In 2010, Sandra Bullock received a phone call that changed her life forever. “Your placement is here,” said the voice on the other end.
A few weeks later, she was on a stage, accepting her first Oscar for her appearance in The Blind Side, but she didn’t care she was there. “All I wanted was to go was just go home and feed Lou” she said of her newborn, whom she had been waiting for years to arrive.
Keep reading to learn more about this incredible actor and what inspired her to adopt two children!
In 2005, after Hurricane Katrina devastated Louisiana by flooding its grounds, Sandra Bullock had a feeling that inspired her decision to adopt a child.
“Katrina happened in New Orleans, and something told me, ‘My child is there.’ It was weird,” Bullock said in an interview with Today’s Hoda Kotb.
Years later, in January 2010, Bullock received the call she had been waiting years to receive.
Years later, in January 2010, Bullock received the call she had been waiting years to receive.
“He was unexpected, he was not planned. I got a call one day, ‘Your placement is here,’ and that’s after years after having filed it, years,” the 59-year-old star of Speed tells CBS News.
Little Lou
Gushing over Louis Bardo Bullock, the three-month-old boy from New Orleans she secretly adopted in 2010, Bullock said, “I looked at him like, ‘Oh, there you are.’ It was like he had always been there,” she recalled. “He fit in the crook of my arm. He looked me in the eyes. He was wise. My child was wise.”
The Miss Congeniality star adds, “The beautiful thing that I was constantly told was, ‘The perfect child will find you. You will find your child.’ But you don’t believe that when it’s not happening. When you’re going, ‘Where is my family?’ When it does happen, you know exactly what they’re talking about.”
Weeks after Lou arrived, Bullock was on stage at the Kodiak Theatre, accepting her first Oscar for her starring role in the film, The Blind Side.
But Lou owned her center stage and she wanted to be at home, with him.
“All I kept thinking about was, ‘He’s at home.’ Like, I didn’t care. I didn’t care that I was there, I just wanted to go home. And then I was sewn in the dress. I was sewn in the dress, and I had to get myself out of the dress, but all I wanted to do was just go home and feed Lou.”
Only days after, her marriage to reality star Jesse James came crashing down and Bullock became a single mother to an infant.
Bullock said, “I mean, so much had happened. How do you process grief and not hurt your child in the process? It’s a newborn, they take on everything that you’re feeling. So, my obligation was to [Lou] and not tainting the first year of his life with my grief.”
‘Louis’ got the stage’
“No one understands the shift in priorities about having a child in your life … until you have a child in your life,” Bullock said of shifting her focus from career to mom. “It naturally shifts…he showed up and now, Louis’ got the stage.”
Growing up in a healthy, happy environment, little Lou one day looked up at mom and predicted “I’m going to have a baby soon.”
Though Bullock admits she wasn’t planning on growing her family, she listened to her son, who planted the seed.
“I realized at that time, maybe he knew something. And when I think about it, it would have been around the time that Laila was born,” Bullock said. “It’s Louis’ way. Louis has a very strong way. He’s a fine leader, and he led me to Lai.”
Laila, who was living in foster care in Louisiana, is her daughter who joined the family in 2015 when she was three.
Recalling Laila’s trauma from being in childcare, the Ocean’s 8 star said, “She’d be in the closet with all her clothes on, she’d be on a bookshelf, she’d be hiding, she’d always be ready to leave,” the actress recalled of her daughter, adding that she always made sure Laila knew that she wasn’t “going anywhere.”
She then shared a conversation she had about Laila with Bryan Randall, the father figure to her children, and her partner from 2015 until ALS claimed his life in 2023. She said, “My partner said to me, ‘When she’s been with us longer than she hasn’t been, I have a feeling we’re going to see a change.’”
He was right. Recently, Bullock described Laila as “unafraid.”
“She’s a fighter, and that’s the reason she’s here today. She fought to keep her spirit intact. Oh my God, what she is going to accomplish. She’s going to bring some real change.”
Lou, now 13, “is super sensitive…He’s wise and kind,” the Bird Box star tells People. “I saw that when they handed him to me. There was a spiritual bigness to him.”
Though fans will be disappointed, the versatile actor is scaling back her work schedule to again be a single mother.
Bullock last appeared in 2022’s The Lost City with Channing Tatum and Bullet Train with Brad Pitt.
“I can be creative, I can be part of a community, but right now, work in front of the camera needs to take a pause,” she said.
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I Found a Letter in the Attic Revealing a Secret My Parents Hid from Me for Years – Story of the Day
I always believed my parents had given me the perfect childhood, filled with love and trust. But one evening, while looking for old family photos in the attic, I stumbled upon a sealed letter. What I read inside turned my entire world upside down and changed everything I thought I knew.
That evening felt peaceful, just like always when I came to my parents’ house for dinner on the weekends. Their home felt warm and safe.
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The smell of Mom’s cooking filled the air, and soft music played in the background.
