Ali MacGraw became a Hollywood superstar overnight. But just as quickly as she rose to fame, she disappeared from show business altogether.
Today, the 84-year-old actress has settled down in a remote and tiny town, and she’s aging gracefully with her grey hair.
Ali MacGraw
Ali MacGraw – born Elizabeth Alice MacGraw – was born on April 1, 1939, in Pound Ridge, New York, USA. Her mother, Frances, was an artist and worked at a school in Paris, later settling in Greenwich Village. She married Richard MacGraw, who was also an artist. In 1939, Ali was born.
Ali’s father Richard supposedly had issues from his own childhood which made him a little bit different from others.
He had survived a terrible childhood in an orphanage, running away at the age of 16 to go to sea. He would later study at an art school in Munich, Germany.
“Daddy was frightened and really, really angry. He never forgave his real parents for giving him up,” Ali explained, saying said her father’s adult life was spent “suppressing the rage that covered all his hurt.”
Ali MacGraw – childhood
Money was short for their family, too. Frances and Richard, together with Ali and her brother, Richard Jr, had to move into a house on a Pound Ridge wilderness preserve which they shared with an elderly couple.
“There were no doors; we shared the kitchen and bathroom with them,” Ali said. “It was utter lack of privacy. It was horrible.”
Mom Francis worked with several commercial-art assignments and supported the family. At the same time, Richard had a hard time selling his paintings, and as a result became very frustrated. Ali’s brother Richard became a victim for his anger at home.
“On good days he was great, but on bad days he was horrendous,” she recalled. “Daddy would beat my brother up, badly. I was witness to it, and it was terrible.”
Ali was the daughter of artists, and she knew that she, too, wanted to go into a creative line of work as she got older. She earned a scholarship at the prep school Rosemary Hall, and in 1956, she moved to study at Wellesley College in Massachusetts.
By the age of 22, Ali MacGraw moved to New York and got her first job as an assistant editor at Harper’s Bazaar, working with photographers as an assistant.
Fashion work in New York
Fashion editor Diana Vreeland hired Ali as, what she recalls as, a “flunkie”. Ever seen the film The Devil Wears Prada? Well, it was pretty much that.
“It was ‘Girl! Get me a pencil!’,” MacGraw recalled.
The future Hollywood celebrity worked her job as an assistant for several months. Then, about six months in, fashion photographer Melvin Sokolsky noticed her beautiful looks, and Ali MacGraw was hired as a stylist,and given a better salary. She’d end up staying in that position for six years.
“I don’t know where she got this work ethic, but Ali would come in at eight a.m., and many times I’d come back at one in the morning and she would still be doing things for the next day,” Ruth Ansel, a former art director of Vanity Fair and Harper’s Bazaar recalls.
Ali was great as a stylist. But soon, she was asked to work in front of the cameras as a model. It didn’t take long before she was on magazine covers all over the world, even appearing in television commercials. For thing led to another, and Ali tumbled headfirst into the profession of acting.
She had been sketched nude by Salvador Dali a couple of years earlier. But when the surrealist artist started sucking her toes, MacGraw decided that she’d rather be an actress than a model.
Ali MacGraw – films
Ali went straight from an unknown stylist and into the world of cinema, and boy, did she do it with a bang.
She was untutored in the art of film, which gave her acting another dimension. Her natural beauty was stunning, and the audience loved her.
Following a small role in A Lovely Way to Die (1968), she was asked to star in the 1969 film Goodbye, Columbus. It turned out to be a great call, with MacGraw receiving a Golden Globe for Most Promising Newcomer – Female. The following year, she got her big international breakthrough with a role that would pretty much sum up her career.
Ali MacGraw had received a script from her agent. She’d read it and wept twice because of how much she loved it. She decided she really wanted a part in it, and got herself a meeting with the film’s producer Robert Evans – who at the time was Paramount Picture’s head of production – at the Beverly Hills Hotel’s Polo Lounge. Not only did Evans think she was perfect for the part in the movie Love Story, he absolutely fell in love with her.
MacGraw – playing the role of Jenny – acted alongside Ryan O’Neal in the movie Love Story. The American romantic drama film, in which Ali played a working-class college student, became a smash hit.
Love Story hit the cinemas in 1970, and wow did the audience cherish it. It became the No. 1 film in the United States, and at the time, it was the sixth highest grossing movie in history in the US and Canada.
Award-winning actress
MacGraw earned an Academy Award nomination for her role, and the film itself earned her another win and five Academy Award Nominations. She also won herself a second Golden Globe as Best Actress in a Motion Picture – Drama.
