Tom Cruise, one of the most well-known American movie actors, became well-known at a very young age. When he acted in the now-classic film “Top Gun,” the actor was just 24 years old.
Fans might not be aware, though, that Cruise was given a dyslexia diagnosis when he was just seven years old. The actor has also been a longstanding follower of the Church of Scientology, and he attributes their help in helping him overcome his dyslexia.
Mimi Rogers, Cruise’s first wife, introduced him to the faith. Since her father was a member, he introduced Cruise to his faith and extended an invitation to a meeting at the Hollywood Scientology facility.
Cruise is a member of the Hollywood Educational Literacy Project’s board of directors. With the use of this learning tool, adults and children can receive free one-on-one instruction.
Cruise claimed that even with many tutors’ assistance, he had made every effort to comprehend the reading material, but he was unable to retain what he had read.
Cruise wasn’t able to acquire the assistance he need until he discovered L. Ron Hubbard’s Scientology study tools.
The actor greatly appreciates H.E.L.P. technology because it enabled him to overcome his learning problem by placing the object he was studying in front of him. The idea is to “have an airplane in front of you, if at all possible, while you’re studying an airplane.”
The airplane example is appropriate as Cruise has acknowledged to others that he has always wanted to become a pilot. Despite getting to pretend to be a pilot in “Top Gun,” his dyslexia prevented him from pursuing a career in aviation.
Instyle magazine claims that Cruise and Rogers first spoke in an interview with Rolling Stone in 1986. However, the actress was seeing his friend at the time, so she was powerless to stop it.
Nonetheless, Tom claimed that her “extreme brilliance” piqued his interest. Things moved swiftly once they grew close, and they soon started discussing marriage.
It was not an easy effort, nevertheless, to marry one of the most well-known guys in Hollywood; according to Instyle, they hid the wedding by referring to it as “the project.” The project was carried out in 1987. They seemed to have had a lovely, private ceremony.
The actor claimed that Rogers improved him as an actor and that he couldn’t see himself with anyone else. He continued, saying:
“My wife is the most important person in my life. My best friend is her.
According to Andrew Morton’s unofficial biography of Tom Cruise, the actor filed for divorce on December 9, 1989.
But Mimi gave a detailed account of the circumstances behind her marriage’s dissolution in an interview. She acknowledged that it “bothers” her that her age is frequently mentioned in the media. Tom Cruise was six years her junior.
The well-known actress Rogers maintained, though, that their separation had nothing to do with Scientology, celebrity, or Cruise’s jealously.
The actress disclosed that Cruise had given serious thought to becoming a monk, a career choice that would not work with a married life. As a result, their marriage failed.
Although Cruise maintains the privacy of his personal life, Instyle reports that there are speculations circulating that he dated his “Mission Impossible” co-star Hayley Atwell from 2020 to mid-2022 and is currently unmarried.
Regarding Rogers, she wed producer Chris Ciaffa in 2003; the couple is parent to two kids, Charlie and Lucy.
Following their divorce, Cruise and Rogers announced that the actress had quit Scientology. He continues to be an involved member of the church, for his part.
According to some sources, the church of Scientology played a role in the breakup of Cruise’s two marriages—the first to Rogers and the second to Nicole Kidman.
The actor, who still attends his church, feels that Scientology was a major factor in his success and in helping him get over his dyslexia.
My MIL Decided to Announce Her Pregnancy at My Wedding & Spoil It — My Sister Took Stone-Cold Revenge on My Behalf
Before she even became my mother-in-law, Diane was a thorn in my side. Little did I know how far she was willing to take her disrespect until my wedding day came. Luckily, I had the support of someone very close, who taught Diane a lesson she NEVER forgot!
When I first met my mother-in-law (MIL), Diane, 45, she immediately saw me as her competition. Everything I did, she had to do better. From cooking to fashion, and even in getting my husband’s attention, Diane always tried to outshine me! It was exhausting but manageable until my wedding planning began.
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Before my husband and I tied the knot, Diane got married for the second time and it was a modest celebration. She and her new husband didn’t have much saved, so they had a small, intimate ceremony.
Despite its simplicity, my MIL acted as though it was the GRANDEST wedding ever!
When my fiancé, Barry, and I started planning our wedding, she repeatedly urged us to keep it “cheap!” But Barry and I had enough saved and wanted to celebrate our love in a big way.
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So, we politely declined her advice and moved forward with our dream wedding.
But Diane’s attempts to control our wedding were RELENTLESS. She tried influencing every decision and had opinions on everything: the venue, the guest list, the menu, the cake, and even my dress!
Every suggestion was a push towards what SHE wanted. For instance, when I showed her my dream dress, a STUNNING lace gown with intricate beadwork, she scoffed! “A SIMPLER dress would be more elegant. This one is too flashy,” she said.
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I smiled and nodded but knew I wasn’t going to change a thing! I easily put her in her place and shut her suggestions down.
When the day of the wedding arrived, I was filled with joy and anticipation!
But my excitement was quickly dampened when Diane showed up in a WHITE dress! It was a full-on bridal gown! I couldn’t believe her audacity! But instead of letting it ruin my day, I just smirked. She wasn’t going to get under MY skin!
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During the reception, just a few moments after we exchanged vows, my sister and bridesmaid, Liz, approached me with a concerned look. “Amelia,” she said, “I overheard Diane talking to her husband. She said, ‘Right before their first dance, I’ll announce my pregnancy. That’ll definitely outshine her today!’”
