In a timeless tale of romance, Naval Officer Zack Mayo swept factory worker Paula into his arms and carried her from her workplace, leaving fans everywhere wishing they were the beautiful Debra Winger.
The legendary scene in the romantic drama an Officer and a Gentleman–where Richard Gere played Officer Zack Mayo, the handsome hero in navy whites–became the benchmark of love stories for daydreaming fans.
Acting alongside Hollywood’s hottest men, Debra Winger was the envy of many.
Today, Winger, 67, is as beautiful as ever. In the past few years, Winger has posted photos herself on Instagram, first with brown hair and now to a natural wavy gray.
Winger’s first starring role was in the 1976 film Slumber Party ‘57, which led to a part on the hit TV series Wonder Woman (1979), where she played Drusilla, the younger sister to Lynda Carter’s Diana Prince/Wonder Woman. Winger was asked to appear more often but concerned she’d be typecast by that role, she declined.
There were no regrets for that decision, the early ‘80s would be prosperous for the rising star.
At the height of her young career, she received numerous nods from the Academy and Golden Globes for performances in three iconic movies of the 1980’s.
In 1980, she starred in Urban Cowboy, with John Travolta, who at the time was driving fans wild with his smooth dance moves in Saturday Night Fever (1977) and Grease (1988); as Paula in an Officer and a Gentleman (1982) and in Terms of Endearment (1983), where she played Emma, a dying young woman with an over-bearing mother, Aurora, played by Shirley MacLaine.
Despite her huge success, Winger, carving hours from her acting schedule, took a mini Hollywood hiatus, and more than four decades after her rise to stardom, speculation of why she left is still circulating.
Most of these rumours revolve around the feuds that Winger had with her co-stars.
Though fans couldn’t get enough of the handsome Gere, it’s been widely reported that Winger had enough of him on the set.
According to an excerpt published on ABC News from the book, “An Actor and a Gentleman,” by co-star, Louis Gossett Jr., who played Sgt. Emil Foley: “The onscreen chemistry between the two of them was terrific, but it was a different story once the camera was turned off. They couldn’t have stayed farther apart from each other.”
Gossett also claims that Winger didn’t think much of Gere’s acting and wrote that she once described Gere as “a brick wall.” And, the film’s director, Taylor Hackford, whom she also did not likе, she referred to as “animal.”
It wasn’t only people on that film that ruffled her feathers.
Winger, a free spirit in real life and in her role as Emma, also clashed with the prolific MacLaine, a glamourous, eccentric and seasoned veteran.
Their first meeting set the stage for their relationship.
“To see how my character would feel I was wearing all my leftover movie-star fur coats,” MacLaine said in an interview with People. “There was Debra dressed in combat boots and a miniskirt…I thought, ‘Oh my goodness.’”
People writes, “Indeed, the set became the source of Hollywood’s most relished rumors. Winger wanted top billing. One reportedly slugged the other.”
And then, the women were pitted against each other in the Oscars when they were both nominated for best actress.
MacLaine, taking the trophy home, said in her acceptance speech, “I deserve this!”
Rumors aside, Winger insists she “pushed the pause button” on Hollywood for personal reasons and not professional.
“The parts that were coming, I wasn’t interested in. I’d already done that or I’d already felt that. I needed to be challenged. My life challenged me more than the parts, so I dove into it fully,” Winger told People.
After starring in the 1995 romcom Forget Paris with Billy Crystal, Winger took a six-year break.
In that time, she moved to New York City and shifted her focus to actor Arliss Howard, whom she married in 1996. The pair have a son, Gideon Babe, who was born in 1997, and she is stepmother to Sam, Howard’s son from a previous marriage. She also has another biological child, Noah Hutton, whom she mothered while married to her first husband, Timothy Hutton (1986 to 1990).
She reappeared in the 2001 film Big Bad Love, that was directed and produced by her husband, who also co-starred alongside Winger and Rosanna Arquette, who’s next project was 2002 film Searching for Debra Winger. As director of the documentary, Arquette attempts to answer why Winger temporarily аbаndоned her career at peak performance.