Film producer Robert Evans not only loved her on screen, he had fallen in love with her in real life, and that love was reciprocated. In 1969, the couple tied the knot, and two years later, they welcomed their son, Josh Evans.
Ali MacGraw was the hot new star of the 1970s, but her private life and marriage with Evans would soon come to an end. Steve McQueen had visited their home to ask her to star alongside him in The Getaway, and the two Hollywood stars clicked right away.
“I looked in those blue eyes, and my knees started knocking,” MacGraw recalled. “I became obsessed.”
MacGraw and McQueen had an affair, and she soon left Evans to live with the actor in Malibu, along with her son Josh.
“Steve was this very original, principled guy who didn’t seem to be part of the system, and I loved that,” she said.
Ali MacGraw – Steve McQueen
But after a while, Ali realized that Steve McQueen had his own problems. Following his father abandoning his mother, a then-14-year-old Steve was sent to a school for delinquent children. MacGraw said he never trusted women after that.
(Photo by Silver Screen Collection/Getty Images)
He didn’t like that she worked and had her own career. For a while, Ali stayed home to raise their sons. But her husband’s demands were something Ali simply couldn’t accept in the long run.
Not only that, but he’d explode if she even looked at another man. He also wanted her to sign a prenuptial agreement, promising not to ask for anything if they’d divorce. She abided by the agreement when they did divorce in 1978.
“I couldn’t even go to art class because Steve expected his ‘old lady’ to be there every night with dinner on the table,” she recalled.
“Steve’s idea of hot was not me. He liked blond bimbos, and they were always around.”
This was the start of a pretty dark time in MacGraw’s life. She arrived on set to shoot the 1978 film Convoy both drunk and high, which prompted her to quit drugs.
My Best Friend Disappeared After I Watched Her Kids—The Shocking Truth Revealed!
My name is Melanie, and I want to share the most important day of my life. I had just returned home after a long and tiring day at work.
My best friend asked me to watch her kids for just one hour while she ran an errand. I said yes without thinking too much about it. She was in a hurry, and I didn’t want to let her down.
As time went by, I noticed that my friend was taking longer than expected. I tried calling her, but there was no answer. I started to worry. After a while, I realized something was really wrong.
I ended up calling the police to file a missing person report. They took my concerns seriously and began looking for her. While they searched, I took care of her children as if they were my own. I fed them, played with them, and tucked them in at night.
All I wanted was to relax with a glass of wine and enjoy a silly romantic comedy. You know, the kind of movie where you don’t have to think too hard, just laugh at the easy-to-predict story and shed a few tears at the happy ending.
But life, as it often does, had different plans.
I was just about to hit play when there was a knock at the door. I wasn’t expecting anyone, so I paused, looking through the peephole.
To my surprise, it was Christina, my best friend. And she wasn’t alone. She had her two kids, Dylan, who was five, and baby Mike, only two months old, wrapped up in her arms.
“Melanie, I need your help,” she said, her voice shaky. “I have to see a doctor right away. Can you watch the boys for an hour? Just an hour, I promise.”
Chris looked worried, and honestly, it scared me. She was usually the strong one, the one who had everything under control. Seeing her like this, so vulnerable, was shocking.
I felt a knot in my stomach, but I couldn’t say no to her. How could I?
“Of course, Chris,” I said, trying to sound more sure than I felt. “Come in, let’s get you sorted.”
She handed me baby Mike and kissed Dylan on the forehead.
“I’ll be back soon,” she said, her eyes wide with an urgency I’d never seen before. And then she was gone, leaving me with two kids and a head full of questions.
That hour turned into two. Then three. Night came, and Chris still hadn’t returned.
I called her phone many times, but it went straight to voicemail. My worry grew into full-blown panic. I put the boys to bed, trying to hide my fear from them.
Days went by with no word from Chris. I filed a missing person report, hoping the police could find her quickly. In the meantime, I was left to care for Dylan and Mike. I told myself it was temporary. Just until Chris came back.
But she didn’t come back. Weeks turned into months, and the boys started to feel more like my own kids than Chris’s. They began calling me “Mom,” a habit that started naturally and felt strangely right.
The first time Dylan called me Mom was at his school’s parent-teacher meeting. He ran up to his friends and proudly introduced me, “This is my mom!”
My heart nearly burst. I knew then that I couldn’t just be their temporary guardian anymore.
They needed stability, a real home, and someone who would be there for them always. So, I began the legal process to adopt them. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it.
Mike’s first steps were a joyful celebration, a moment of pure happiness that we shared. Dylan’s first soccer game, where he scored a goal and ran to me shouting, “Did you see that, Mom? Did you see?”
