I Became a Burden to My Father after I Lost the Ability to Walk – Story of the Day
I was paralyzed and trapped in a wheelchair in an accident, and my father refused to be burdened with me. But then he gets taught an important lesson.
I was 19 when I was run over by a car on my way to work. For me, it was the end of the world: a screech of tires, darkness, and pain. And when I woke up, I heard the voices say I’d never walk again.
I kept asking for my father, but he only showed up three days later, looking the worse for the wear and I knew he’d been on a bender while I’d lain there fighting for my life.
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My mother died when I was 12, a victim of breast cancer. I remember her as a sweet, weary woman, always cringing from my father’s cruel words, working to keep food on the table while he drank his paycheck away.
As soon as I turned 14, he ordered me to find a part-time job to help with the bills, and when I was 16, I dropped out of school and started working full time to support myself — and him.
But when my father finally arrived at the hospital to visit me, there was neither compassion nor gratitude in his eyes. The doctor explained that although my spine was not severed there had been severe bruising and compression.
I might — by a long shot — recover my ability to walk, but most likely, I would be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. And that was when my father walked away. He said to the doctor, “She’s over 18, isn’t she? She’s an adult, right? So she’s not my responsibility anymore. You take her.”
My father was an alcoholic | Source: Unsplash
I remember my doctor’s horrified expression and my father’s gaze sweeping over my limp legs. “Useless! Useless like your mother!”
Those were the last words I’d hear from him for the next six years. A little while later I was transferred to a recovery center where I was lucky enough to be assigned to a therapist named Carol Hanson.
Family is built on love, not a biological bond, or shared DNA.
She was an older, motherly woman who immediately took me under her wing. Carol was as loving as she was demanding, and she was very demanding. Over the next year, she pushed me towards a recovery I’d never dreamed possible.
The day I stood on my own two feet and took my first step, I cried like a baby, and so did Carol. It was only the beginning, and the next few months I worked even harder, but finally was pronounced healthy.
I woke to discover I was paralyzed | Source: Unsplash
It was a bittersweet moment for me. I was healed from my injury and I was walking again, but I was terrified. I had nowhere to go, no family. I was all alone in the world.
Carol walked in and found me crying. She sat beside me on the bed and put her arms around me. “Jenny,” she said to me, “it’s all right to be scared. You’re starting your life again.”
“I have no one, and nowhere to go,” I whispered, remembering other patients leaving surrounded by loving family, “I’m alone.”
“No you’re not,” Carol said firmly, “I’ve been meaning to talk to you about that. Would you like to move in with me? Just until you get your life together again…”
I was stuck in a wheelchair | Source: Unsplash
So I did, and it was lovely. Carol and I got on beautifully, and she gave me my own room, a pretty room, the prettiest I’d ever seen. “It was my daughter’s,” Carol explained with tears in her eyes. “I lost her like you lost your mother.”
I started googling for jobs the next day on Carol’s computer, but when I came down to breakfast there were some informative flyers on the table from the local high school announcing night classes for adults wanting to complete their secondary education.
“I think,” said Carol firmly, “that you need to go back to school so you can go back to college.”
My mouth dropped open. “College? I can’t afford college!” I gasped. “Carol, I don’t have a cent to my name and no way to support myself if I don’t get a job, and quickly.”
The physiotherapist helped me heal | Source: Pexels
Carol shook her head: “No, Jenny, you can’t afford NOT to go to college. Listen, I will lend you the money, and when you graduate, you pay me back — just like a student loan with a bank.”
Anyway, she talked me into it, and I quickly completed the high school certification I needed and applied to the local college. I’ll admit Carol’s example inspired me to become a nurse, and four years later, I graduated summa cum laude.
I started working at a local hospital and ended up specializing in neo-natal care. One day, a TV crew came in to do a news story on a set of identical triplets and ended up interviewing me.
For a while, I was a bit of a celebrity, but the attention brought me an unwanted visitor. The doorbell rang and when I opened it, I was stunned to see my father standing there.
I became a nurse | Source: Pixabay
He looked terrible, like a bum, and he reeked of alcohol and sweat. “Jenny, my sweet baby girl!” he cried, reaching out his hands. “I’ve finally found you again.”
“Found me again?” I asked sharply, “You abandoned me in the hospital because I was useless, remember, like my mother?”
He squeezed out a few tears. “Oh my baby,” he sobbed. “Forgive me, I was frightened and in shock… You won’t turn your dad away now, would you? I haven’t been well…”
“You look fine to me,” I told him coldly, but my trained eye had already noted the yellow tinge to his skin and eyes. He had some kind of liver disorder, probably due to his drinking.
