I Raised My Sister’s Son Like My Own for 15 Years — Then He Chose Her Over Me Because She Bought Him a Car

When Kayla abandoned her baby, I gave up everything to raise him as my own. Fifteen years of scraped knees, birthdays, and bedtime stories later, she waltzed back into his life with a car and stole him away. Five years later, a knock at my door turned everything upside-down.

I hadn’t seen my little sister, Kayla, for months, but now she was on my doorstep with a bundle in her arms — a baby boy, maybe six months old, half-asleep and fussing.

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A person holding a baby | Source: Pexels

Her usually perfect eyeliner was smudged down her cheeks, and that designer perfume she always wore had faded to something stale and sad.

“Please look after him, Mae, just for a couple of weeks while I figure things out,” she mumbled, thrusting a diaper bag into my free hand.

“What?” My fingers clenched reflexively around the bag strap. “Kayla, what happened? When did you—”

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A shocked and confused woman | Source: Unsplash

“It’s complicated.” She adjusted the baby as though her arms might break beneath his weight. “But I’ve got some opportunities lined up. Good ones. I just need breathing room, time to settle in. Two weeks, tops, Mae. Please.”

That was Kayla-speak for “I’m in trouble again.” Her eyes, so much like mine but always wilder, darted to her car.

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A woman glancing anxiously to one side | Source: Unsplash

“Two weeks,” I repeated firmly.

“You’re a lifesaver, sis.” She flashed me a relieved smile as she handed the baby over. “I’ll call tomorrow.”

But weeks blurred into months, and Kayla vanished like smoke.

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A woman resting her head in her hand | Source: Unsplash

The only communication was a text every few weeks: “Need more time” or “Can’t talk now.”

Then nothing at all.

Until three months after she left, when an envelope arrived in the mail. Inside, was the baby’s birth certificate, and a nasty surprise.

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An envelope on a table | Source: Unsplash

The certificate was blank where a name should be. So, he was official, but nameless. It listed Kayla as the mother and no father at all.

I thought of my grandfather, Liam, the only stable male figure in Kayla’s and my chaotic childhood. He had been kind, steady, patient.

Then I looked at the little boy playing on the floor with his toys.

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A baby playing with toys | Source: Unsplash

“Liam it is,” I decided.

That night became the first of many landmarks: first steps across my living room, first words, first day of kindergarten.

I became his everything — rocking him through fevers, staying sleepless through teething nights, and laughing as we built towers and chunky wooden puzzles, and stuck our tongues out at each other.

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A woman playing with a toddler | Source: Pexels

When Liam was seven, his teacher called about getting him braces.

The cost made my stomach drop, but I picked up a graveyard shift cleaning offices downtown, scrubbing toilets with hands already blistered from my day job at the warehouse.

When Liam turned ten, the school required laptops for their new curriculum.

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A classroom | Source: Unsplash

The pawnshop’s neon sign buzzed overhead as I traded my beloved guitar (the only thing I still had from my brief stint in a college band, my only real indulgence) for a laptop that would get him through.

“Where’d your guitar go?” he asked a week later, noticing the empty corner of the living room.

“Just loaned it to a friend,” I lied, hating how easily it came.

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A woman sitting on a sofa | Source: Unsplash

Kayla remained nothing but a ghost. Maybe a birthday text every other year, brittle and hollow: “Tell him happy birthday from Mom.” As if the word “Mom” belonged to her by right, not by effort.

But everything changed on Liam’s 16th birthday.

I was setting up the small celebration I’d planned — just a few friends, pizza, and a homemade cake — when an engine purred outside.

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A birthday cake on a table | Source: Unsplash

I peeked through the blinds to see a gleaming SUV that probably cost more than a year of my salary.

Kayla stepped out, looking like a stranger. Flawless makeup, expensive clothes, her hair highlighted to perfection.

Liam came downstairs, freezing when he saw her through the open door.

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A stunned teen boy | Source: Unsplash

“Hey, baby,” she said. “Sweet 16, huh? I brought presents.”

He looked at me, confusion rippling across his face. I’d shown him pictures of Kayla, and told him the truth in age-appropriate ways over the years: his mother loved him but couldn’t take care of him. She had problems. Maybe someday she’d be ready.

Apparently, someday had arrived in a $60,000 SUV.

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An SUV parked outside a building | Source: Pexels

She visited every day that week, whisking him away to amusement parks, buying him flashy clothes, and spinning tales of “complicated times” and “endless love” that had kept them apart.

Then she showed up with the most flamboyant gift yet.

One scorching afternoon in July, a silver convertible pulled up to our faded duplex. It was topped with a garish red bow.

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A silver convertible parked on a street | Source: Pexels

I stepped onto the porch as Kayla climbed out of the convertible. Liam gasped at my side.