We sat at the kitchen table, laughing and remembering funny stories from my childhood.
While we were still talking, Mom mentioned the old photo albums she kept in the attic. “You should look through them,” she said. “There are lots of sweet baby pictures.”
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I smiled. “Maybe I’ll take a few home.”
After dinner, I went upstairs. The attic smelled like dust and cardboard. I turned on the light and crouched near the boxes.
I found the albums and smiled at the photos of myself as a baby, riding on Dad’s shoulders, sitting in Mom’s lap.
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Then I noticed a worn box pushed behind the others. At the very bottom, under wrapping paper and old cards, was an envelope. It was sealed. On the front, in shaky handwriting, were the words: “For my daughter.”
My hands began to tremble. What was this? Why had I never seen it before?
I broke the seal and opened the letter.
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“My beautiful baby girl,
I am so sorry. You are only just born, and I already have to make the hardest choice of my life. I cannot keep you. I am too young, too lost, and too afraid to raise you alone.”
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“But my love for you is endless. Letting you go is not because I don’t want you — it’s because I want a better life for you than I could ever give. I hope the family who takes you in will love you the way you deserve. I will always carry you in my heart. Always.
With all my love,
Your mother.”
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I couldn’t breathe. My chest tightened. My parents were downstairs. What was this letter? I grabbed the envelope and stormed into the kitchen, holding it out to them.
“What is this?” My voice shook. I held out the letter with both hands. My fingers would not stop trembling.
They turned to look at me. Mom’s face lost all its color. Dad’s jaw clenched hard. They stared at me. Neither of them spoke.
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“Well?” I asked again. My voice was louder this time.
Mom jumped to her feet. She wrung her hands tightly. Her eyes were wide. “Emily… honey, I don’t know where you found that. Maybe it’s a mistake. Maybe—”
“Stop,” I cut her off. Dad’s voice came next. His tone was steady but cold. He reached out. He took Mom’s hand and pulled her back into her chair. His eyes met mine. His face was serious. “We have to tell her.”
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My stomach dropped, and I felt like I was falling.
“Tell me what?” I asked. My voice came out soft, and I barely heard myself.
Dad let out a long breath. “Emily… you are not our biological daughter.”
I felt like someone had hit me. I grabbed the table to keep from falling. My knees were weak.
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“What are you saying?” I asked. My voice was sharp.
Mom’s eyes filled with tears. She opened her mouth. Her lips trembled. “We adopted you. You were just a few days old. Your birth mother was 16. She couldn’t keep you. She wrote that letter after you were born.”
“No,” I said. I shook my head hard. “You’re lying. Both of you.”
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“Emily, please,” Dad said. His voice softened. “We love you. You are our daughter.”
I stared at them. My hands curled into fists. “But you lied!” I shouted. “Every single day. You looked me in the eyes. You lied!”
Mom reached toward me. Her hands shook. I stepped back.
“We wanted to tell you,” she cried. “We were scared.”
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“Scared of what?” I asked.
“That you would hate us. That you would leave us,” she said.
I felt my whole body shaking. My throat burned. “This letter was for me. You had no right to keep it.”
Dad’s voice cracked. “We didn’t know how to tell you. But we have always loved you.”
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I stood. My hands were tight at my sides. “I don’t even know who I am.”
The room went quiet. The silence hurt.
“Tell me her name,” I said. “Where is she?”
Mom lowered her head. Dad answered. “Her name is Sarah. She lived in the city where you were born.”
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I stared at them both. I grabbed my jacket, keys, and bag.
“Emily, wait!” Mom called out.
But I didn’t stop. I could hear Mom calling my name, but I kept going. I slammed the door behind me and stumbled toward my car, my breath coming fast and shaky.
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I had never felt this kind of pain before. It was sharp and deep like something inside me had snapped.
I climbed into the driver’s seat and gripped the steering wheel as hard as I could.
I started the car and drove away without looking back. I headed straight to my apartment.
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When I got inside, I dropped my bag on the floor. I couldn’t stop crying. My chest hurt so much I could barely breathe. I cried until there were no more tears left, just that awful empty feeling.
I barely slept that night. I couldn’t stop hearing my parents’ voices in my head.
Their words circled over and over, but none of their reasons could drown out the hurt. The betrayal was louder than anything they had said.
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When the sun came up, I knew I couldn’t just sit there. I had to find her. I checked online and there were only a few results. Then I saw her photo. She stood outside a small diner, smiling.
I stared at the screen. My eyes wouldn’t leave her face. I wondered if I looked like her. I wondered if she ever thought about me.
I got in my car and drove two hours to that little town. I kept going over the words I might say when I saw her, but none of them felt right.
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When I reached the diner, I stayed across the street, just sitting in my car, watching. It was small and simple.
Inside, people laughed and talked over their meals. The windows were bright with sunshine.
Then I saw her. Sarah. She moved between the tables, carrying plates and smiling at the people around her. She looked kind. She looked happy.