An unexpected visitor | Source: Pixabay
He shuffled forward. “I’m sick, Jenny, daddy really needs you…And…” he licked his lips thirstily. “And I’m broke, baby, no money for food…You’re not going to let your daddy go hungry, are you?”
“Like you left me to my fate? Helpless in a wheelchair? Guess what ‘DADDY,’ I am. Get out.” I slammed the door in his face and walked back into the lounge.
Carol looked up at me and smiled. “Who was that, Jenny?”
“Oh, just some man selling something!” I went to the sofa, sat down beside Carol, and hugged her fiercely. Carol hugged me back.
Carol adopted me | Source: Pexels
“Jenny,” she said, “there’s something I’ve been meaning to talk to you about. Would you allow me to adopt you? Become your mother? Because in my heart you already are my daughter.”
I started crying and I just couldn’t stop. I had been cursed with a terrible childhood, and now as an adult, I had been lucky enough to find a loving home and a parent who cherished me.
What can we learn from this story?
1. Family is built on love, not a biological bond, or shared DNA.
2. What you give is what you get, as Jenny’s father discovered.
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“MY SON WAS GOING TO MARRY THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE, BUT THE SECRET LETTER RUINED THEIR WEDDING.
The air in the grand ballroom buzzed with a joyous anticipation thick enough to taste. Fairy lights twinkled like captured stars, reflecting in the polished dance floor. Bouquets of white roses and baby’s breath adorned every table, their delicate fragrance mingling with the sweet scent of the elaborate wedding cake standing proudly in the corner. My heart swelled with happiness. My son, Daniel, my only child, was finally marrying the love of his life, Emily.
Emily was everything we could have hoped for – kind, intelligent, and with a smile that could light up a room. Daniel was utterly smitten, and seeing them together filled me with a profound sense of peace. The wedding preparations had been a whirlwind of excitement, and now, as the guests started to arrive, everything seemed perfect.
I stood near the entrance, greeting family and friends, my eyes constantly scanning for Daniel. He looked dashing in his tailored suit, a nervous but excited grin plastered on his face. Emily, a vision in white lace, floated down the aisle earlier, her radiant smile captivating everyone.
As Daniel stood at the altar, waiting for the ceremony to begin, the maid of honor, Sarah, Emily’s best friend since childhood, approached him. Sarah was a bright and bubbly young woman, always full of energy. She gave Daniel a warm hug, a gesture of affection and support. But then I noticed something odd. As she embraced him, her hand subtly slipped a folded piece of paper into his palm. I also caught a hushed whisper, her lips barely moving against his ear: “Read it and run.”
My brow furrowed. What was that about? Sarah stepped back, her smile perhaps a touch too wide, and took her place beside Emily. Daniel, still holding the letter concealed in his hand, seemed a little distracted, his eyes flicking towards Sarah.
The ceremony began, the officiant’s voice resonating through the room. But Daniel’s attention seemed elsewhere. The moment the officiant paused, Daniel subtly unfolded the letter, his eyes darting across the page. The transformation was instantaneous and terrifying. The color drained from his face, his jaw clenched, and his eyes widened in utter shock. It was as if a switch had been flipped, turning his joy into sheer disbelief and something akin to horror.
“What happened, dear?” I asked, my voice laced with fear as I reached out to touch his arm.
He flinched, pulling away sharply. “I have to go, Mom. Now,” he replied, his voice low and strained, almost a growl. He abruptly turned, his back to the altar, to Emily, to everyone. He strode with a determined, almost frantic pace towards the exit, ignoring the bewildered stares of the guests. He didn’t even look back. He reached the car, jumped in, and with a screech of tires, sped away, leaving a stunned silence in his wake.
I was utterly baffled, my heart pounding in my chest. What could possibly have been in that letter? I turned to look at the altar, where Emily stood frozen, her perfect smile slowly crumbling into a mask of confusion and hurt. Tears welled up in her eyes, and her shoulders began to tremble.
My gaze then fell upon Sarah, the maid of honor. She stood beside Emily, her hand resting reassuringly on her friend’s arm. But what struck me was the strange, almost triumphant smile playing on her lips. It was fleeting, quickly replaced by an expression of concern as she noticed me approaching.
“Sarah,” I said, my voice trembling with a mixture of anger and confusion, “What was in the letter you gave to my son?”
Her eyes widened, and a flicker of terror crossed her face, momentarily eclipsing her earlier smugness. She looked at me, her lips quivering, and stammered, “I just… I just wanted him to know the truth.”
“The truth about what?” I pressed, my patience wearing thin. The entire wedding party was now in disarray, guests whispering amongst themselves, their initial joy replaced by a palpable sense of unease. Emily was now openly weeping, her dream wedding dissolving before her eyes.
