During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Boy Cries At His Mom’s Grave Saying “Take Me With You” And Then Something Incredible Happened.
In a world filled with sorrow and longing, a young boy named Kevin found solace in the embrace of a stranger. Devastated by the loss of his mother, Kevin’s life took a remarkable turn when he encountered a woman whose touch brought him a glimmer of hope. Let us delve into this heartwarming tale and witness the power of faith, dreams, and the enduring bond of family
The Orphaned Boy and the MockeryKevin, a six-year-old boy, endured the pain of losing his mother in a tragic accident. With no knowledge of his father and no family members willing to care for him, he found himself confined to the walls of an orphanage. The other children, lacking understanding and empathy, mocked Kevin for his belief that his mother would one day rescue him from the confines of their shared existence.
The Yearning for ConnectionLiving amidst the skepticism and taunting of his peers, Kevin often retreated into daydreams where his mother would whisk him away from the orphanage and into her loving arms. These dreams provided him temporary solace from the harsh reality that surrounded him.A Journey to RememberOne day, the orphanage granted the children a rare outing to a nearby park. Amidst the laughter and playfulness of his companions, Kevin decided to escape their jeers and sprinted towards the city cemetery. His destination was his mother’s grave—a place he longed to visit but was seldom allowed to.A Mother’s TouchAt his mother’s resting place, Kevin poured out his heart, his tears mingling with the grief that engulfed him. Suddenly, he felt a comforting hand on his shoulder, breaking through his sorrow. Startled, he turned to see a radiant woman standing beside him, as if illuminated by rays of sunlight. To his astonishment, she shared his mother’s name.A Bond of HopeThe woman, named Susan, recognized the pain in Kevin’s eyes and offered him solace. She accompanied him back to the orphanage, forging a connection that transcended their brief encounter. Along the way, they stumbled upon a small amusement park, where Kevin’s joy radiated as he rode the carousel and relished an ice cream treat. Susan bid him farewell, assuring him of his mother’s eternal love.Dreams and RevelationThat night, Susan found herself in the midst of a peculiar dream. Her late son, Adam, appeared to her, delivering a note inscribed with the address “443 Washington Street.” The dream recurred multiple times, leaving Susan puzzled and compelled to share it with her husband, Richard. Adam’s plea to “take him with her” echoed in her mind, intertwined with her encounter with Kevin.A Serendipitous DiscoveryDriven by curiosity, Susan and Richard embarked on a journey to uncover the meaning behind the enigmatic dream. To their astonishment, they arrived at the address Susan had seen in her sleep—443 Washington Street. The sight that greeted them confirmed their deepest intuition—it was the very orphanage where Susan had met Kevin just days before.A Prayer AnsweredThere, by the window on the ground floor, sat Kevin, lost in contemplation. Susan pointed him out to Richard, realizing the remarkable connection they had forged with this young boy. They knew deep within their hearts that their purpose was clear—to adopt Kevin and provide him with the love and care he so deserved.A Family ReunitedThe news of Susan and Richard’s intention to adopt him filled Kevin with surprise and joy. Finally, he felt the warmth of someone’s genuine interest and love. With gratitude in his heart, Kevin expressed his belief that his prayers had been answered. He knew his mother had indeed taken him away from the orphanage, leading him to the family he had always longed for.The Power of Faith and LoveAround the dinner table, Susan and Richard acknowledged the divine intervention that had brought them together. They expressed their gratitude for the bond they had formed with Kevin—a bond that had grown from a chance encounter to a loving family united by faith, dreams, and answered prayers.In a world often marred by loss and despair, the story of Kevin, Susan, and Richard reminds us of the extraordinary power of human connection, hope, and the unwavering love that can arise from the most unexpected of circumstances. May their tale inspire us to embrace compassion, cherish our loved ones, and never underestimate the profound impact we can have on one another’s lives.Have you ever experienced a serendipitous encounter that changed your life? Share your stories and reflections in the comments below and let us celebrate the miracles that can occur when paths intersect at the perfect moment.
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