I felt my stomach drop before I lost it! “How could she be so selfish? My wedding day is supposed to be about Barry and me, not her!” I vented.
Seeing the distress on my face, Liz took my hand and squeezed it. “Don’t worry. I have a plan. If you’re okay with it, I’ll take care of everything.”
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Trusting Liz completely, I nodded, giving her the green light. We both watched Diane move towards the stage where the microphone was. But as she was about to take the mic, Liz swiftly intercepted her! She grabbed it first before turning and smiling at the crowd.
“Ladies and gentlemen,” Liz began, her voice clear and confident. “I have a special announcement to make. Amelia just asked me to share some wonderful news! I’m thrilled to announce that I’m pregnant, and the bride is going to be a GODMOTHER and an AUNTIE!”
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The room erupted in applause and cheers. Diane stood frozen, her face pale with shock. Liz walked over to me and hugged me tightly.
“Thank you,” I whispered, tears of gratitude welling up in my eyes.
My MIL forced a smile as she approached us, trying hard to keep her composure. “Oh, that’s… wonderful news,” she said, her voice strained.
Liz leaned in close to Diane and whispered, “Did you really think you could steal her moment?”
Diane’s eyes narrowed, but she tried to brush it off. “Well, congratulations to you too, Liz. But I STILL have an announcement!”
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Liz didn’t back down. She stepped forward again and addressed the guests, saying, “Today is about Amelia and Barry. If anyone can’t respect that, they might want to reconsider what they’re about to do.” She smiled as she spoke.
The guests, sensing the tension, remained silent, their eyes shifting between Diane and Liz. My MIL’s façade cracked for a moment, revealing her true feelings, but she quickly recovered and nodded reluctantly, forcing a smile.
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“Well, it should be about ME! I’m the matriarch of this family, and everything revolves around me!” my MIL said to Liz off-stage.
I couldn’t stay silent any longer. I stepped forward and faced Diane. “Mother, you lost your moment when you showed up in all white and tried to ruin our wedding by announcing your pregnancy behind my back. This day ISN’T about YOU, so respect that!”
Diane sneered, her lips curling in disdain. “Respect works both ways, Amelia!”
“Exactly,” I replied. “And today, respect means letting Barry and me have our moment!”
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The tension was palpable, but Diane finally stepped back, conceding defeat. I smiled at the guests and waved, showing them that everything was fine. This seemed to calm their nerves as they continued enjoying the day.
Having seen all the drama, my husband rushed over. “What’s going on here?” he asked.
His mother opened her mouth to say something, but Liz came to the rescue again! She cut my MIL off and said, “Nothing’s wrong, Barry. Your mother was just asking for some clarity about giving a speech congratulating you two.”
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“We’ve sorted it all out, and she’s decided to congratulate you two privately, after your honeymoon,” Liz continued. She gave Diane a sharp look that clearly conveyed, “If you go against what I just said, your son will know the truth, and you might lose him over it.”
Catching Liz’s warning, for the first time, I saw my MIL falter. She looked down, then turned to her son and said, “Liz is absolutely right! I’ve decided it’s best to keep the focus on you two.”
“What I have to say can wait. Besides, I realized it’s a personal message that I want to share with just the two of you,” she added.
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Touched by his mother’s words, Barry stepped in to hug her. “I knew you always wanted what was best for me and Amelia. I’m so glad to see you’re finally warming up to our union,” he said.
“Of course, Barry! I even apologized for wearing all white. I thought it would be nice to match with my daughter-in-law, but I forgot that I should have asked first,” Diane lied, smiling.
I let her have it because Liz and I had already won, so there was no need to stir things up again.
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The evening continued without further interruptions, and the tension slowly dissipated as we enjoyed the celebration. Reflecting on the day, I realized how important it was to stand up for myself and set boundaries, even with family.
Thanks to Liz’s quick thinking and unwavering support, we were able to preserve the joy of our special day. As the night drew to a close, Barry and I shared a quiet moment, watching our guests dance and laugh. “We did it,” my husband said, squeezing my hands.
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“Yes, we did,” I agreed, leaning into him. “And we did it OUR way.”
Life after the wedding gradually settled into a comfortable routine. Barry and I moved into our new home, a cozy little house with a white picket fence and a yard big enough for the dog we planned to adopt.
We were eager to start our lives together, unencumbered by the drama that had plagued our wedding day.
Yet, Diane’s influence lingered like a shadow.
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Although she had somewhat apologized, she still found subtle ways to insert herself into our lives. There was the time she showed up unannounced with a brand-new set of kitchen appliances, insisting that ours were outdated.
“These will make your life so much easier,” she said, her smile as tight as the grip she had on the boxes.
I thanked her politely.
As time went on, Diane’s behavior began to change. She was still herself, but there was a noticeable effort to respect our space and decisions. She even started asking for our opinions before making decisions that involved us.
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On the day our baby was born, my MIL was at the hospital, waiting anxiously with the rest of our family. When Barry and I finally introduced her to her granddaughter, I saw tears in her eyes. “She’s beautiful,” Diane whispered, gently cradling the baby. “Thank you for letting me be a part of this.”
At that moment, I felt a deep sense of peace. My journey with my mother-in-law had been tumultuous, but it had brought us to a place of mutual respect and understanding. Our family was stronger because of it.
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As we settled into life as new parents, the lessons we learned about setting boundaries and standing up for ourselves continued to guide us. Diane’s transformation wasn’t perfect, and there were still moments of tension, but we navigated them together, knowing we had the strength to overcome any obstacle.
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