This is a love story that is equally lovely and painful. When they first met, fell in love, and had a kid, Liz passed away in childbirth. Matt’s actions following her passing were really inspiring.
High school students Liz Goodman and Matt Logelin first crossed paths at a gas station one sunny afternoon. Both of them were raised in Minnetonka, Minnesota, but their chance encounter marked the beginning of a real love story.
Senior year of high school was when Liz and Matt met. Fireworks sparked when she walked up to Matt after he caught her eye; the two became inseparable… up till the start of college.
As graduation drew near, the high school sweethearts had to face the fact that they were attending colleges in different parts of the country! In contrast to Matt, who remained at the University of Minnesota, Liz was traveling to California.
For this couple, who persisted and stuck together throughout their studies, the distance was nothing. Matt continued on to get his master’s degree at Loyola University of Chicago. He was contemplating getting a Ph.D. when he realized he needed to follow his heart and not his mind.
Matt was aware that he could no longer stand to be so far from his love. In order to be with Liz, he moved halfway across the nation to Los Angeles in 2005, packing his stuff.
From then on, the two proceeded to enjoy their lives to the utmost. While traveling, Liz and Matt explored new places, made memories, and deepened their understanding of one another and the world they lived in. It was just a matter of time until Matt realized that this was it and got down on one knee in Nepal to ask Liz to marry him.
In front of their friends and family, they exchanged vows to love one another forever on August 13, 2005. Seeing these lovers grab life and their love by the horns was exhilarating. For the young couple, everything seems to be going great.
They were not just happier than ever in their romantic relationships, but also in their professional lives. Liz worked as a financial professional at Disney, while Matt was a project manager at Yahoo! in California. The two decided to buy a house jointly to take advantage of their newly discovered financial security. From then, everything just got better.
After two years of marriage in 2007, the couple decided to grow their family, and they were thrilled to find out Liz was carrying their first child!
Since many of Liz and Matt’s friends and family members reside in Minnesota, they were unable to accompany them on their amazing journey to parenthood. The soon-to-be parents made the decision to take action and launched a blog to inform their loved ones of Liz’s pregnancy progress.
The journey appeared bright and joyful for the happy couple as they anticipated their first child, but Liz had a tough pregnancy. The doctors advised her to spend a few weeks in bed since she had excruciating morning sickness.
Matt kept a close eye on her since he was anxious about his wife carrying his child. It was distressing to see Liz, who is often active and energetic, confined to her bed. After that, she was taken to the hospital and told to stay in bed for a few more weeks. Matt monitored their newly launched blog about being pregnant throughout the entire incident. He had no clue what he would soon publish on that specific website.
Since Liz’s pregnancy was considered high risk, she was brought to the delivery room twice, each time at least 7 weeks early owing to false alarms. The doctors kept a careful eye on her since they didn’t want to take any chances.
The baby’s arrival into the world was finally ready. Liz was still two months early, necessitating an urgent C-section. The lives of Matt and Liz Logelin were about to undergo a significant change on March 24, 2008.
The couple welcomed Madeline (Maddy) Logelin into their family after the surgery proceeded without a problem. When she was born, she weighed barely 3 pounds, 14 ounces. Since the new parents were thrilled, Liz only had a brief opportunity to see their beautiful baby girl (photographed). The medical workers hastened to get her to the newborn critical care unit since she was born early.
Due to Liz needing to be kept under observation for a further 24 hours after giving birth, she was unable to hold their daughter straight away. Once everything was through, Liz was prepared and eager to meet her baby girl who was now awake and well. She started to ride in a wheelchair to the ward.
Matt couldn’t wait to have both of his girls in his arms, so he was there to assist his wife in their stroll around the room before they entered the ward. They were about to have the mother-child quality time they had all been looking forward to. Disaster then struck.
When his wife slouched in his arms and muttered, “I feel light-headed,” Matt gently and tenderly helped her into the wheelchair. In an effort to calm Matt, the nurses explained that it was common for women to faint after giving birth.
Matt patiently recalled, “All of a sudden, there’s this ‘code blue,’ and people are running by me.” He broke down in tears. She would never be able to hold her kid since she would pass away in this hospital that day.
Only 27 hours, or slightly more than a day after giving birth to their daughter Madeline, doctors learned that a deadly clot had gone to Liz’s lungs and caused a rare, fatal pulmonary embolism. Liz passed away at the young age of 30, only hours after giving birth to a child, from a fatal embolism. Matt was left a widower one day after becoming a parent.
In only one day, Matt went from feeling on top of the world to fearing for his life. He was devastated. The pregnancy blog was meant to be filled with images of the growing family, but instead, his subsequent essay was only about melancholy.
The first several weeks were the worst Matt had ever experienced. Every Tuesday at exactly 3:11 p.m., his thoughts would return to that fateful moment when his life changed irrevocably because he couldn’t bear to take off his wedding ring. At times, he openly questioned how he would manage in his new life without Liz at his side.
There were challenges in getting back home. There were sour reminders of Liz everywhere Matt turned. When guests asked about the baby’s mother, Matt would frank and openly reply, “She passed on the day after the kid was born,”. Even leaving the house was tough.
