Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
What It Means If Your Nails Have a Half-Moon Shape
Have you noticed a white half-moon shape at the base of your fingernails? This feature, known as the lunula, is more than just a natural design—it’s a vital part of your nail and can provide important clues about your health.
The term “lunula” comes from the Latin word for “little moon,” and in many traditional health practices, including Chinese medicine, it’s used as an indicator of overall wellness. Changes in the lunula, such as its size, color, or disappearance, can reflect shifts in your health status. Interestingly, when health improves, the lunula tends to return to its normal appearance.
What Does the Presence or Absence of Lunulae Say About Your Health?
According to medical experts, having eight to ten clearly visible, milky white lunulas on both hands is a sign of good health. The brighter and more defined the lunulas, the stronger your health.
Typical Lunulas
People with healthy, white lunulas tend to have strong immunity, good overall health, and higher energy levels. A reduction in the size or number of lunulas, however, may indicate a decline in these areas. If the lunula is only visible on your thumbs, it could suggest physical weakness and a greater susceptibility to illness.
Missing Lunulas
The absence of lunulas (a condition sometimes referred to as “nolunula”) has been linked to various health concerns. Studies suggest it may be associated with conditions like iron deficiency, chronic kidney disease, depression, thyroid or pituitary disorders, and a potential deficiency in vitamin B-12.
If you notice changes in your lunula, it’s worth checking your vitamin B-12 and iodine levels, as well as having your blood pressure and thyroid function assessed. In short, your lunula can serve as an indicator of your overall health, and any significant changes should be taken seriously and verified by a healthcare professional.
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