Anne Hegerty, known from The Chase, shared that her biggest fear about dating is having a man invade her personal space.
The quizzer, who was diagnosed with autism at 45, opened up about her challenges, mentioning a time when she unplugged her phone to stop a boyfriend from contacting her.
At The Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala in Kensington, London, she honestly said that she thinks she would make a terrible partner.
Anne, 66, said, “I really struggle with being close to others and having anyone else in the house.
“I think a lot of autistic people don’t get married or settle down.”
Anne explained, “I don’t even have pets because of this, and my ability to live with other people is getting smaller. I need a lot of alone time.
“I always feel like I need more space than anyone can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find one, but honestly, I don’t.”
She also mentioned that her longest relationship only lasted four months. Reflecting on that time, she said, “It only worked for those few months because I was in Manchester. I kind of set it up so it wouldn’t last.”
In the end, she wrote to him to end things. “I remember crying with relief and then crying with guilt,” she shared.
Anne felt overwhelmed during that relationship. “Sometimes, I unplugged the phone because he tried to call me every day. I just wanted it to be over.
“I’d sit there waiting for the phone to ring, thinking, ‘Don’t phone, don’t phone, don’t phone!’ Other times, to get over the waiting, I’d call him, but that made him think I wanted to talk. I really just wanted to end it. I didn’t want to talk to him or anyone!”
Anne joked that she hasn’t lacked offers from admirers who seem to like her “Mrs. Trunchbull” Governess outfit.
She said, “I’m sure some people are attracted to the whole look of The Governess. I think there are some who might be interested if they let me.”
Anne said, “I do meet attractive men, but I know it won’t work out. I feel like it’s not fair to them because I won’t treat them well.”
She added, “I always want more space than they can give me. If I wanted a relationship, I could find someone, but I don’t.”
She thinks it’s better not to date at all and enjoys having men as friends more than women. She recalled a quiz she attended in June, where a woman pointed out they were the only two women in the room, but Anne hadn’t even noticed because she was talking to her male friends.
Anne also shared that this is part of why she never had children, even though she is great with kids. “I did want children, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle it very well.”
About 20 years ago, two kids from her neighborhood used to come over. “We limited their visits to just one hour a day, but they always wanted to stay longer. They were wonderful kids, and we’re now friends on Facebook, but I couldn’t handle that for more than an hour.”
Anne takes her role as godmother to Mark “Beast” Labbett’s eight-year-old son, Lawrence, very seriously.
She said, “Lawrence’s birthday is at the end of November, so I usually send a birthday and Christmas present at the same time—but they are not the same gift. My parents had winter birthdays, and I knew they hated getting just one present for two celebrations.”
Anne joked that one of the gifts she gave Lawrence was a bit inappropriate—a toy crossbow. “So, weaponry,” she laughed. “But lately, I’ve been giving him Minecraft vouchers since he really loves that.”
She also mentioned that she has spent Christmas alone for the past 40 years. That’s why she’s especially happy to be playing the Fairy Godmother in this year’s panto, Cinderella, in Scarborough.
Anne, who was on I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here in 2018, said, “Now that I’m in panto, I can say, ‘Sorry, I’m in Scarborough!’ and that’s my only day off.”
She sees it as a great day off. Even though many people invite her to spend Christmas with them, she prefers not to. “I don’t do Christmas dinner or a tree. When I was a kid, I just remember all the pine needles everywhere!”
Earlier this year, Anne took on another acting role, making a cameo as a neighbor in a film called Exorcising Barry, which is about a man obsessed with a demon.
Anne said that any chance of going to Hollywood is out of the question.
She explained, “America wouldn’t want me because I’m fat. I have a friend who went there for work, and even though she looks amazing, they told her she needed to lose weight. I’m fine with how I am, but they don’t like fat British actresses.”
Despite this, she has had great success in Britain. Talking about The Chase’s recent National Television Award win, she said, “I’m so happy. Bradley Walsh is amazing. It’s been 14 years, and I love it.”
She added, “Other kids used to sing in front of the mirror with a hairbrush. When I was younger, I practiced being interviewed for when I became famous. I don’t know why, but it’s always been my dream.”
At 83, This Star’s Stunning Transformation After Facial Surgery Will Leave You Speechless
At 83, this legendary star remains as vibrant as ever. After a dangerous fall in her early 30s that required facial surgery, she’s still living life to the fullest — even riding a lavender Harley. Her story is one of resilience, transformation, and an unshakeable love for life.