Sarah hesitated, her gaze darting between me and Emily. “I… I can’t say,” she finally whispered, her voice barely audible above the murmuring crowd. “It’s not my place. But he needed to know. For his own good.”
Her cryptic words only deepened my confusion and anxiety. What kind of truth could be so devastating that it would cause my son to abandon his wedding at the last minute? I looked at Emily, her face streaked with tears, her eyes filled with a pain that mirrored my own. This was supposed to be the happiest day of her life, and it had been shattered in an instant, all thanks to a whispered secret and a hastily written letter.
The following hours were a blur of chaos and heartbreak. Emily, supported by her family and friends, retreated to a private room, her sobs echoing through the stunned silence of the ballroom. The guests, unsure of what to do, began to leave, their well-wishes and celebratory mood replaced by hushed speculation and awkward condolences.
I tried to reach Daniel on his phone, but he didn’t answer. My calls went straight to voicemail, his recorded message a cruel reminder of the happy days that now seemed so distant. I drove home, my mind racing, replaying the scene over and over again. What could have been so earth-shattering? Had Emily done something? Had Sarah uncovered some terrible secret about her? Or was it something about Daniel himself?
Days turned into weeks, and Daniel remained unreachable. He had seemingly vanished without a trace, leaving behind a heartbroken fiancée and a bewildered mother. Emily, though devastated, showed incredible strength. She faced the cancelled wedding and the ensuing gossip with grace, surrounded by the unwavering support of her loved ones.
Finally, after what felt like an eternity, I received a message from Daniel. It was a short, cryptic text: “Mom, I’m okay. I needed time. I’ll explain everything soon.” Relief washed over me, but it was quickly followed by a fresh wave of questions.
A few weeks later, Daniel finally came home. He looked gaunt and tired, his eyes holding a sadness I had never seen before. He sat me down in the living room, his hands trembling as he began to speak.
“Mom,” he started, his voice thick with emotion, “the letter… it was from Sarah. It told me the truth about Emily.”
My heart pounded. “What truth?”
Daniel took a deep breath. “Emily… she wasn’t who I thought she was. Sarah found out… she found out that Emily had been leading a double life. She was already married, Mom. To someone else. The wedding to me was… a sham.”
I gasped, the revelation hitting me like a physical blow. Emily? My sweet, seemingly innocent Emily? How could this be?
Daniel explained that Sarah had stumbled upon the truth a few weeks before the wedding. She had seen Emily with another man, a man she introduced as her husband. Sarah, initially confused, had done some digging and uncovered the shocking reality. Emily had been married for over a year, and her impending wedding to Daniel was nothing more than an elaborate deception.
The reason for Emily’s deceit remained unclear. Perhaps it was for financial gain, or maybe she was simply living a fantasy, caught in a web of her own making. Whatever the motive, the truth was devastating.
Daniel had fled the wedding not because he didn’t love Emily, but because the foundation of their entire relationship had crumbled beneath him. The letter had saved him from a lifetime of lies and heartbreak.
As for Sarah, her wide smile at the wedding now made chilling sense. She hadn’t been malicious; she had believed she was doing the right thing, protecting her best friend from a terrible mistake and saving Daniel from a devastating betrayal. Her initial terror when I confronted her was likely due to the fear of revealing Emily’s secret and the potential fallout.
The aftermath was complex and painful. Emily eventually confessed the truth, her carefully constructed facade shattering into a million pieces. The reasons behind her actions were a tangled mess of insecurity and a desperate attempt to find happiness, however misguided. Her other husband, a man she had married for practical reasons, was equally shocked and heartbroken.
Daniel, though deeply wounded, eventually began to heal. The pain of betrayal was immense, but the truth, however brutal, had set him free. He reconnected with Sarah, thanking her for her courage and loyalty.
The wedding venue remained empty, the flowers wilted, and the cake grew stale. It was a stark reminder of a day that was supposed to be filled with love and joy but had instead become a symbol of deceit and shattered dreams.
Life moved on, as it always does. Daniel, though scarred, eventually found love again, this time with someone honest and genuine. Emily, after facing the consequences of her actions, embarked on a long journey of self-reflection and healing.
And I, the mother who had been so overjoyed at the prospect of her son’s happiness, learned a harsh lesson that day. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is to whisper a difficult truth, even if it ruins a perfectly planned wedding. For in the wreckage of broken promises, a chance for a more authentic and lasting happiness can sometimes be found.”MY SON WAS GOING TO MARRY THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE, BUT THE SECRET LETTER RUINED THEIR WEDDING.
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