In every country, women have their own secrets for how to stay young and beautiful. But French women have the most natural charm in the world because they somehow manage to look 18 at the age of 42, like Audrey Tautou. Of course there are no universal tips that can help everyone, but French women definitely have some useful habits that help them stay charming at any age.
Bright Side has discovered the secrets of the beauty routine that almost all French women follow.
12. They don’t use contouring.
French women don’t like contouring because it hides the natural features of the face and looks unnatural. What they do love is a little bronzer on the cheeks to make themselves look fresh and shiny.
11. They don’t mind imperfection.
If you take a closer look at French women and their style, you will notice that almost all of them prefer a little messiness. It may be about hair, it may be about their accessories, like a scarf, or the way their clothes are sewn. This allows them to look natural and free, as if they don’t do anything special to look beautiful.
10. They prefer red lips.
You can always brighten up your appearance by using red lipstick. Women from Paris are completely convinced of this: it does not matter what your style is, you could be wearing torn jeans and a T-shirt or a dress with a huge hat. But adding red lipstick will immediately elevate any look.
9. They don’t get French manicures.
True French women never have “the perfect manicure” that took several hours to apply. Because this would send the message that you actually had to spend an immense amount of time, and money, on something so small.
Parisian women think that it is unnecessary, because they were already born beautiful and they are not going to spend hours on something so trivial. So, the most popular nail style among French women is short nails with clear polish or no polish at all. The same goes for their pedicure.
8. They have a hair styling secret.
French women prefer to not damage their hair and they don’t use a hair dryer or a flat iron every day. They mostly use expensive products — all of them have their favorite hair masks, and oil for their hair, and also a good hairbrush made of natural materials.
This is what they do to hair in France: they wash it and let it dry without a hair dryer, and the next day, when it becomes smooth, they style it.
7. Their makeup bag is not full of products.
French women have only 2 lipsticks: one natural color, and a red one for a great mood or an evening out.
They choose a light powder and a foundation to make their skin shine. But they don’t reapply it every hour, mostly so they don’t look like a wall with plaster on it. Healthy skin is supposed to shine just a little. They consider this is beautiful and natural.
Eye makeup only means mascara on the eyelashes. In the evening, they might add a messy, smoky eye effect. But it is supposed to be imperfect with that French element of messiness.
So, the 6 products in a French woman’s bag include: a good foundation, a powder with a shine, a mascara, an eyeliner, and 2 lipsticks. Now that’s an idea everyone should try!
6. They spend good money on haircuts.
Women in France are sure of one thing: you can wear €10 clothes and nobody will ever know that they are cheap, but get a cheap haircut once and your appearance will be completely ruined. This is why they are ready to pay a fortune to a good hairstylist and they go back to the same person for many years.
Also, a good haircut doesn’t need any fixing, so you don’t have to style your hair every day, only on very special occasions.
5. They have a simple beauty routine.
If there is one thing a French woman really needs it’s expensive cosmetics like a good face cleanser, a sunscreen, and a moisturizer. They will often add different oils for body and hair to this list.
In France, women live according to “the less is more” principle. They use just a few cosmetic products, but the ones they use are expensive.
So, when it comes to peels that are used all over the world, French women don’t really use them. They prefer masks, they use them really often, and they use a lot of different kinds — because good masks restore and rejuvenate the skin.
4. They believe in natural eyebrows.
You will never see a real French woman who has very heavy eyebrows that are an unnaturally dark color. Instead, they take good care of their eyebrows, making sure that they stay healthy, big, and thick.
They may put a little makeup on their eyebrows, but most of the time they don’t even do that. They just use some gel for styling.
3. They don’t diet.
Not a single French women in her right mind would ever start a diet. They are completely sure: the short-term effect of a calorie deficit is not only not worth the effort, but will also damage the skin because of the lack of vitamins.
For them, the main secret to having a beautiful body is eating a little. They eat anything they want, but not a lot of it. And when they feel that they are full, they just stop eating, not feeling forced to finish the meal.
