A woman was utterly surprised when her Uber driver offered her an unsolicited tip on how to care for her remarkable skin.
Celebrating her striking beauty, the fashion icon, famously known as the “Queen of the Dark,” responded with laughter, dismissing his remarks with ease.
Read on to discover what the Uber driver said and how she transformed the situation into a learning opportunity!
Having spent her early years in refugee camps in Ethiopia and Kenya, Nyakim Gatwech envisioned America as a “heaven on earth.”
However, upon arriving in Buffalo at the age of 14, Gatwech found herself often alone, crying over the harsh judgments she faced due to her deeply pigmented skin.
Based in Minnesota and originally from South Sudan, the model endured years of bullying for her radiant dark complexion, with comments like, “You don’t take showers. That’s why your skin is dirty,” or, “Smile so we can see you, Nyakim. We can’t see you.”
“In class, for example, the teacher would ask a question and say, ‘Oh, Nyakim, can you answer that?’ A kid would say, ‘Who are you talking to? We can’t see her. She’s not here.’ The whole class would start laughing, and I would just cry,” the now 31-year-old woman shares with Cosmopolitan.
As a young girl desperate to fit in, it was tough when random men would bet on whether she was wearing leggings or if her skin was genuinely that dark.
“At one point, I did consider [bleaching my skin]. When I came to America from a refugee camp in Africa [at age 14], I lived in Buffalo, New York. I would cry myself to sleep after being bullied [about my skin],” she says. “There are so many beautiful dark-skinned Sudanese women who bleach their skin.”
Gatwech revealed that her own sister was among those who bleached their skin. “My own sister did it. But when I told her I wanted to [after living in America for a few months], she told me no. ‘I’m not going to let my daughter do it, or you, nobody.’”
Queen of the Dark
Now hailed as the Queen of the Dark, this woman – who has faced discrimination from designers, makeup artists, and even fellow models – feels empowered by overcoming negativity.
Gatwech’s confidence and profound love for her deep chocolatey skin are supported by her 962,000 loyal Instagram followers.
“My chocolate is elegant. So is what I represent… A nation of warriors,” she writes in one post.
Fans are captivated by her striking beauty.
“Omgggggg I love your skin and melanin,” one fan comments, while another says, “love your beautiful skin tone so much! God makes beautiful creations such as you to remind us of His magnificence!”
Responding to the overwhelming support, Gatwech states, “I grew to learn to love myself… Now, I am not bothered by it [the negativity]. I accept my skin, I love myself, and I’m not insecure about my skin anymore. I don’t think I’m ugly anymore. I have confidence in myself.”
‘Stupidest questions’
A few years ago, Gatwech recounts an encounter with an Uber driver who asked if she’d ever consider bleaching her unique skin.
“He said, ‘Wow, you’re dark,’” Gatwech tells Cosmopolitan about her conversation with the driver. “I just laughed. I wanted to know why he thought I should. He said because life would be easier for me. It would be easier for me to be in a relationship, or guys would be more attracted to me if I was lighter. If I was going to a job interview, I would get the job opportunities because I’m lighter. I just said, ‘[Even if] being lighter would make my life easier, I’d rather take the [hard] road.’”
She adds, “I’m accustomed to people asking the most absurd questions about my skin.”
Gatwech then shared her story on Instagram, accompanied by a stunning photo of herself with three other dark-skinned Sudanese women.
She wrote, “A nation with people so dark you won’t believe your eyes… skin so rich and teeth so bright. Gosh, how I love my country, my people, and everything that comes with it.”
She detailed her encounter with the Uber driver: “[SIC] I was asked by my Uber driver the other day, he said, ‘Don’t take this offensively, but if you were given 10 thousand dollars, would you bleach your skin for that amount?’ I couldn’t even respond; I started laughing so hard. Then he said, ‘So that’s a no?’ and I was like, ‘Hell to the f*cking yeah, that’s a no. Why on earth would I ever bleach this beautiful melanin God blessed me with?’ Then he asked, ‘So you see it as a blessing?’”
Her followers quickly responded with praise and support.
“I guess he didn’t get the memo… black is beautiful,” one fan commented.
“I love you for loving you,” shared another. A third added, “Why would we ever want to mess up something so beautiful?”
When asked by Yahoo Beauty what advice she would give to young black girls facing similar challenges, she said, “You are beautiful, you are unique, and there are people who love you just the way you are. They say the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice. Embrace your darkness!”
