with him, Lewis got back into his car and left.
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As I watched my children stand there, tears running down their faces, something shifted inside me. Outwardly, I stayed firm, not letting my ex see how much this was tearing me apart. But deep down, I felt the weight of the situation.
This wasn’t going to end with today’s confrontation. No matter what I said or did, he would keep trying to manipulate them. He’d look for every opening, every weak spot, and use it against me.
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As I pulled my kids into my arms, I made a silent promise. I would protect them, no matter what. I wasn’t going to let him mess with their heads or make them think he was the hero in all of this. I had to think ahead. I had to be smarter than him.
I had heard bits and pieces about his new girlfriend. Her name was Lisa, and from what I could gather, she thought I was “crazy,” just like he had told her. He’d spun a whole story about me — how I was manipulative, obsessed, and unreasonable.
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She believed every word, because why wouldn’t she? He had always been good at playing the victim, painting himself as the perfect father who had been wronged.
But now I had proof. I had the fake texts, the custody ruling, and years of his manipulative behavior all laid out in front of me. This wasn’t about revenge in the traditional sense. I didn’t want to hurt him for the sake of hurting him. I just wanted the truth to come out.
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I combed through old messages, gathering any evidence I could find of his past manipulations. This wasn’t about exaggerating or twisting the truth. I wanted to present the facts, plain and simple. Let them speak for themselves.
Once I had everything, I reached out to Lisa. I didn’t want to confront her angrily. That wouldn’t work. I knew how carefully he had crafted his story, and I didn’t want to come off as the “crazy ex-wife” he’d warned her about. Instead, I asked if we could talk, calmly, in private. To my surprise, she agreed.
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When we sat down together, I could see the hesitation in her eyes. She was guarded, probably thinking I was about to yell or accuse her of something. But I didn’t. I took a deep breath and laid everything out in front of her.
“Look,” I said gently, sliding the phone across the table with the screenshots open. “I know what he’s told you about me. But this… this is the truth.”
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She glanced at the screen, her eyes widening as she read through the fake texts. I could see the confusion start to creep in as I handed her the legal documents next. She read them slowly, her expression hardening.
“I’m not here to tell you what to do,” I said. “I’m not asking you to leave him. But I thought you should know who he really is. He’s been lying to you, just like he lied to me.”
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I watched her reaction closely. At first, she tried to defend him. “He said you were difficult. That you made things impossible…”
“I’m sure that’s what he told you,” I said, keeping my voice calm. “But these are the facts. He’s been trying to take the kids from me, and he’s using them to hurt me. You don’t have to believe me. Just look at the evidence.”
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Lisa didn’t say much after that. I could tell she was processing everything, her mind turning over the things she had once believed about him. I didn’t need to push. I didn’t need to demand anything. The truth was already working its way into her thoughts, pulling apart the lies he had told her.
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A few weeks later, I heard from a mutual friend that their relationship was starting to fall apart. Lisa had started questioning him about everything. She didn’t trust him the way she used to, and that doubt spread through their relationship like a poison. Small cracks were turning into big ones, and their bond was unraveling.
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I didn’t have to do anything else. The truth was enough. He had spent months weaving a web of lies, and now, bit by bit, it was falling apart. I didn’t get the kind of revenge that leaves someone in tears or ruins their life. But I did get justice. And for me, that was enough.
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