The only consolation Matt felt in those early days as a widower was the knowledge that his young daughter needed him and the notion that a portion of his cherished wife lived on in Madeline.
Matt was determined that he would give his daughter the finest upbringing possible despite his sadness. He’s seeking for a way to express his feelings of dread and anguish. He started posting on a parenting discussion board hosted by his hometown newspaper, The Minnesota Star Tribune. But it didn’t end there.
Maddy Logelin turned 10 years old on March 24th, 2018. Ten years had passed since her mother Liz’s terrible death at the same anniversary. Her father, family, and friends have done all in their can to encircle her with love and happiness despite her horrific history.
Matt has made his blog’s details more private as Maddy has aged. The instant Madeline shouts “stop,” it is over. “The plug will be pulled,” he would always guarantee. Over the years, Maddy has learned about her mother via stories and pictures, and her interest in her has only increased.
One day she naively questioned, “Daddy, did you grasp my mommy’s hand when she died?” She frequently asks her father questions about the activities he and her late mother used to do
Despite his best efforts to be honest and explain things to his little daughter, Matt remarked, “What I said will never take away what happened that day.” After the talk, Maddy remarked, “Daddy, I love you,” which Matt later said she understood precisely what he needed to hear. I also love you, Maddy,” he said.
Weeks After My Wedding, I Overheard My Husband and My Mother Talking – What They Said Made My Blood Run Cold
Claire thought her whirlwind romance was the start of her happily ever after—until an overheard conversation between her mother and her husband, James. Betrayed by the two people she trusted most, Claire embarks on a journey to uncover their motives and reclaim her life.
They say hindsight is 20/20, but no one tells you how much it can hurt. Looking back, the warning signs were there, flashing like neon lights. I just didn’t want to see them.
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It all started a few months ago when I met James during a rushed lunch break at a tiny coffee shop downtown. He was charming, attentive, and just the right kind of confident—the kind that makes you feel like you’re the only person in the room.
And he stole my attention away from the club sandwich I’d been craving all morning. Not to mention, his smile…
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Four whirlwind months later, he proposed while we were taking a walk on the beach. I said yes without hesitation. I mean, sure, people raised their eyebrows.
“Too fast,” Cyril, James’ uncle, said.
“Claire must be pregnant,” another person hissed at our engagement party.
“Maybe it’s about money,” my cousin, Melody, said.
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But I didn’t care. I was convinced I’d found my forever person.
Our wedding was a modest, intimate, and beautiful affair. It had all the pink and champagne tones a girl could have hoped for. And I felt more special than I had in my entire life.
My mom, Patricia, couldn’t have been happier.
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From the moment she met James, she gushed about how he was perfect for me. At the time, I thought it was sweet.
Now, I know better. Way better.
My relationship with my mom had always been complicated. She was overly involved in my life, especially after my messy breakup with my college boyfriend, Nick. I’d been devastated after catching him cheating on me with a close friend.
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In our dorm!
For months, my mom hovered, offering unsolicited advice about love and relationships.
“You’re too trusting,” she’d say, or “You need someone who will protect you, Claire.”
But her protectiveness turned suffocating after a health scare two years ago when I was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes. It required constant management, like monitoring my blood sugar levels, insulin injections, and a careful balance of diet and exercise.
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I had since stabilized, but it was as if my mom never got the memo. She saw me as fragile, incapable of navigating my life alone.
I should have realized that mindset would lead her to do something drastic.
Thanksgiving came and went with all the warmth and tradition you’d expect. My husband and I joined my parents for dinner, laughing over turkey and tons of pie, diabetes friendly, of course. After dessert, I headed upstairs to my childhood room. I’d left a box of keepsakes there and decided to grab it before we left.
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It was a box of friendship bracelets, bookmarks, old Polaroids, and love letters from school crushes. I also wanted to take my collection of first edition classic novels—James had finally built my bookshelf.
That’s when everything started to unravel.
I needed an empty box to pack the books, so I turned back toward the stairs, hoping that I’d find a box in the garage. As I approached the landing, I froze.
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Voices drifted up from the living room. They were low, hushed, and conspiratorial.
“Patricia, you know damn well that I wouldn’t have married her if you hadn’t given me the…”
That was James.
My stomach twisted, the pie mixing uncomfortably. What was he talking about?
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My mom’s voice cut him off, sharp and urgent.
“Shh! James! She might hear us.”
I crept closer, my heart pounding.
“I’m just saying, the money is nice and all that. But you didn’t need to go that far. The money’s nice, but living with her… It’s not exactly what I signed up for. I have to check on her every single time the house is too quiet. And I have to monitor everything she eats. Do you know how difficult that is?”
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I couldn’t breathe. My head spun.
What money? And living with her? My chest felt like it was caving in.
“I told you,” my mom whispered, her voice insistent. “She’s fragile. Nobody else would’ve… well, you know. Just be patient, James. It’s not forever. Soon, when she’s doing better at work, you can leave. She needs her confidence up first.”
