Joe “Jellybean” Bryant, the father of the late Basketball Hall of Famer Kobe Bryant, has died at the age of 69, La Salle University’s athletics department reported.
Citing La Salle men’s head basketball coach Fran Dunphy, The Philadelphia Inquirer wrote Joe had recently suffered a stoke. The exact cause of death hasn’t been confirmed yet.
La Salle University, where Joe played and coached, said in a statement that he “was a beloved member of the Explorer family and will be dearly missed.”
Just like his famous son, Joe was a renowned basketball player himself. Drafted by the Golden State Warriors as the 14th overall pick in the 1975 NBA draft, he played for the Philadelphia 76ers for four seasons, the then-San Diego Clippers for three seasons, and the Houston Rockets for one season. He also played in Europe.
The 76ers paid tribute to Joe, calling him “a local basketball icon, whose legacy on the court transcended his journey across Bartram High School, La Salle University, and his first four NBA seasons with the 76ers from 1975-79.”
Joe’s sudden passing comes four years after the tragic death of his son Kobe and his granddaughter Gianna, who were killed in a helicopter crash with seven other people.
Kobe’s widow, Vanessa Bryant, wrote on her Instagram story on Tuesday, “Sending our condolences upon hearing the news of my father-in-law’s passing.
“We hoped things would’ve been different. Although the times we spent together were few, he was always sweet and nice to be around. Kobe loved him very much.”
Former Kobe teammate Doug Young praised Joe as the ideal “role model.”
“Joe was our JV coach at Lower Merion and I could not have asked for a more positive mentor, teacher, and role model,” Young told ESPN. “It’s difficult to overstate how much he influenced me and my teammates. He made basketball fun and made us all want to be better; he believed in us. I’ll never forget his infectious smile, his bear hugs and the incredible bond he shared with Kobe. Growing up in Lower Merion, there was no family we loved and admired more than the Bryants, and that started with Joe.”
Arn Tellem, the vice chairman of the Pistons and formerly Kobe Bryant’s agent, expressed his sadness over the loss of Joe and joined the basketball community in mourning a true Philly hoops legend. “Our friendship opened the door for me to represent Kobe as he entered the NBA, a memory I’ll always cherish. Joe was a devoted husband, father and grandfather, whose warmth touched everyone he met.”
May he rest in peace.
For those who don’t understand this
At the beginning of a relationship, everything feels like a fairytale. Butterflies, compliments, sweet words, and affectionate gestures define the early stages of romance. It’s as if your partner can do no wrong, and every conversation is filled with warmth and tenderness.
But fast forward a few years, and things change. The sweet sugar of new love turns into something a little more… let’s say, citrusy. Those once-soft words might now include playful sarcasm, teasing, and brutally honest remarks. Does this mean love has faded? Absolutely not!
For those who don’t understand, this shift is actually a sign of real love—a transition from the excitement of something new to the comfort of something strong. Let’s break it down.
New Love: When Everything is Sugar and Spice
When love is new, girls (and guys too) tend to speak in the sweetest way possible.
✔ They compliment everything from your smile to the way you tie your shoes.
✔ They say good morning texts like they’re writing poetry.
✔ They laugh at all your jokes, even the bad ones.
✔ They use soft, gentle tones, always trying to be the best version of themselves.
This stage is exciting, passionate, and full of sweetness, just like sugar. It’s a time when both partners put in extra effort to impress each other and avoid conflicts at all costs.
But here’s the reality: this phase doesn’t last forever—and that’s not a bad thing.
Long Love: When Things Get More… ‘Lime-Flavored’
As the relationship matures, the sugar-coating starts to wear off. This doesn’t mean the love is gone—it just means both partners are now comfortable enough to be their real selves.
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✔ Less sugar, more spice: Instead of constant compliments, you now get teasing, playful sarcasm, and inside jokes.
✔ Honest communication: She won’t pretend to love your bad haircut—she’ll straight-up tell you to fix it.
✔ More “tough love”: If you’re slacking on something, she won’t hesitate to call you out on it—but always with love.
✔ Teasing replaces flattery: Instead of saying, “You’re so handsome,” she might say, “You really think that outfit matches? Cute.”
At first, it may seem like she’s become “mean”, but the truth is, she’s just comfortable enough to be 100% real with you.
Why This Change is a Good Thing
Many people panic when they notice their partner doesn’t act the same as they did in the early days. But this change isn’t bad—it’s actually proof that the relationship has entered a deeper stage of love.
Here’s why:
✔ Comfort = Authenticity – She’s not trying to impress you anymore; she’s just being herself. That means the love is real, not a performance.
✔ Teasing = Affection – Playful sarcasm is often a sign of deep emotional connection. The fact that she feels safe enough to joke around with you means she trusts you.
✔ Honesty = Growth – She’s no longer telling you what you want to hear; she’s telling you what you need to hear, helping you become the best version of yourself.
Think of it like this: sugar tastes great, but too much of it is unhealthy. A little lime, though? It keeps things fresh and exciting!
Signs That Your Relationship Has Transitioned from Sugar to Citrus (And That’s Okay!)
1. The compliments slow down, but the actions speak louder
She may not say “you’re so amazing” as often, but she’ll show love in other ways—by supporting your goals, remembering the little things you like, and sticking with you through tough times.
2. There’s more teasing, but it’s all love
Instead of praising every single thing you do, she now teases you—but in a way that brings you closer.
3. She tells you the truth, even when it’s not what you want to hear
If she cares about you, she won’t let you walk around with bad fashion choices or a dumb idea. She’ll call you out, but only because she wants the best for you.
4. “Good morning” texts turn into “Don’t forget to pay that bill”
It may seem less romantic, but it’s a sign that she’s thinking about your life together, not just the honeymoon phase.
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What to Do When the Sweetness Fades
Instead of worrying, embrace it! This phase of love is where real connection and long-term happiness are built. Here’s how to keep things fun and balanced:
✔ Appreciate her honesty – It’s a sign she sees you as a life partner, not just a crush.
✔ Keep the romance alive – Just because the sugar phase fades doesn’t mean you should stop making her feel special. Small gestures still matter!
✔ Laugh together – Don’t take the teasing too seriously. If she roasts you, roast her back (lovingly, of course!).
Final Thoughts: Love Evolves, and That’s Beautiful
At the end of the day, sugar is sweet, but citrus is refreshing. A long-term relationship isn’t about staying in the honeymoon phase forever—it’s about growing together, becoming each other’s best friend, and loving in a deeper, more authentic way.
So, the next time you notice your partner switching from sugar to lime, don’t worry—it just means the love is getting real. And that’s something to celebrate!
What do you think? Have you experienced this shift in love? Drop a comment and let’s talk!
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