He was the first man in the world to give birth – 16 years later, he looks like this

In a groundbreaking moment 16 years ago, Thomas Beatie etched his name in history as the world’s first man to undergo pregnancy.
Born female, Thomas underwent a gender transition, now identifying as a transgender man. The global spotlight shone on him when news broke of his remarkable journey to parenthood with the birth of his first daughter, Susan
In a surprising turn of events in 2006, he halted his testosterone treatment with the aspiration of conceiving. Facing fertility challenges with his then-wife Nancy, Thomas made the courageous decision to carry the child himself.

The iconic image of Thomas Beatie sporting a heavily pregnant belly first circulated in 2008, creating ripples across the world. Media dubbed Beatie “the pregnant man” and news of his story quickly spread worldwide.
Yet, the journey was far from smooth, with hate emails and death threats pouring in from numerous quarters, including established media outlets.
”Doctors have discriminated against us, turning us away due to their religious beliefs. Health care professionals have refused to call me by a male pronoun or recognize Nancy as my wife. Receptionists have laughed at us. Friends and family have been unsupportive; most of Nancy’s family doesn’t even know I’m transgender,” Thomas later said.
During an extensive 48-hour labor, Susan, the first child of Thomas and Nancy, was born into the world healthy and happy. Thomas, determined to opt for a natural birth, defied expectations. His case marked the first documented instance where a legally recognized male gave birth within a marital union with a woman.
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Posted by Thomas Trace Beatie on Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Over the course of five years without testosterone, Thomas experienced four more pregnancies (one of which resulted in an ectopic pregnancy). Together with his first wife, Nancy, he raised Susan and sons Austin and Jensen, presenting themselves as a traditional family with strong values.

In a significant television debut, Thomas Beatie took center stage with an exclusive hour-long interview on the Oprah Winfrey Show in April 2008. Addressing a global audience, he openly discussed his belief in the reproductive right to bear a child, irrespective of his male gender identity.
During the interview, Beatie emphasized: “It’s not a male or female desire to want to have a child; it’s a human desire. I’m a person, and I have the right to have my own biological child.”
His words echoed a powerful assertion of his personal autonomy and challenged conventional perceptions surrounding gender and parenthood.
In 2016, Thomas entered a new chapter, marrying a new partner, Amber. Despite having known each other since 2012, a tumultuous divorce with Nancy delayed Thomas and Amber’s nuptials.
The couple moved to Oregon with their blended family, consisting of Susan, Austin, Jensen, and Amber’s grandchild Lily.
Reflecting on their bustling household, Thomas shared: “It can get pretty loud with four kids aged 3, 5, 6, and 7, but we love it,” in an interview with Daily Mail.

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Quel rôle est plus convaincant: flic ou maçon? ??? Which look is more convincing?
Posted by Thomas Trace Beatie on Sunday, March 10, 2019
Sixteen years have elapsed since Thomas became a public figure, yet he continues to make occasional appearances on social media and in people’s feeds.

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In a recent interview with USA Today, he shared insights into his current endeavors, revealing that he now works as a stockbroker in Phoenix. He continues to live with his wife Amber, whom he met at the daycare where his children were enrolled.

His older children divide their time between his residence and their mother’s home, located approximately ten miles away.
According to Thomas, he lives a relatively quiet life but once in a while, he does public-speaking jobs and takes on modest acting opportunities.
Looking back on the whirlwind of attention that surrounded him 16 years ago when he graced the front pages, Thomas acknowledged the lasting impact of those significant moments in his life.
à quel métier/rôle j’ai l’air? ?️ What profession or role do I look like?
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Reflecting on the past, Thomas, now in his 50s, remarked: “When my story came out, there wasn’t a single person in the public eye as a transgender man — most people had never heard of it.”
”This was pre-Chaz Bono. This was pre-Caitlyn Jenner. This was before anyone knew anything. It was a first exposure for a lot of people. And then on top of that, they can give birth! I think exposing the importance of fertility for trans people was a huge eye-opener.”
”Everything was a whirlwind,” he said. ”But I still don’t regret it,” Thomas shared.

I Married My School Teacher – What Happened on Our First Night Shocked Me to the Core

I never expected to see my high school teacher years later in the middle of a crowded farmers’ market. But there he was, calling my name like no time had passed. What started as a polite conversation quickly turned into something I never could’ve imagined.

