Mark meets Stuart, a homeless man, on a busy city street and makes an unusual promise to change his life in just one evening. He starts by giving Stuart a fresh haircut and buying him new clothes, determined to find him a family by the night’s end. But can Mark truly fulfill this bold promise and transform Stuart’s life?
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You never know who you’ll encounter in life and how they might change your world.
I’m Mark, and a few days ago, I had this wholesome experience I will never forget.
So, I was sitting on a busy city street, munching on my sandwich during lunch break.
A man holding a half-eaten sandwich | Source: Pexels
Out of nowhere, this scruffy-looking guy walks up to me and hands me my wallet.
“Hey, you dropped this,” he said.
I was stunned. “Thanks, man! I didn’t even notice. What’s your name?” I asked, genuinely curious.
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“Stuart,” he replied with a shy smile.
“I’m Mark,” I said, shaking his hand. “I’m a barber. How about I repay you with a fresh haircut?”
Stuart looked down at his worn-out clothes and shrugged. “Why bother? I got no one to impress. Nobody cares about a bum like me.”
I imagined being in Stuart’s shoes, and his words hit me right in the feels. I knew I had to do something more.
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“How about this,” I said, my mind racing. “I bet you I can find you a family in one evening!”
Stuart laughed, thinking I was joking, but I grabbed his hand. “Bet on it!”
I could see he wasn’t really sure, but he agreed.
We headed straight to my shop. “Come on in, Stuart,” I said, holding the door open for him as we arrived. The place was buzzing with activity. My colleagues and a few customers gave us curious looks as we walked in.
Inside a barbershop | Source: Freepik
I pointed to the chair. “Take a seat, Stuart. Let’s see what we can do.”
Stuart hesitated for a moment but then sat down. I draped the cape over him and got to work. “You’re in for a treat,” I said, picking up my clippers.
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As I started cutting his hair, I could see the change happening right before my eyes. The scruffy, tired look began to disappear. Stuart was getting a fresh start, and it showed.
“How’s it looking?” Stuart asked, a bit nervous.
A smiley man at a hair salon | Source: Freepik
“Trust me, you’re going to look great,” I replied, focusing on giving him the best cut possible. Other barbers started to gather around, watching the transformation.
“Wow, Mark, you’re doing wonders,” one of them said, impressed.
A hairdresser standing in a barber shop | Source: Freepik
When I was done, I turned the chair around so Stuart could see himself in the mirror.
His eyes widened. “Is that really me?” he asked, touching his newly styled beard and hair.
“Yep, that’s you,” I said, smiling. “What do you think?”
An elderly man looking into a mirror | Source: Freepik
Stuart grinned, looking a bit shy. “I feel like a new man. But do you think it’s too fancy for a guy like me?”
Everyone in the shop chuckled.
“Not at all,” I said. “You deserve this.”
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Stuart’s confidence seemed to soar. He stood up a bit straighter, and there was a sparkle in his eye that hadn’t been there before. “Thanks, Mark. This feels amazing,” he said.
But it wasn’t over yet. After the haircut, I decided it was time to get Stuart some new clothes.
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We walked over to a nearby clothing boutique. As we stepped inside, the staff greeted us with friendly smiles.
“Hi there! How can we help you today?” one of them asked.
“We need to find my friend Stuart here some stylish clothes,” I said, patting Stuart on the back. Stuart looked around, a bit overwhelmed. “I’ve never been in a place like this,” he whispered to me.
“Don’t worry, we’ll find something great,” I assured him. The staff quickly got to work, bringing out various outfits for Stuart to try.
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His reactions were priceless. “These pants are so tight! How do people breathe in these?” he said, making everyone laugh.
I handed him a shirt. “Just try it on, Stuart. You’ll look great.”
He reluctantly took the clothes and went into the changing room. A few minutes later, he came out, looking unsure. “How do I look?” he asked.
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“Wow, Stuart, you look fantastic!” I said, giving him a thumbs up. The staff nodded in agreement.
Stuart looked at himself in the mirror, turning this way and that. “I feel like I’m wearing someone else’s clothes,” he said with a laugh. “But they do look nice.”
An older man in a suit | Source: Midjourney
“Exactly, that’s the point,” I said. “You deserve to feel good about yourself.”
After trying on a few more outfits and making everyone laugh with his witty comments, Stuart finally settled on an outfit that made him feel comfortable yet stylish.
“I think I’ll stick with this one,” he said, smiling.
A confident elderly man in a suit | Source: Pexels
“Great choice,” I said. “You’re looking sharp, my friend.”
Stuart’s confidence seemed to grow even more. “Thanks, Mark. I really appreciate this,” he said, enveloping me in a hug.
“No problem. We’re just getting started,” I said, feeling excited about what was to come.
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With Stuart looking sharp, we decided to grab dinner at a cozy café.
As we walked in, Stuart seemed nervous. “I haven’t been to a place like this in years,” he admitted.
“Relax, Stuart. It’s just dinner. Enjoy it,” I said, guiding him to a table.
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We sat down and ordered some food. While we waited, I pulled out my phone. “How about we set up a date for you?” I suggested.
“A date? You’re serious?” Stuart asked, his eyes widening.
“Why not? Let’s give it a shot,” I said, smiling.
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I registered him on a dating site and quickly set up a profile. Within minutes, we got a response from a woman named Linda. She agreed to meet us at the café.
When Linda arrived, she seemed interested at first. Stuart stood up and introduced himself, looking a bit nervous. “Hi, I’m Stuart,” he said, offering his hand.
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Linda shook his hand, but her smile faded as we talked. When she found out Stuart was homeless, her expression changed.