Winger gained some momentum with roles in Rachel Getting Married (2008) with Anne Hathaway, the 2017 romcom The Lovers, and the crime-comedy, Kajillionaire (2020).
In 2021, she was in With/In, Volume two of the anthological drama film, in the segment Her Own, which is written and directed by her husband, who also co-stars.
“I don’t know what Hollywood is. I’m living under the freaking sign now, and I just stare at it and laugh. Los Angeles is a place, but the idea of Hollywood doesn’t really exist for me,” Winger said, adding, “…although there must be some in-crowds that I just don’t know about.”
We can’t imagine a Hollywood without Debra Winger and we hope she soon gets to take home an Academy Award ! What are your favorite Winger movies?
I Accidentally Saw an Unknown Number Message My Son’s Phone – The Truth behind It Left Me in Tears
Last week, while tidying up the living room, Meredith stumbled upon her son Edward’s phone with a mysterious message: “Are we still on for tonight?” Her heart sank as curiosity turned to dread, leading her to uncover a secret that left her in tears.
Last week, I was tidying up the living room when I found an unexpected surprise. While fluffing the couch cushions, I discovered Edward’s phone wedged deep between them. I picked it up, ready to set it aside for him.
A phone between the cushions | Source: Midjourney
As I held the phone, it suddenly vibrated in my hand. A message flashed on the screen: “Are we still on for tonight?” My heart skipped a beat. Edward is married, and this number wasn’t familiar.
Curiosity got the better of me, and I stared at the phone, feeling a mix of confusion and worry. What could this mean? Why would someone send him this message? Just as I was about to put the phone down, another message popped up: “Can’t wait to see you again, love.”
Meredith sees the text | Source: Midjourney
My heart sank. The thought that my son might be unfaithful was devastating. Doubts filled my mind. Was my son hiding something? I needed to know the truth.
Lately, I’ve felt out of place in my own family. Edward, my son, was always busy, going out more often. Each time he left the house, I felt a pang of loneliness. He used to share everything with me, but now, there was a distance between us.
Edward is busy with his homework | Source: Midjourney
My husband, Robert, seemed more distant too. He spent a lot of time absorbed in his own activities. Our conversations had become brief and superficial. We used to be so close, sharing our thoughts and dreams. Now, it felt like we were just two people living under the same roof.
I missed the days when we were all so connected. When Edward was younger, he would confide in me about his school, his friends, and his dreams.
Robert and I would plan our future together, excited about our plans and adventures. But now, it seemed like they both had their own worlds, and I was no longer a part of them.
Robert works in his home office | Source: Midjourney
This feeling of isolation was heavy. I felt like an outsider in my own home. I yearned for the closeness we once had. The fear of being left behind by the people I loved most consumed me. I just wanted to feel connected again, to be a part of their lives, and not just a bystander.
I decided not to jump to conclusions. I needed more information. The next evening, Edward mentioned he was heading out. He seemed relaxed, but I was on edge. My mind was racing with questions.
“Where are you going?” I asked, trying to sound casual.
“Just out for a bit, Mom,” he replied with a smile.
Meredith follows Edward | Source: Midjourney
As he left, I grabbed my keys. I had to know the truth. I followed him discreetly, keeping a safe distance. My heart pounded in my chest. Anxiety and concern swirled inside me.
What if he saw me? What if I found out something I didn’t want to know? Each turn he took increased my dread. I gripped the steering wheel tightly, my palms sweating. The drive felt like an eternity, and I struggled to keep my breathing steady.
Edward waits for someone in a cafe | Source: Midjourney
Edward finally parked his car in front of a cozy little café. He stepped out, looking around as if expecting someone. My stomach churned as I watched from a distance. He walked inside, and I quickly found a spot where I could see without being seen.
Minutes felt like hours as I waited. My mind raced with possibilities. Was he meeting someone? Was it serious? I had to remind myself to stay calm and not assume the worst.
Linda arrives at a cafe | Source: Midjourney
Then, I saw her. My best friend, Linda, walked in and greeted Edward with a hug. They sat down together, laughing and chatting like old friends. A wave of relief washed over me, but it was quickly replaced by confusion. What were they doing together?
