I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
Jim Carrey: The Heartbreaking Announcement of His Retirement
Jim Carrey, a legendary figure in the world of comedy and acting, has recently made a shocking announcement that has left fans worldwide in disbelief. The beloved actor, known for his iconic roles in movies such as “Ace Ventura: Pet Detective,” “The Mask,” and “The Truman Show,” revealed that he is contemplating retirement from his illustrious acting career. This news has cast a somber mood over Hollywood and among his legion of admirers.
Carrey made the announcement during an interview promoting his latest film, “Sonic the Hedgehog 2.” In a candid moment, he shared his thoughts on stepping away from the limelight, stating, “I have enough. I’ve done enough. I am enough.” This simple yet profound declaration reflects a sense of fulfillment and closure with his career.
For decades, Jim Carrey has been a beacon of joy, bringing laughter and happiness to millions through his unparalleled comedic talent and dynamic performances. His ability to transform into unforgettable characters has left an indelible mark on the film industry. Carrey’s roles are not just performances; they are experiences that have deeply resonated with audiences across the globe.
The topic of Carrey’s potential retirement arose when Dolly Parton expressed her desire for Carrey to portray her former music partner, Porter Wagoner, in a biopic. Carrey was flattered by the suggestion but remained steadfast in his decision to retire, despite the tempting prospect of such a role. “I am very serious about my decision,” Carrey asserted, underscoring that this choice has been long in the making.
In typical Carrey fashion, he injected a bit of humor into the discussion, saying, “If the angels bring some sort of script that’s written in gold ink that says to me that it’s going to be really important for people to see, I might continue down the road, but I’m taking a break.” This statement left a glimmer of hope for fans that he might return if the right project comes along, though it seems clear that he is ready to enjoy a well-deserved break.
As Carrey contemplates a life away from the bustling world of Hollywood, he envisions a future filled with peace and creativity. He has taken to painting, finding solace and joy in this artistic expression. “I love creating art and enjoy the tranquility it brings,” Carrey shared, highlighting his contentment with a quieter, more reflective lifestyle.
Jim Carrey’s retirement marks the end of an era in comedy and film. His departure from the acting scene is undoubtedly a loss for the industry and fans alike. However, Carrey’s decision is a reminder that even icons need time to rest and pursue personal happiness.
Fans can take solace in the vast library of Carrey’s work, which remains available to relive the laughter and joy he has provided over the years. From his early slapstick comedies to his more profound dramatic roles, Carrey’s contributions to cinema are timeless treasures that will continue to entertain and inspire.
While it is sad to see him step back, there is hope that Carrey might one day find a role compelling enough to bring him out of retirement. Until then, fans will cherish the moments he has given us and respect his choice to seek peace and happiness in his life beyond the screen.
Jim Carrey’s legacy is one of laughter, love, and profound creativity. His retirement is a bittersweet reminder of the impermanence of even the brightest stars. As he transitions into this new chapter, we wish him all the joy and fulfillment he has given to so many throughout his extraordinary career.
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