However, French women do try to avoid an excess of sugar in their diet because it damages the skin. But they are not afraid of foods with a lot of fat.
2. They believe in the power of cold showers.
French women know about the importance of having a cold shower after a hot bath. This stimulates the blood circulation and helps to keep the skin toned. As a result, they always look fresh and cool.
1. They accept themselves as they are, flaws and all.
French women rarely need the services of plastic surgeons. It is very unlikely that you will meet an actress, a model, or a fashion blogger in Paris who has a fake nose, cheekbones, or lips that have fillers.
French women learn to accept themselves as they are, flaws and all. This is what makes them so different and alive. This is why French women are always able to highlight their advantages and their uniqueness.
Do you have your own tricks for how to stay beautiful that have been passed on from generation to generation? Share them with us!
Please note: This article was updated in April 2022 to correct source material and factual inaccuracies.
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My In-Laws Never Invite Me to Family Dinners – I Was Shocked to Find Out Why
Laura never felt quite at home with her in-laws until a misunderstanding about a “smell” at a family dinner led to a humorous yet eye-opening revelation.
Ever since marrying Mark, I’ve felt like a stranger to his family. His parents, the Harrisons, hold regular family dinners that I’m seldom invited to. Mark always goes alone, returning with excuses that do little to comfort me. “They didn’t think you’d be interested,” or “It was a last-minute plan,” he’d say.
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But deep down, I couldn’t shake off the rejection. I needed to belong, to show that I cared about being part of their lives. So, I made a decision that Sunday: I would go to their next dinner uninvited. To soften my unexpected arrival, I baked a batch of my best brownies. It felt like the perfect icebreaker.
Carrying the warm tray of brownies, I stood at the front door of the Harrison home, my heart pounding in my chest. The house, a large, elegantly maintained Victorian, always seemed imposing to me.
The Harrison’s house | Source: Midjourney
Mark had told me stories of his childhood here, playing in the lush garden and climbing the big oak tree in the backyard. But to me, it was like a fortress guarding family secrets I wasn’t privy to.
I rang the doorbell, smoothing down my dress nervously. After a few moments, Mrs. Harrison opened the door. Her expression shifted from surprise to a constrained smile. “Laura! What a surprise… please, come in,” she said, stepping aside. Her voice was polite, but I sensed a hesitation.
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As I entered, the smell of roasted meat filled the air. The house was buzzing with the sounds of laughter and clinking glasses. I moved through the foyer into the living room where the family gathered. Everyone paused as I entered, their expressions a mix of curiosity and discomfort. “I brought some brownies,” I said, trying to sound cheerful as I held up the tray.
“Oh, how lovely,” Mrs. Harrison remarked, her smile not quite reaching her eyes. The others murmured their thanks, eyeing the brownies but continuing their conversations. I felt an air of tension, as if my presence had thrown off a delicate balance.
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I tried to mingle, complimenting the home, asking about work and recent vacations. But each conversation felt strained, the responses polite but brief. Something was off, and I couldn’t put my finger on it. Despite my best efforts to blend in and be part of the family, I still felt like an outsider looking in.
A few days after the dinner, I decided it was time to address what I believed was an uncomfortable truth about my presence in the Harrison household. Under the guise of a special announcement, I invited the entire family over to our home.
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“It’s important, and I would really appreciate everyone being there,” I emphasized to Mrs. Harrison over the phone, who reluctantly agreed. The air was thick with nervous anticipation as I prepared for the evening.
On the day, as the Harrisons arrived, I could feel my heart racing. I greeted each family member with a warm but tense smile. The living room was filled with a mixture of curious and apprehensive faces as everyone settled in. Mark looked at me, puzzled by the formality I had infused into the evening.
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“Thank you all for coming,” I began, my voice slightly shaking. “I have something special to share with you today.” I then presented the gift basket filled with various scented items.
“I thought this might help with the smell issue so I can be more welcome at your gatherings,” I said, my tone a mix of sincerity and defensiveness.