“What do you think, baby?” Kayla grinned as she strutted toward us, keys dangling from manicured fingers. “It’s all yours.”

Liam whooped for joy. He leaped down the porch steps and ran to hug Kayla.

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Two people hugging | Source: Pexels

“You don’t need to struggle here anymore,” she declared, locking her gaze with mine over his shoulder. “Come live with me, baby. It’s time we were a family again.”

Liam turned to me, confusion, guilt, and yearning battling in his eyes. I saw the moment the yearning won.

And just like that, the boy I’d named and raised like my own was gone.

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A woman with tears running down her face | Source: Unsplash

No hug. No goodbye. Just excitement overtaking guilt as he slid into the driver’s seat of a car worth more than everything I owned.

Two days later, I got the text: “Thanks. I’ll give her a chance.”

Alone in our silent house, I gathered up tiny drawings labeled “Auntie/Mom,” crayon Mother’s Day cards, and packed them in boxes.

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Items packed in a cardboard box | Source: Pexels

I grieved like a mother without a grave to visit.

There were no casseroles, no sympathy cards, no formal ceremony to mark my loss. Just empty spaces where a boy had grown up and a silence where his laughter had been.

At work, people asked about Liam constantly.

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A woman working in a warehouse office | Source: Pexels

I developed a script: “He’s living with his mom now. Yes, his actual mom. No, it’s great, a wonderful opportunity for him.”

Eventually, they stopped asking.

Eventually, Liam existed only in my memories and the part of my heart he’d taken with him.

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A woman staring out a window | Source: Unsplash

Five years is both an eternity and nothing at all.

I’d downsized to a one-bedroom apartment across town, switched to a better-paying office job, and even dated occasionally.

Life had a new rhythm; quieter, steadier, lonelier.

Then came another knock.

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An apartment door | Source: Unsplash

When I opened the door, I nearly didn’t recognize him.

“Liam,” I breathed.

He stood awkwardly, hands jammed into pockets, a duffel bag at his feet.

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A duffel bag at someone’s feet | Source: Unsplash

“Hey, Aunt Mae.” His voice cracked. “She’s… she’s kicking me out. Said I need to figure out my own life now.”

I said nothing, just stared at this stranger wearing Liam’s face.

“College didn’t work out,” he continued, words tumbling out now.

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A young man hanging his head | Source: Unsplash

“I wasn’t focused enough, she said. Wasting her money. And when her boyfriend moved in last month, things got worse, and—” He stopped, swallowed. “I didn’t know where else to go.”

He wasn’t here to apologize… he just had nowhere else to go.

The hurt and betrayal that I’d thought I was over returned full force.

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An angry woman staring at someone | Source: Unsplash

But he was my little boy, and he had nowhere else to go.

“You can take the couch,” I said, stepping aside. “I don’t have a spare room anymore.”

Relief flooded his face. “Thanks. I won’t be any trouble.”

“I have rules,” I told him. “This isn’t like before.”

He nodded quickly. “Of course. Whatever you say.”

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An earnest young man | Source: Unsplash

Liam did his own laundry and contributed to the rent from his part-time job at a garage.

Slowly, cautiously, we rebuilt something from the ashes.

Our conversations grew less guarded. He told me about the disasters of living with Kayla — the revolving door of boyfriends, the drinking, the expectations he could never quite meet.

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A man glancing to one side | Source: Pexels

“The car was repossessed after the first year,” he admitted one night over takeout. “Turns out she hadn’t actually bought it. Just leased it to impress me.”

I nodded, unsurprised.

He looked up. “I should have called. After I left. But everything was so great at first. I was finally getting to spend time with my mother, and then, when things turned bad… it felt like it was too late, like I could never make up for what I did to you.”

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A man looking at someone | Source: Unsplash

“It hurt when you left like that,” I admitted, “but you were a kid, as charmed by Kayla as everyone else she ever set her sights on winning over. I get it, but you still should’ve called.”

He smiled then, a small, sad smile that carried the weight of our shared history. “Thanks for giving me a second chance, even if I’ve done nothing to deserve it.”

I looked at him, this boy-turned-man who’d broken my heart.

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A woman staring at someone | Source: Unsplash

“That’s what family does,” I told him, and for the first time in years, the word didn’t taste bitter on my tongue.

Liam broke. His shoulders shook as he buried his face in his hands. I didn’t think twice; just moved over and put my arms around him.

“I’m so sorry,” he said between sobs.

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A young man crying | Source: Unsplash

Outside, rain tapped gently against the windows, wrapping our small apartment in a cocoon of sound.

Sarah Jessica Parker forced to defend herself, public attacks naturally aging beauty and casual style

Carrie Bradshaw once said, “I will literally be the old woman who lived in her shoes.” But Sarah Jessica parker, the woman behind the sassy fashionista in the hit TV show Sex and the City, isn’t Jimmy Choo-obsessed, nor does she have a wardrobe filled with playful tutus and strappy slip dresses.Still, the confident 58-year-old actor is fielding hateful comments from the online population who can’t understand why her real-life persona is contrary to the modish character she plays.