Fragile.
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It was like I was some kind of broken doll she’d handed off to be fixed.
James scoffed.
“Yeah, yeah, sure. But don’t forget, Patricia, I expect the rest of the payment by Christmas. I’m not sticking around if you don’t hold up your end.”
My legs wobbled as I backed away into my childhood bedroom, barely able to process what I’d just heard. My husband had been paid to marry me.
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By my own mother.
I sat in my room, staring blankly at the posters on the wall, the weight of their words pressing down on me. Fragile? No one else would’ve married me?
Every memory of James, the sweet gestures, the whispered promises, now all of that felt like a cruel joke. For the next few weeks, I lived in a nightmare. I pretended that everything was fine while secretly piecing through the truth.
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When James worked late, I dug through his belongings, finding bank statements that told a damning story. There were large deposits from my mom’s account labeled with vague memos:
For expenses. First installment. Final payment.
Of course, it was the final payment, due at Christmas, like James had demanded. That sent me reeling. James wasn’t just in this for the money; he depended on it.
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In his emails, I found conversations with friends mentioning gambling debts and maxed-out credit cards. My mom had essentially bailed him out in exchange for his cooperation.
I barely held it together. Every time James touched me, I flinched. Every time my mom called, I bit back the urge to scream. The betrayal stung in ways I hadn’t anticipated, shaking my self-worth to the core.
Did my mom think I was unlovable? Did James ever care about me at all? Was it all just a performance?
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I debated confronting them privately but then decided against it.
“No, Claire,” I told myself. “Don’t give them the satisfaction of something private and respectful. They deserve worse.”
A public confrontation would hold them accountable, preventing them from gaslighting me or spinning the narrative in their favor.
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Christmas Eve arrived, and my mom hosted the usual family dinner. Her house sparkled with holiday cheer—from the twinkling lights to the tray of cinnamon eggnog to the carols playing softly in the background.
James and I arrived early, carrying gifts. One of them, carefully wrapped and tied with a bow, held the evidence and damning truth.
The evening unfolded like any other Christmas Eve dinner. My mom’s smile was as fake as the plastic mistletoe hanging in the doorway. James played the doting husband, serving me from the platters of food, his arm constantly around me like nothing had changed.
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But inside? I was shaking.
When dessert was served, I stood, holding my “gift.”
“Before we get into the sweet treats,” I said, forcing my voice to remain steady, “I want to give Mom something special.”
Her face lit up, her eyes sparkling with anticipation.
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“Oh, honey pie,” she exclaimed, “you didn’t have to! You being here and being all happy and healthy is the only gift I needed.”
“Oh, no,” I said. “You definitely deserve this one, Mom.”
I handed her the box and smiled.
She tore into the wrapping paper, her smile faltering as she got through the box’s seal, uncovering the contents. A stack of papers. Her confusion quickly turned to panic as she read the top page.
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“Do you want to read it aloud, Mom?” I asked sweetly. “Or should I?”
The room fell silent.
“I… I don’t understand. What is this?” she asked.
“It’s a record of every payment you made to James,” I said, my voice cutting through the tension like a knife. “For marrying me.”
Gasps rippled around the table. James’ fork clattered to his plate.
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“Claire, I can explain,” he began to say while my mom spoke, too.
“Honey, I don’t know who told you what, but…”
I raised my hand.
“Save it. Both of you,” I said.
My mom spoke first, despite my words, her face was ghostly pale.
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“Darling, I did it for you!” she said quietly. “I didn’t want you to be alone. After your father cheated on me when you were a child, I’ve had to live with being alone. It’s difficult and lonely. And you’re… sickly, Claire. I did it for you, honey.”
“You didn’t do it for me!” I shot back, my voice trembling with anger. “You did it because you think I’m not good enough to find someone on my own. Isn’t that right? It’s because you wanted control, isn’t it? Well, congratulations, Mom. You bought me a husband. And you’ve both lost me.”
James tried to interject, but I turned on him, fire in my veins.
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“And as for you,” I said, “my goodness. I hope the money was worth it. Because you’re not getting anything from me. Not another cent. My mother can continue being your bank for all I care. But this marriage is definitely over.”
With that, I grabbed my coat and walked out, leaving them to choke on the ruins of their lies.
It’s been a few months since that night. I filed for divorce early in the new year because it had been a nightmare to get any lawyers to work on it as soon as possible.
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James didn’t contest it. He probably knew fighting it would expose the payments, or bribes, or whatever you’d call it.
I’ve barely spoken to my mom. She’s tried to apologize, sending tearful texts and emails, but I’m not ready to forgive her.
Maybe I never will.
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Healing has been slow, especially because the stress of the situation had led me to eat things I wasn’t supposed to, causing my blood sugar levels to skyrocket, sending me straight to the hospital for a week.
But since then, I’ve been going to therapy, which has helped me unpack the hurt and rebuild my self-esteem. I’ve also reconnected with old friends who’ve reminded me of my worth.
I may not know what the future holds, but for the first time in years, I feel free. And that’s worth more than all the money in the world.
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