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I felt my heart race as I forced myself to open the car door. I stepped outside, walked across the street, and pushed open the door of the diner. The bell above the door jingled softly.
“Hi there! Sit wherever you like,” she called from behind the counter. Her voice sounded friendly and warm.
I picked a small table by the window. I sat down and tried to keep my hands still. My fingers kept twisting together in my lap.
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She walked over with a bright smile and handed me a menu. “What can I get you, sweetie?” she asked, tilting her head a little as she looked at me.
I felt my throat tighten. I cleared it and tried to speak without my voice shaking. “Just a sandwich, please,” I said, keeping my eyes down.
She nodded and wrote the order on her pad. “Coming right up.” She turned and headed back toward the kitchen.
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I stared at her as she moved between the tables. Every time she passed near me, I wanted to say something. The words were right there, but I couldn’t get them out.
When she brought the sandwich, I coughed. My throat felt dry and itchy.
She set the plate down and gave me a soft smile. “Sounds like you’re catching a cold,” she said. “Would you like some tea? It’s on the house.”
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“Thank you,” I whispered. My voice barely came out.
She smiled again, sweet and gentle, then walked back toward the counter.
I stayed there for hours, sitting at the table by the window, barely eating, barely moving.
The sandwich on my plate stayed almost untouched. I watched her the whole time as she moved between the customers, smiling easily and talking softly.
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We exchanged a few simple words — only safe small talk about the town, the diner, and the weather. I lied. I said I was just passing through. My throat felt tight every time I spoke, but I tried to smile.
Then the door opened. A man came in, holding a little boy’s hand. They laughed softly as they walked toward Sarah.
The boy let go of the man’s hand and ran straight to her. She bent down right away and hugged him close.
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She smiled at him with so much love that my chest hurt. The warmth on her face made my heart ache.
I sat frozen, staring at them. I could not look away. Was this her family? Did she have another child? Did she already have everything she needed in her life?
I couldn’t stay. My chest felt tight, my breath short and hard to catch. I grabbed my bag, left money on the table, and walked out fast, holding back tears until I reached my car.
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I collapsed into the seat and let the sobs come, hot and heavy, shaking my whole body. I wasn’t ready.
I told myself I wouldn’t go back. But the next week, I was driving those same two hours again. I didn’t fully understand why. I just knew I couldn’t let it go.
I sat at the same table, watching her move between the customers, smiling easily. When she saw me, she smiled like she was happy to see me.
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“Well, hello again,” she said. “Back in town?”
“Yeah… just passing through,” I replied, my voice barely steady.
“Same order as last time?”
I nodded.
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She brought the sandwich and tea, her kindness as gentle as before. I coughed again, and she gave me a soft look of concern.
Our conversation stayed light, but every word from her felt like it pulled at something deep inside me.
Then the man and the boy came in again. I watched as the boy ran to her, and she hugged him close.
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When she came by my table later, I said softly, “You have a lovely family.”
Sarah smiled. “Thank you. But that’s my brother and my nephew.”
The breath I’d been holding finally left my lungs. I knew I couldn’t keep coming like this. I couldn’t sit there in silence, hiding.
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That night, I waited outside the diner until her shift ended. When she stepped into the parking lot, pulling her jacket tighter, I approached.
“Sarah,” I called, my voice shaking.
She turned, surprised. “Oh, hi. You’re still here?”
“I… I need to talk to you.”
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Concern crossed her face. “Is everything okay?”
I took a step closer and reached into my bag, pulling out the letter. My fingers shook as I held it out to her.
She glanced down at the envelope, her expression softening the moment she saw the handwriting.
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Slowly, she reached for it, her hands starting to tremble as well. Her lips parted, but no words came out.
She looked up at me, her eyes filling with tears. And in that moment, without needing me to say anything, she understood.
Tears rolled down her cheeks as she whispered, “Can I… can I hug you?”
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I nodded, my throat too tight to speak.
She wrapped her arms around me, and I fell into her. We stood there, crying, holding each other under the soft glow of the parking lot lights.
When we finally stepped back, she smiled through her tears.
“Would you come back inside? I’d love to talk.”
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I nodded, wiping my face.
We sat at a quiet table, away from the others. She poured tea for both of us. At first, we sat in silence.
Then she told me everything. How young she’d been. How scared. How much she had loved me.
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She said my biological father had wanted to keep me, but couldn’t. They stayed in touch, both wondering about me all these years.
I listened. I told her about my life and childhood. How my parents loved and gave me everything.
“I was angry at them,” I admitted softly. “But they did love me. They still do.”
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Sarah squeezed my hand. “I’m grateful they raised you.”
When we stood to leave, she hugged me again. “I’d love to see you again,” she said.
“I’d like that,” I answered.
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That night, back in my apartment, I picked up my phone. I stared at the screen for a long time before typing the message to the family group.
“Thank you for loving me. Thank you for raising me. I’m coming home for breakfast tomorrow.”
When I hit send, something inside me finally felt at peace.
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