I stayed hidden, watching their every move. They seemed so comfortable, so familiar. It didn’t make sense. The messages, the secrecy—what was going on? I needed answers, but I was too scared to confront them. Instead, I stayed in my hiding spot, hoping to piece together the truth without causing a scene.
Edward and Linda discuss something | Source: Midjourney
As I prepared to confront Edward and Linda, my heart raced. I took a deep breath and started to walk towards them. But just then, I saw another familiar face—my husband, Robert. He walked into the café and joined them at the table.
My confusion grew. Why was Robert there? What was going on? I watched from my hiding spot as they all greeted each other warmly. Their faces were filled with excitement and joy.
Robert approaches the cafe | Source: Midjourney
I stayed hidden, trying to make sense of it all. They began talking animatedly, and I could see the excitement in their gestures. They pulled out some brochures and started discussing something earnestly. I couldn’t hear their words, but the enthusiasm was clear.
Linda showed a brochure to Edward, and he nodded eagerly. Robert pointed to something on the brochure, and they all leaned in closer to look.
They seemed to be planning something big and important. My anxiety started to ease as I watched them, but the confusion lingered. What could they be planning that involved all of them together?
Travel brochures on the table | Source: Midjourney
My mind raced with possibilities. Were they planning a family trip? A surprise party? I couldn’t piece it together, but I decided to wait a bit longer before revealing myself. I needed to understand what was happening first.
As I watched them, I felt a mix of emotions — relief that it wasn’t what I had feared, and curiosity about what they were planning. I stayed hidden, my heart beating steadily, waiting for the right moment to step in and join the conversation.
My heart pounded as I walked up to their table. Edward was the first to see me.
“Mom!” he exclaimed, eyes wide with surprise. “What are you doing here?”
Meredith makes an appearance | Source: Midjourney
Linda and Robert turned to look at me, equally shocked. I took a deep breath, trying to steady my nerves.
“I could ask you the same thing,” I said, my voice trembling. “What’s going on here?”
Linda quickly spoke up. “Meredith, we were just about to call you!”
Edward nodded. “Mom, I’m sorry for the secrecy. We’ve been planning something special.”
Linda smiled warmly. “We’ve been arranging a surprise retirement cruise for you and Robert. We wanted it to be perfect before telling you.”
Linda and Meredith | Source: Midjourney
I stared at them, trying to process their words. “A cruise? For us?”
Robert put his arm around me. “Yes, honey. They’ve been working hard to make sure everything is just right. We didn’t want to get your hopes up until it was all set.”
Tears welled up in my eyes as the realization sank in. “I thought… I thought something else was going on,” I admitted, feeling a bit embarrassed.
Meredith | Source: Midjourney
Edward reached out and took my hand. “I’m so sorry, Mom. We should have told you sooner.”
Linda nodded. “We didn’t mean to worry you. We just wanted it to be a wonderful surprise.”
I wiped my tears and smiled, feeling a wave of relief and gratitude. “Thank you,” I whispered. “This means so much to me.”
We sat down together, and they started sharing the details of the cruise. As we talked, my initial fear and confusion melted away, replaced by excitement for the journey ahead.
Meredith on a cruise ship | Source: Midjourney
A few weeks later, Robert and I boarded the cruise ship. The sea breeze was refreshing. I felt a sense of excitement.
“Isn’t this beautiful?” Robert asked, smiling at me.
“Yes, it is,” I replied, squeezing his hand.
We explored the ship, marveling at its luxury. The dining hall was elegant, the pool inviting. We found our cabin, which was cozy and comfortable.
Tropical getaway | Source: Midjourney
“This is perfect,” I said, unpacking my bag.
Robert nodded. “I’m glad we did this. We needed a break.”
Each day brought new adventures. We enjoyed the shows, tried new foods, and relaxed on the deck.
One evening, as we watched the sunset, Robert turned to me. “Thank you for being patient with us. We wanted to make this special.”
Meredith and Robert | Source: Midjourney
Tears filled my eyes. “Thank you for this wonderful gift. It means so much.”
As the ship sailed on, I felt our bond strengthen. We were reconnecting, finding joy in each other’s company again. This cruise was not just a vacation; it was a new beginning.
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