When I was in high school, Mr. Harper was the teacher everyone adored. Fresh out of university, he had a knack for making ancient history sound like a Netflix series. He was energetic, funny, and maybe a little too good-looking for a teacher.

Young male teacher in a classroom | Source: Midjourney

Young male teacher in a classroom | Source: Midjourney

For most of us, he was the “cool teacher,” the one who made you feel like learning was less of a chore. For me, he was just Mr. Harper—a kind, funny adult who always had time for his students.

“Claire, great analysis on the Declaration of Independence essay,” he told me once after class. “You’ve got a sharp mind. Ever thought about law school?”

Student handing her assignment to her teacher | Source: Midjourney

Student handing her assignment to her teacher | Source: Midjourney

I remember shrugging awkwardly, tucking my notebook against my chest. “I don’t know… Maybe? History’s just… easier than math.”

He chuckled. “Trust me, math is easier when you don’t overthink it. History, though? That’s where the stories are. You’re good at finding the stories.”

At 16, it didn’t mean much to me. He was just a teacher doing his job. But I’d be lying if I said his words didn’t stick.

Life happened after that. I graduated, moved to the city, and left those high school memories behind. Or so I thought.

High school graduate | Source: Midjourney

High school graduate | Source: Midjourney

Fast forward eight years later. I was 24 and back in my sleepy hometown, wandering through the farmers’ market when a familiar voice stopped me in my tracks.

“Claire? Is that you?”

I turned around, and there he was. Except now, he wasn’t “Mr. Harper.” He was just Leo.

“Mr. Har—I mean, Leo?” I stumbled over the words, feeling my cheeks heat.

His grin widened, the same as it always had been, but with a little more ease, a little more charm. “You don’t have to call me ‘Mr.’ anymore.”

It was surreal—standing there with the man who used to grade my essays, now laughing with me like an old friend. If only I’d known how much that moment would change my life.

People having a chat at a farmer's market | Source: Midjourney

People having a chat at a farmer’s market | Source: Midjourney

“You still teaching?” I asked, balancing a basket of fresh vegetables on my hip.

“Yeah,” Leo said, his hands stuffed into the pockets of his jacket. “Different school now, though. Teaching high school English these days.”

“English?” I teased. “What happened to history? “

He laughed, a deep, easy sound. “Well, turns out I’m better at discussing literature.”

What struck me wasn’t just how much older he looked—it was how much lighter he seemed. Less the energetic rookie teacher, more the confident man who’d found his rhythm.

People having a chat at a farmer's market | Source: Midjourney

People having a chat at a farmer’s market | Source: Midjourney

As we talked, the conversation didn’t just flow—it danced. He told me about his years teaching the students who drove him crazy but made him proud, and the stories that stayed with him. I shared my time in the city: the chaotic jobs, the failed relationships, and my dream of starting a small business someday.

“You’d be amazing at that,” he said over coffee two weeks later. “The way you described that idea? I could practically see it.”

“You’re just saying that,” I laughed, but his steady gaze made me pause.

“No, I mean it,” he said, his voice soft but insistent. “You’ve got the drive, Claire. You just need the chance.”

People at a coffee date | Source: Midjourney

People at a coffee date | Source: Midjourney

By the time we reached our third dinner—this one at a cozy bistro lit by soft candlelight—I realized something. The age gap? Seven years. The connection? Instant. The feeling? Unexpected.

“I’m starting to think you’re just using me for free history trivia,” I joked as he paid the check.

“Busted,” he said with a grin, leaning in closer. “Though I might have ulterior motives.”

The air shifted, a current of something unspoken but undeniable passing between us. My heart raced, and I broke the silence with a whisper.

“What kind of motives?”

“Guess you’ll have to stick around and find out.”

Couple on a dinner date | Source: Getty Images

Couple on a dinner date | Source: Getty Images

A year later, we stood under the sprawling oak tree in my parents’ backyard, surrounded by fairy lights, the laughter of friends, and the quiet rustle of leaves. It was a small, simple wedding, just as we wanted.

As I slipped the gold band onto Leo’s finger, I couldn’t help but smile. This wasn’t the kind of love story I’d ever imagined for myself, but it felt right in every way.

Bride and Groom exchanging vows on their wedding day | Source: Midjourney

Bride and Groom exchanging vows on their wedding day | Source: Midjourney

That night, after the last guest left and the house had fallen into a peaceful hush, Leo and I finally had a moment to ourselves. We sat in the dim light of the living room, still dressed in our wedding clothes, shoes kicked off, champagne glasses in hand.