“You should have been honest,” she said, standing up abruptly.
“Wait, Linda, he’s a great guy,” I tried to explain, but she was already walking out the door.
Stuart sat back down, looking dejected.
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“I’m sorry, Stuart,” I said, feeling bad for him.
To my surprise, he smiled. “It’s alright, Mark. Today is still one of the best days of my life. It reminded me of when I used to go out with friends and meet girls.”
I didn’t know what to do at that point. I had promised him I would help him find a family, and I knew that I had failed to do so.
But the next morning, on my way to work, I saw something that made me stop in my tracks.
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Stuart was sitting outside a supermarket, chatting with a woman. They were both smiling and laughing.
I walked over, curious. “Hey, Stuart!” I called out, waving.
“Mark! Good to see you,” Stuart replied, standing up and giving me a big smile. “I want you to meet Maria.”
A happy elderly couple | Source: Pexels
Maria stood up and shook my hand. “Hi, Mark. It’s nice to meet you,” she said warmly.
“Nice to meet you too, Maria,” I said, looking at Stuart with a raised eyebrow. “Where did you two meet?”
“Believe it or not, we met last night after the date fiasco,” Stuart said with a chuckle. “Maria was kind enough to sit and talk with me. We’ve been chatting ever since.”
Maria smiled at Stuart. “Stuart told me everything. I’ve had my own struggles, so I understand where he’s coming from.”
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I felt a surge of happiness and pride. “That’s wonderful to hear,” I said, genuinely moved. “You two seem to get along really well.”
“We do,” Stuart said, looking at Maria with a grateful smile. “Thanks to you, Mark. That bet led to something really good.”
“I’m just glad to see you happy, Stuart. You deserve this,” I said, and we shared a hug.
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I still can’t believe it all happened.
Life has a funny way of surprising us, doesn’t it? Stuart found a friend, and maybe even a family, through a series of events that started with a lost wallet. And I learned that sometimes, all it takes is a little compassion to change someone’s life.
Have you ever witnessed something like this or changed someone’s life for the better?
‘Families don’t have to look the same’ – Black couple talks about their experience adopting three white children
Sadie and Jarvis Sampson tried for years to have a baby, using every method they could think of. They eventually accepted that they might only ever be an aunt and uncle. Then, one day, they got a text that changed their lives completely.
The couple had been trying to get pregnant since they got married in January 2018, but when it didn’t happen on its own, they tried everything else.
“We used ovulation tests, took prenatal vitamins, tracked cycles with apps, and used fertility monitors,” the Houston mom told Love What Matters.
“We even tried advice from friends, family, and strangers. For 14 months, we tried, prayed, and waited. Month after month, it was always a negative pregnancy test. It seemed like we might need help to conceive, so we even talked to doctors about it.”
Doctors didn’t offer much help to the couple. They mostly told Sadie to lose weight to improve her chances of getting pregnant. With no other advice, she had gastric surgery and lost 28 pounds.
Sadie’s OBGYN was excited about the weight loss and praised her for it.
“She told me that if I wasn’t pregnant within six months, she would refer me to a fertility specialist because she couldn’t prescribe fertility medication herself,” Sadie said. “I was thrilled! We finally got a positive step forward, even if it wasn’t immediate. We were excited about the progress.”
Unfortunately, the couple didn’t get pregnant after Sadie lost the weight, and they felt like they were back where they started.
“I always felt like I was meant to be a mother,” Sadie said. “Even though my surgeon warned me that I’d be very fertile after the surgery, I still wasn’t getting pregnant. So, we gave up and accepted that we might just be aunt and uncle to our nieces and godparents to our goddaughters.”
Just when the couple had decided to stop trying to have a baby, Sadie got a text from a friend asking if they would think about fostering a baby from a couple she knew.
At first, the couple was hesitant because they were told by a caseworker to take care of the baby while the birth mom was getting treatment. They worried they might get too attached. But then, the situation changed.
“The birth mom has decided she wants you to adopt the baby instead,” the caseworker said.
Sadie remembered saying, “‘Holy crap!!’ out loud when she found out she was going to be a mom.
“We went from having no kids to possibly fostering one, to suddenly being told, ‘You’re going to be parents!’ I was still in shock as I listened to the caseworker. I hung up and called my husband, shouting, ‘Babe!! They want us to adopt the baby! We’re going to be parents!’ He said, ‘Wait! REALLY?! I thought they just wanted us to foster him!’ I told him, ‘Nope! They want us to be his mom and dad.’”
The couple spent the weekend trying to take in the shocking news and getting ready, just in case the birth mom changed her mind.
By Monday, they were not only told that the birth mom still wanted them to adopt the baby, but she also wanted to do an independent adoption and was ready to sign the papers that day.
Their baby boy was born at just 33 weeks, which is seven weeks early. He weighed 4 lbs. 5 oz. “He was so tiny, he literally fit in one of my husband’s hands,” Sadie wrote.
“He was wrapped in a white blanket with pink and blue stripes,” Sadie said. “He had a small tube coming out of his nose because he couldn’t eat on his own since he was born early. But he was so cute!!!”
The couple shared their news on social media and were encouraged to create a registry. They listed 72 items, and within just three days, 55 of them were already bought for them.
Ezra Lee’s adoption was finalized in October 2020, and the couple had adorable family photos taken, all wearing t-shirts that said, “Families don’t have to match.”
In 2021, Sadie and Jarvis became parents to twin girls, Journee and Destinee, through embryo donation. True to their family motto, “Families don’t have to match,” the Black couple now has three white children – a boy and two girls.
For anyone who might judge their beautiful family, they have just one response: their family is built on the strongest foundation ever – love.
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