Laura talks in front of her family | Source: Midjourney
The room fell silent. Faces turned from puzzled to shocked. Mrs. Harrison’s mouth fell open slightly, and Mr. Harrison’s eyebrows knitted in confusion. Mark’s gaze darted from the basket to me, his confusion evident.
“Smell issue? Laura, what are you talking about?” Mrs. Harrison finally broke the silence, her voice a mixture of concern and bewilderment.
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I swallowed hard, realizing the conversation was not going the way I had anticipated. “Last time at your house, I overheard talk about a problematic smell… I thought it was about me,” I confessed, feeling a rush of embarrassment.
Mr. Harrison cleared his throat and exchanged a glance with his wife. “Laura, I’m so sorry you felt that way, but you misunderstood. It’s not about you personally. It’s your perfume.” He looked genuinely apologetic. “I have severe allergies to certain fragrances, and your perfume happens to trigger my allergies. We never wanted to upset you.”
Mrs. Harrison talks to Laura | Source: Midjourney
The room was quiet for a moment before I let out a breath I didn’t realize I had been holding. Relief washed over me, mingled with a deep embarrassment. “I wish I had known sooner,” I muttered, a faint smile breaking through the awkward tension.
Mrs. Harrison approached me, her expression softened. “This is all a big misunderstanding. We should have communicated better. We’re truly sorry for not being upfront about it,” she said, reaching out to take my hand.
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We all shared a moment of collective realization about the importance of clear communication. Mark stepped closer, putting his arm around me, his presence reassuring. Apologies and expressions of regret flowed more freely now, and the evening slowly shifted from uncomfortable revelations to heartfelt conversations.
By the time the night ended, the air had cleared in more ways than one. I felt a renewed sense of connection with the Harrisons, grounded in honesty and a mutual willingness to understand each other better. We agreed to keep the lines of communication open to prevent such misunderstandings in the future.
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After that night, things changed for the better. We all saw how crucial it is to communicate openly. I switched to hypoallergenic products to not trigger Mr. Harrison’s allergies.
This small change made a big difference. Gradually, I felt more included in family events. The Harrisons made sure I felt welcome, and I started enjoying our gatherings.
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We set up a family group chat, where we now share everything from day-to-day updates to plans for upcoming events. Everyone makes an effort to be clear and open about what’s going on. It’s such a relief to feel that I am finally a real part of Mark’s family.
Grocery Store Cashier Asked Me a Question – I Thought He Revealed My Husband’s Cheating, but the Reality Left Me Stunned
Margaret’s routine grocery trip turned life-changing after a cashier’s remark. Was her husband hiding a secret baby, or was the truth more heartwarming?
Every Thursday marks the highlight of my week—a simple, predictable trip to the grocery store. At 45, I find a strange comfort in the familiar aisles, the routine helping ground me in what has been a largely uneventful life.
Margaret walks along the store | Source: Midjourney
My husband, Daniel, and I have been married for twenty years. It’s been a quiet journey, filled with mutual understanding and acceptance, especially after we came to terms with not being able to have children. Our life together is comfortable, perhaps mundane to some, but it suits us perfectly.
This Thursday started like any other, but as I placed my groceries on the conveyor belt, a young cashier I hadn’t seen before struck up a conversation. “How’s the baby doing? Your husband was here last week, asking a lot about baby food allergies,” she said, scanning a box of cereal.
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I paused, my hand on a carton of milk. “I think you must be mistaken. We don’t have a baby,” I replied, the words stiff on my tongue as a wave of confusion washed over me. The cashier, a boy barely out of his teens, looked up, surprised.
“No, I remember him. He asked for hypoallergenic baby formula. He was very specific,” she insisted, pushing my groceries further along.
Shocked Margaret | Source: Midjourney
The drive home was a blur. My mind raced with impossible scenarios. Daniel, my Daniel, involved with someone else? A baby? The thought lodged itself in my chest, heavy and suffocating. We had faced our reality of childlessness together—had he found a way to undo that part of our life without me?
Sleep was elusive that night, and by morning, I was resolute. I needed answers. I couldn’t confront Daniel without knowing the full story. So, I did something I never thought I would—I decided to follow him.
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