Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
Child Star passed away today. When you find out who he is, you will cry
away at the age of 46. The news of his untimely death has left fans and loved ones in shock and mourning.
Born on May 26, 1978, in a suburb of Los Angeles, California, Benji’s acting career started at a young age. Throughout the 1980s, he graced our screens with appearances on popular shows like The A-Team, T.J. Hooker, Punky Brewster, The Twilight Zone, and Steven Spielberg’s Amazing Stories.
However, it was his role as Brian Tanner on the beloved TV series Alf that made him a household name. From 1986 to 1990, Benji captivated audiences with his performance as the endearing younger brother of the extraterrestrial Alf.
Alongside his successful acting career, Benji was known for his love of dogs. His Instagram profile proudly stated, “Lover of dogs, traveling, late-night runs, music, podcasts, Navy, bipolar, major depression disorder, GAD, ALF, VR, Nike, Cinema 4D, Creative Cloud.” His furry companion, Hans, was not only a loyal friend but also his dedicated service dog.
On a fateful day, tragedy struck Benji and Hans. It remains unclear what exactly caused their passing, but those close to him believe that he may have gone to deposit a check and unfortunately succumbed to the scorching heat inside his car. The loss of both Benji and his beloved service dog has left a deep void in the hearts of those who knew and cherished them.
As news of Benji’s passing spreads, his sister, Rebecca, expressed gratitude for the outpouring of support, stating, “Their family is grieving a great loss and appreciate everyone’s thoughts and kind words.” The tragic loss of this talented and cherished child star will not be forgotten, as his memory lives on in the hearts of his family, friends, and fans around the world.
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