Parker, who’s proudly aging naturally, gracefully and beautifully, answers back saying it’s, “just not a reality,” and “there’s no time to let vanity enter.” Keep reading to learn what the lovely Sarah Jessica Parker has to say about aging!
In her role as the beloved Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City, Sarah Jessica Parker served some iconic, oftentimes controversial, looks.

While her character was considered a trendsetter by women across the globe, Parker in real life, has never been an urban chic fashionista.
“It’s not the way I perceive myself, I’m so low on my priority list,” said Parker, who raised three children while she was at the height of her career. “I love beautiful clothes and am privileged enough to have access to a lot them…but they also are returned the next day. They are not mine.”

Keep reading to learn more…


In real life, the star admits that she prefers a practical style, which isn’t always popular with the demanding public.
Unsexiest woman alive
In fact, in 2008, she was named in a Maxim poll as the “Unsexiest Woman Alive.”
Shortly after she earned the unflattering title, Parker spoke with Grazia (through Daily Mail) and said, “Do I have big fake boobs, Botox and big lips? No. Do I fit some ideals and standards of some men writing in a men’s magazine? Maybe not.” The star of And Just Like That continues, “Am I really the unsexiest woman in the world? Wow! It’s kind of shocking when men…It’s so brutal in a way…”
Years later, the Family Stone star appeared at the Met Gala wearing a golden Dolce & Gabbana gown that she paired with an ornate nativity headpiece.


Though she was serving an incredibly unique and smashing look, the public only commented on her aging.
“Aye real quick, how old is Sarah Jessica Parker because [her] skin look like tree bark and I’m confused,” said one. A second writes, “Is that Sarah Jessica Parker? Oh gosh she looks so old and worn out.”
Then, in 2021, the Hocus Pocus star was lunching with Bravo star Andy Cohen. Parker was makeup free, her silvery hair tied back in a braided ponytail.
It didn’t take long for the online population to start spitting hate over her appearance. But, Cohen, who also has a head of grey hair, defended his friend.
“We were at lunch and there was a paparazzi, and she’s sitting next to me, white hair,” said Cohen, 55, of his own white hair. Speaking on The Drew Barrymore Show, he continued, “All the articles were ‘Sarah Jessica Parker, she’s going gray’ and ‘She looks old,’ and it was insanity.
Here she is sitting next to me, who’s gray, and people just missed the mark totally. It was so misogynistic.”
Following that, Parker spoke with Vogue and had a lot to say about unforgiving people and their unrealistic standards of beauty.
“There’s so much misogynist chatter… I’m sitting with Andy Cohen, and he has a full head of gray hair, and he’s exquisite. Why is it okay for him?” Parker continues, “‘She has too many wrinkles, she doesn’t have enough wrinkles.’ It almost feels as if people don’t want us to be perfectly okay with where we are, as if they almost enjoy us being pained by who we are today, whether we choose to age naturally and not look perfect, or whether you do something if that makes you feel better.


She adds, “I know what I look like. I have no choice. What am I going to do about it? Stop aging? Disappear?”
Influential woman
The title of “unsexist woman alive” was upstaged in 2022 when the Golden Globe winning actor was named by Time as one of its “100 most influential people in the world.”
Though she may not dress the part of Carrie, who’s the star of the TV series, two films and the reboot And Just Like That, Parker does own her own designer brand, SJP, which – not surprisingly – started as shoes.
The star of Honeymoon in Vegas is also a TV producer, the co-founder of the spirit “The Perfect Cosmo by SJP” (Carrie’s favorite drink), is involved with publishing, fragrances and has a wine label – to name a few.


And just like that
Also unlike Carrie and her hapless search for romance, the star of Footloose found love in the early 1990s with Matthew Broderick, the star of Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.
The adorable couple – who starred on Broadway together – married on May 19, 1997, and have been together ever since.
When Broderick was asked to reveal his secret for a successful marriage, he answered: “I don’t know the secret at all, but I, you know, I’m very grateful and I love her. It’s amazing. I mean, I can’t believe that it’s been that long. It doesn’t feel like it.”
The couple share three kids, son James Wilkie (born 2002), along with twins Tabitha Hodge and Marion Loretta Elwell, who joined the family in 2009, via surrogate.
The woman leads a busy life and should be applauded for her accomplishments, not criticized.


Speaking natural in real life, the actor said, “It’s not how I think of myself, and I think it’s probably the healthier approach.”
She continues, “It’s just not a reality – not when you have three kids, and you go to the market, and there are hungry people at home. You have a limited time to do it. There’s just no time to let vanity enter into that.”

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