Over the years, she has secured her place in entertainment history. While other stars from her time have slowed down, she has continued moving forward in every possible way. However, beneath her graceful appearance lies a powerful tale of survival.
Defying expectations, she continues to thrive well into her 80s. Long before her resilience became known, the star had already captivated audiences in the ’60s with her beauty and charm. Let’s take a look at how she shone in her early years.
The legendary star was stunning in the 1960s and 1970s. She dazzled on screen, winning hearts with her performances.
The Accident That Almost Changed Everything
In September 1972, disaster struck during what should have been another fantastic performance. Just before she was set to go on stage at a Lake Tahoe casino, she fell 22 feet from a platform, hitting the ground hard.
The impact caused multiple facial fractures, a broken jaw, a concussion, and a broken arm. Witnesses said it was a terrifying scene, and many feared her dancing career was over, but thankfully, her knee was not injured.
She was rushed to U.C.L.A. Medical Center, where doctors worked for three hours to fix the damage to her face. The surgery was successful, but many wondered if she would return to her former glory.
The actress was famous for her beauty and talent, and with her severe injuries, some thought this might be the end of her time in the spotlight. But rather than retreat, she faced this challenge head-on.
Private Battles and Public Victories
She didn’t just return to the spotlight after recovering — she thrived. The surgery did not stop her career, and she quickly proved everyone wrong about her future in show business. By 1973, she was back in action, playing Mrs. Lowe in “The Train Robbers.”
Her work after the accident made her a versatile performer. By 1975, she earned two Oscar nominations. In the 1980s, she received six Emmy nominations, showing her talent went far beyond her early days as a sex symbol.
While her career flourished, her personal life faced challenges. In 1985, she shared her struggles with infertility. Despite trying various treatments, she and her husband, Roger Smith, could not have children of their own.
The couple raised Smith’s three children from a previous marriage, but she still hoped for a child, believing that whatever was meant to be would be. She often quoted the serenity prayer, asking for peace to accept what she could not change.
Even while dealing with these personal issues, she continued to shine in public. In the 1990s, she remained a star, proving her lasting appeal.
A Reserved Star in the Spotlight: The 2001 Interview
By 2001, she had spent four decades captivating audiences with her talents, yet she remained reserved. In an interview with The Washington Post, she kept the conversation brief.
After just 25 minutes, she ended the session, politely saying, “That’s enough. Don’t you think that’s enough?” Although she didn’t want to say much, her long career spoke for itself. She had made a name for herself across movies, nightclubs, television, and live performances.
Throughout the years, she faced injuries, depression, alcoholism, and infertility but continued to be a survivor. Reinvention was part of her career, reflecting her resilience. Her reserved nature, linked to her Swedish upbringing, made her private about certain topics.
She kept her personal life guarded, especially regarding her rumored relationship with Elvis Presley. Friends noted that she shut down when that topic was brought up.
While she was private about her life, she loved talking about animals and her passion for motorcycles. At the time of the interview, she was touring in a 45-city production of “The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas,” even after suffering injuries in a motorcycle accident the year before.
Although her patience with the media was limited, her stunning green eyes showed her passion and drive. She preferred to keep parts of her life private.
A Life of Speed and Grace in Her 80s
Now in her 80s, Ann-Margret shows no signs of slowing down. Earlier this year, at the Women’s Image Network’s 25th Awards in February 2024, she received the Living Legend Award. In her speech, she reflected on her life and expressed gratitude for the unexpected blessings.
“I am so blessed. I just can’t believe all the things that have happened to me,” Ann-Margret said. Even at her age, she remains vibrant and energetic, especially with her love for speed.
At the event, she proudly shared that she still rides her lavender Harley Davidson, decorated with white daisies. “I love the speed,” she said with a smile.
Ann-Margret’s reflections were full of life, showing that while she may take moments to reflect, she is not done living life to the fullest. From her rise to fame to her more recent joys, she embraces every opportunity that comes her way.
Fans continue to admire her beauty and grace, with comments like “A timeless beauty ,” “Beautiful lady now and always,” and “Still a beautiful, lovely & classy lady!♥️.”
As she rides through life, both literally and figuratively, Ann-Margret inspires many with her strength and passion. From her early days as a Hollywood star to her ongoing journey at 83, she shows that beauty, grace, and talent do not fade with time.
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