In 2010, Sandra Bullock received a phone call that changed her life forever. “Your placement is here,” said the voice on the other end.
A few weeks later, she was on a stage, accepting her first Oscar for her appearance in The Blind Side, but she didn’t care she was there. “All I wanted was to go was just go home and feed Lou” she said of her newborn, whom she had been waiting for years to arrive.
Keep reading to learn more about this incredible actor and what inspired her to adopt two children!
In 2005, after Hurricane Katrina devastated Louisiana by flooding its grounds, Sandra Bullock had a feeling that inspired her decision to adopt a child.
“Katrina happened in New Orleans, and something told me, ‘My child is there.’ It was weird,” Bullock said in an interview with Today’s Hoda Kotb.
Years later, in January 2010, Bullock received the call she had been waiting years to receive.
Years later, in January 2010, Bullock received the call she had been waiting years to receive.
“He was unexpected, he was not planned. I got a call one day, ‘Your placement is here,’ and that’s after years after having filed it, years,” the 59-year-old star of Speed tells CBS News.
Little Lou
Gushing over Louis Bardo Bullock, the three-month-old boy from New Orleans she secretly adopted in 2010, Bullock said, “I looked at him like, ‘Oh, there you are.’ It was like he had always been there,” she recalled. “He fit in the crook of my arm. He looked me in the eyes. He was wise. My child was wise.”
The Miss Congeniality star adds, “The beautiful thing that I was constantly told was, ‘The perfect child will find you. You will find your child.’ But you don’t believe that when it’s not happening. When you’re going, ‘Where is my family?’ When it does happen, you know exactly what they’re talking about.”
Weeks after Lou arrived, Bullock was on stage at the Kodiak Theatre, accepting her first Oscar for her starring role in the film, The Blind Side.
But Lou owned her center stage and she wanted to be at home, with him.
“All I kept thinking about was, ‘He’s at home.’ Like, I didn’t care. I didn’t care that I was there, I just wanted to go home. And then I was sewn in the dress. I was sewn in the dress, and I had to get myself out of the dress, but all I wanted to do was just go home and feed Lou.”
Only days after, her marriage to reality star Jesse James came crashing down and Bullock became a single mother to an infant.
Bullock said, “I mean, so much had happened. How do you process grief and not hurt your child in the process? It’s a newborn, they take on everything that you’re feeling. So, my obligation was to [Lou] and not tainting the first year of his life with my grief.”
‘Louis’ got the stage’
“No one understands the shift in priorities about having a child in your life … until you have a child in your life,” Bullock said of shifting her focus from career to mom. “It naturally shifts…he showed up and now, Louis’ got the stage.”
Growing up in a healthy, happy environment, little Lou one day looked up at mom and predicted “I’m going to have a baby soon.”
Though Bullock admits she wasn’t planning on growing her family, she listened to her son, who planted the seed.
“I realized at that time, maybe he knew something. And when I think about it, it would have been around the time that Laila was born,” Bullock said. “It’s Louis’ way. Louis has a very strong way. He’s a fine leader, and he led me to Lai.”
Laila, who was living in foster care in Louisiana, is her daughter who joined the family in 2015 when she was three.
Recalling Laila’s trauma from being in childcare, the Ocean’s 8 star said, “She’d be in the closet with all her clothes on, she’d be on a bookshelf, she’d be hiding, she’d always be ready to leave,” the actress recalled of her daughter, adding that she always made sure Laila knew that she wasn’t “going anywhere.”
She then shared a conversation she had about Laila with Bryan Randall, the father figure to her children, and her partner from 2015 until ALS claimed his life in 2023. She said, “My partner said to me, ‘When she’s been with us longer than she hasn’t been, I have a feeling we’re going to see a change.’”
He was right. Recently, Bullock described Laila as “unafraid.”
“She’s a fighter, and that’s the reason she’s here today. She fought to keep her spirit intact. Oh my God, what she is going to accomplish. She’s going to bring some real change.”
Lou, now 13, “is super sensitive…He’s wise and kind,” the Bird Box star tells People. “I saw that when they handed him to me. There was a spiritual bigness to him.”
Though fans will be disappointed, the versatile actor is scaling back her work schedule to again be a single mother.
Bullock last appeared in 2022’s The Lost City with Channing Tatum and Bullet Train with Brad Pitt.
“I can be creative, I can be part of a community, but right now, work in front of the camera needs to take a pause,” she said.
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Discovering the Secret Significance of the Bow on Women’s Underwear
The Ribbon on Women’s Undergarments: Uncovering Its Hidden History
Often overshadowed by other aspects of fashion, the ribbon on women’s undergarments has captivated many. While we might not always think deeply about our underclothes, the delicate ribbon that often adorns the front of these garments has intrigued people worldwide. This article delves into the origins and significance of this decorative detail, unveiling a rich history tied to a bygone era.
The Role of the Ribbon
The ribbon on women’s undergarments is more than just a decorative touch; it has a practical legacy dating back centuries, particularly from a time before stretchable fabrics were invented. Historical evidence shows that this ribbon served a functional purpose beyond its aesthetic appeal.
A Glimpse Into the Pre-Elastic Era
Before the advent of elastic materials, drawstring ribbons were used to keep undergarments from slipping. These ribbons were threaded through lace eyelets at the waistband, ensuring that the garments stayed in place. This practical solution highlights the ingenuity of past eras in dealing with garment support.
The Symbolism of the Ribbon
Today, the ribbon on undergarments is often associated with charm, femininity, and a touch of innocence. Online discussions, like those on Reddit, often praise the ribbon for its “adorable” and “feminine” appeal. Additionally, the ribbon’s placement at the front of the garment serves a practical function: it helps in identifying the front of the garment quickly, especially when dressing in low-light conditions. This blend of form and function contributes to the ribbon’s lasting appeal.
The Evolution of Women’s Undergarments
To truly appreciate the ribbon’s significance, we must look at the evolution of women’s underclothes. Evidence of historical undergarments is often scarce due to their delicate nature, but artwork, literature, and preserved garments provide insights. Before the 15th century, women’s attire typically included slips, chemises, and sometimes stays.
The 19th Century Transformation
The 1800s marked a period of transformation, as plain drawers evolved into more elaborate pieces adorned with lace and trimmings. This era also saw the introduction of pantalettes, which retained the drawstring ribbon even as elastic began to gain popularity.
Fashion Trends and the Ribbon
As fashion trends evolved, the drawstring ribbon transitioned from a practical necessity to a fashionable detail. Though its original purpose of preventing slippage is no longer relevant, the ribbon’s aesthetic charm continues to captivate both wearers and designers. Its continued presence in women’s undergarments reflects its enduring allure and sophistication.
A Symbol of Femininity
The ribbon on undergarments represents a blend of utility and style. Its origins in a time before elastic fabrics evoke a nostalgic sentiment for inventive solutions, while its current role adds a touch of grace and femininity.
The Lasting Appeal
While historical records may not capture every detail, the ribbon’s enduring presence speaks volumes about its significance and charm. Next time you notice a ribbon on women’s undergarments, remember the rich history it represents and the delicate blend of practicality and elegance it embodies.
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