Those moments brought us together as a family.
Fast forward seven years, and we went to a seaside town for vacation.
The ocean breeze felt refreshing, and the boys were laughing, carefree and happy. We walked along the shore, collecting shells and splashing in the waves. It was perfect.
Then, out of nowhere, Dylan stopped. He pointed to a woman in the crowd.
“Is that her?” he asked, his voice trembling. I followed his gaze and felt my heart stop. It was Chris. Older and worn, but still Chris.
“Yes, it is,” I whispered, unable to believe my eyes.
Dylan didn’t wait.
He took off running toward her, leaving Mike and me standing in the sand, our breaths caught in our throats. My heart raced as I watched my son sprint toward the woman who had left him so long ago.
“Why did you leave us?” Dylan shouted, his voice rising over the sound of the waves. “Do you know what you did? We waited for you! Mom waited for you!”
The woman turned, eyes wide with shock, but then her expression hardened.
“You must have me confused with someone else,” she said, her voice flat and cold. “I’m not who you think I am.”
Dylan stood his ground, tears streaming down his face. “LIAR! I DON’T CARE
He turned then and pointed at me, his eyes filled with fierce protectiveness that made my heart ache.
I walked over, holding Mike close.
“Chris, would you say something, please? We deserve to know what happened,” I said.
But she turned away, staring at the ocean with a hard expression.
I placed my hand on Dylan’s shoulder.
“Dylan, let’s go,” I said softly, but he shook his head, not finished yet.
“When I grow up,” Dylan continued, his voice breaking but strong, “I’ll make a lot of money and buy my real mom a house and a car and do anything to make her smile! Because she deserves it! And you should spend your life alone!”
With that, he turned away, leaving Chris—or whoever she said she was—standing there, shocked and silent.
We left the beach quietly, the weight of the meeting heavy on us. The boys were silent, their usual chatter replaced by the heavy silence of unresolved feelings.
There was no cheering the boys up as we went to the hotel to check in. It took a while, but we finally headed to our room.
I was relieved to get away from the beach, but the sight that greeted us wasn’t comforting.
The bathroom was a mess, clearly untouched by the cleaning staff.
“Just what we need,” I muttered under my breath. I picked up the phone and called the front desk. “Hi, we just checked into room 212, and the bathroom hasn’t been cleaned. Can you send someone up, please?”
A few minutes later, there was a knock at the door. I opened it to find a cleaning lady standing there, her head down, face hidden by a worn-out cap.
“Come in,” I said, stepping aside.
She moved slowly, carefully, and something about her seemed familiar.
When she finally looked up, I gasped. It was Chris again!
“You have to be kidding me!” I yelped.
“What are you doing here?” Dylan asked, his voice a mix of disbelief and anger. “Are you following us?”
Chris—or Alice, as her name tag read—looked like she was about to collapse.
“I… I work here. I came to clean the bathroom,” she said, her voice barely above a whisper. “But now… I’m sorry, Melanie. I never meant for any of this to happen.”
“I was desperate when I came to you that day,” she continued, tears streaming down her face. “I had fallen into a really dark place, and I just… I couldn’t take care of two kids.”
“Then you should’ve asked for help,” I snapped. “I would’ve done anything I could…”
My voice trailed off as I stared into Chris’s eyes. The truth hit me hard: The woman I’d always thought was so strong had been struggling in secret, unwilling or unable to ask for help.
Her leaving the boys with me was the most she could do. It was her last, desperate attempt to save her children and herself. And it broke my heart.
“It never had to be this way, Chris.”
“There was no other choice,” she replied, her voice full of regret.
Dylan’s face hardened, and he stepped in between Chris and me. He reached into his pocket and pulled out a dollar, pressing it into Chris’s hand.
“Don’t worry about the bathroom,” he said coldly. “We will clean it ourselves.”
Chris stood there, tears welling up in her eyes, as Dylan shut the door in her face. He then turned to me, and I pulled him into a tight hug.
I held my boys close, comforting them as best I could. Part of me was grateful we had seen Chris. We finally had some closure on why she did what she did, even if Dylan and Mike were too young to understand.
“Can we go home, Mom?” Dylan asked. “I don’t want to see her again.”
We left within the hour.
Back home, life slowly returned to normal. The meeting with Chris became a past chapter, something we had faced and moved on from.
We had survived abandonment, heartache, and uncertainty, but we had come out stronger and more united than ever. Our family was a testament to the power of love and strength, and as I watched my boys play, I knew we could face anything together.
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