I brought my new boyfriend to a family dinner, upon seeing him, my dad instantly dialed the police
When Alice introduced her new boyfriend, Kevin, to her parents, she was excited about a cozy family dinner. However, the evening turned into chaos when her father locked Kevin in the basement and called the police, shattering Alice’s sense of safety and trust.
Alice had eagerly awaited this day. Kevin, a mechanic, often put off meeting her family, claiming he was too busy with work. But today was different; he had taken time off, and Alice couldn’t wait to share a meal with her loved ones. On the way to her parents’ home, Alice told Kevin about her mother’s famous lasagna, which he seemed excited to try. He looked nice and calm but was clearly a bit nervous about the meeting.
When they arrived at her parents’ cozy house, her dad stood by the door looking serious. Alice had always known him to be protective, but she didn’t expect what happened next. As soon as they entered, her dad’s expression changed. He looked at Kevin with suspicion.
Alice introduced Kevin, but her dad barely acknowledged him. After a tense moment, he shook Kevin’s hand but seemed on edge. Inside, her mom welcomed Kevin warmly, but her dad quickly suggested showing him the basement.
Confused, Alice felt something was off, but her dad reassured her. He led Kevin downstairs while Alice was instructed to stay behind. As they went down, Alice’s unease grew. After a few minutes, she heard a loud noise and rushed to the basement door. She called out for them, but suddenly, the door slammed shut, and she heard the lock click. Panic set in as she pounded on the door, demanding to know what was happening.
Her dad shouted that she should call the police because he believed Kevin was a danger. Shocked and terrified, Alice grabbed her phone and called for help, explaining that her father had locked her boyfriend in the basement.
Kevin’s desperate shouts echoed from below, insisting that it was a mistake. Her mom rushed in, visibly confused and worried. Alice explained that her dad thought Kevin was dangerous, and they anxiously waited for the police to arrive.
The tension was unbearable. They could hear muffled voices from the basement, one stern and the other pleading. Alice felt her heart racing with fear and uncertainty. Her mom comforted her, but Alice could see the worry in her eyes.
As they waited, Alice wondered who Kevin really was and what her dad knew. Memories of happier times flashed through her mind, and she felt crushed that this dinner had turned into a nightmare. Suddenly, they heard a loud crash from the basement. Alice screamed for her dad, and he shouted back that Kevin was breaking a window. Glass shattered, and Alice realized Kevin was escaping.
As Kevin fled, the sound of sirens filled the air. The police arrived just in time but found that Kevin had already disappeared into the night. They rushed to the basement to assess the situation while Alice’s dad emerged looking grim.
Alice demanded to know why her dad had locked Kevin up. He took a deep breath and explained that two years ago, a man had conned his business partner’s daughter by promising to marry her and then disappearing with all her money. He revealed that he recognized Kevin as that man, whose real name was Ryan.
Alice was stunned. Her dad described how Ryan had manipulated the woman, and he couldn’t allow that to happen to Alice. The police began to gather information and search the area, but it seemed Ryan had vanished.
Determined to find him, Alice suggested they look for clues. As they searched the room, she noticed something near the broken window: Kevin’s fitness bracelet. She picked it up, realizing it had GPS tracking.
Her dad examined the bracelet with renewed hope. They showed it to the police, who quickly began tracking its signal. The officers located Ryan at an old warehouse on the outskirts of town and surrounded the building. When they saw Ryan trying to escape through a back door, the police called for him to stop. Realizing he was caught, he surrendered and was taken into custody.
Alice felt a wave of relief wash over her as they headed to the police station. There, she witnessed Ryan being led inside, defeated. The truth had come out; he had been lying to her all along. Anger and betrayal surged within her, but she also felt grateful for her dad’s protection.
At the station, the police confirmed that Ryan was indeed the con man her dad had warned her about. As they left, Alice thanked her father for saving her from a terrible mistake. He reassured her that all he wanted was her safety.
With her mom joining the embrace, Alice felt the warmth of her family’s love, which strengthened her resolve. They returned home to the cold lasagna, which now symbolized a difficult but memorable evening.
As they sat down to eat, Alice couldn’t believe the chaos that had unfolded. Her mom squeezed her hand, reassuring her that they were just relieved she was safe. Her dad nodded, reminding them all to be cautious about the people they let into their lives. The experience had shaken Alice, but it also brought her family closer. She felt thankful for their love and vowed never to take it for granted again.
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