“I have something for you,” he said, breaking the comfortable silence.

I raised an eyebrow, intrigued. “A gift? On top of marrying me? Bold move.”

He laughed softly and pulled a small, worn leather notebook from behind his back. “I thought you might like this.”

I took it, running my fingers over the cracked cover. “What is this?”

An old small note book | Source: Midjourney

An old small note book | Source: Midjourney

“Open it,” he urged, his voice tinged with something I couldn’t quite place—nervousness? Excitement?

Flipping the cover open, I immediately recognized the messy scrawl on the first page. My handwriting. My heart skipped. “Wait… is this my old dream journal?”

He nodded, grinning like a kid confessing a well-kept secret. “You wrote it in my history class. Remember? That assignment where you had to imagine your future?”

“I completely forgot about this!” I laughed, though my cheeks flushed with embarrassment. “You kept it?”

Bride smiling while looking at her journal | Source: Midjourney

Bride smiling while looking at her journal | Source: Midjourney

“Not on purpose,” he admitted, rubbing the back of his neck. “When I switched schools, I found it in a box of old papers. I wanted to throw it out, but… I couldn’t. It was too good.”

“Good?” I flipped through the pages, reading fragments of teenage dreams. Starting a business. Traveling to Paris. Making a difference. “This is just the ramblings of a high schooler.”

“No,” Leo said, his voice firm but gentle. “It’s the map to the life you’re going to have. I kept it because it reminded me how much potential you had. And I wanted to see it come true.”

Newly weds having an intimate conversation in their living room | Source: Midjourney

Newly weds having an intimate conversation in their living room | Source: Midjourney

I stared at him, my throat tightening. “You really think I can do all this?”

His hand covered mine. “I don’t think. I know. And I’ll be here, every step of the way.”

Tears welled in my eyes as I clutched the notebook to my chest. “Leo… you’re kind of ruining me right now.”

He smirked. “Good. That’s my job.”

That night, as I lay in bed, the worn leather notebook resting on my lap, I couldn’t shake the feeling that my life was about to change in ways I couldn’t yet comprehend. Leo’s arm was draped over me, his steady breathing warm against my shoulder.

Newly weds having an intimate conversation in their living room | Source: Midjourney

Newly weds having an intimate conversation in their living room | Source: Midjourney

I stared at the notebook, its pages brimming with dreams I’d long since forgotten, and felt something shift deep inside me.

“Why didn’t you tell me you had this sooner?” I whispered, breaking the silence.

He stirred slightly but didn’t lift his head. “Because I didn’t want to pressure you,” he murmured sleepily. “You had to find your way back to those dreams on your own.”

I ran my fingers over the pages, my teenage handwriting almost foreign to me. “But… what if I fail?”

Leo propped himself up on one elbow, his eyes meeting mine in the dim light. “Claire, failing isn’t the worst thing. Never trying? That’s worse.”

His words lingered long after he drifted back to sleep. By morning, I’d made up my mind.

Woman having coffee while seated on her bed | Source: Midjourney

Woman having coffee while seated on her bed | Source: Midjourney

Over the next few weeks, I began tearing down the walls I’d built around myself. I quit the desk job I’d never loved and threw myself into the idea that had lived rent-free in my head for years: a bookstore café. Leo became my rock, standing by me through late nights, financial hiccups, and my relentless self-doubt.

“Do you think people will actually come here?” I asked him one night as we painted the walls of the shop.

He leaned on the ladder, smirking. “You’re kidding, right? A bookstore with coffee? You’ll have people lining up just to smell the place.”

He wasn’t wrong. By the time we opened, it wasn’t just a business—it was a part of the community. And it was ours.

People at a bookstore with coffee shop. | Source: Midjourney

People at a bookstore with coffee shop. | Source: Midjourney

Now, as I sit behind the counter of our thriving bookstore café, watching Leo help our toddler pick up crayons from the floor, I think back to that notebook—the spark that reignited a fire in me I didn’t know had gone out.

Leo glanced up, catching my eye. “What’s that look for?” he asked, grinning.

“Nothing,” I said, my heart full. “Just thinking… I really did marry the right teacher.”

“Damn right, you did,” he said, winking.

Happy couple gazing into each other's eyes | Source: Midjourney

Happy couple gazing into each other’s eyes | Source: Midjourney

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

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