Minutes Before My Wedding, I Learned the Truth—So I Ran

Minutes before I walked down the aisle to marry the man I thought I’d spend my life with, my world crumbled. A truth so devastating unraveled that I couldn’t face him or our guests. So, I fled. Mascara streaking my face, I ran in my wedding dress down the highway.

We’ve all heard stories about runaway brides, but I never thought I’d become one.

There I was, ditching my own wedding. Tears streamed down my face. I couldn’t go through with it because minutes before the ceremony, I discovered something about Grant that turned my world upside down.

An upset bride | Source: Midjourney

An upset bride | Source: Midjourney

I’ve always believed life has a way of falling into place when the timing is right.

By thirty, I had everything I ever wanted. A good job in marketing, a beautiful home, and the love of my life, Grant, by my side.

We’d been together for as long as I could remember. We met in high school when I was sixteen, and from that moment, we were inseparable.

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A couple holding hands | Source: Pexels

Grant was everything I’d ever dreamed of in a partner. He was perfect, and he had this way of making me feel like the most important person in the world. After all, that’s what all of us want to feel like, right?

“I’ll always be by your side, Sadie,” he once told me during a quiet evening at the beach.

“And I’ll always be by yours,” I replied, squeezing his hand. “No matter what.”

We talked about our future often. We wanted to get married, start a family, and grow old together.

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A couple sitting together | Source: Pexels

“You’re my forever,” he whispered one night, tucking a strand of hair behind my ear.

Those words stayed with me. Even through the ups and downs of life, I believed we’d make it through anything.

So, when he proposed three years ago, I was the happiest woman alive.

It was a perfect day. Grant took me to our favorite spot by the lake, got down on one knee, and asked me to marry him.

“Yes!” I cried, barely letting him finish his question.

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A man holding a woman’s hand | Source: Pexels

We celebrated that night with friends and family, and I couldn’t stop smiling. This was it. My life was finally falling into place.

The next three years flew by in a blur of wedding planning and work. Grant was busy with his job, and I threw myself into making sure our wedding day would be perfect.

To be honest, it was. Until it wasn’t.

I couldn’t have imagined how quickly things would take a turn for the worse.

A woman on her big day | Source: Midjourney

A woman on her big day | Source: Midjourney

Fast forward to our wedding day.

The church was beautifully decorated with white roses and delicate fairy lights, just as I’d envisioned. Meanwhile, I felt like a princess in my stunning lace gown.

I stood at the back of the church, clutching my bouquet, as my heart raced with anticipation. This was the moment I had been waiting for. Walking down the aisle to the man I loved.

But before I could take a single step, my heart shattered into a million pieces.

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A close-up shot of wedding aisle decor | Source: Pexels

“Sadie,” my best friend, Lila, called out. Her face was pale, and her hands shook as she clutched her phone. “I need to talk to you.”

I frowned. “Lila, now? We’re about to start.”

She shook her head fiercely. “No, you need to see this right now.”

I set my bouquet down, confusion turning to dread as I took her phone. The screen showed a Reddit thread.

“Read the post,” Lila urged, her voice trembling. “I found it by accident. It just… popped up.”

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A woman using a phone | Source: Pexels

My heart skipped a beat as I scrolled.

The post was titled, When your fiancé celebrates with someone who’s not the bride.

And then my gaze landed on a photo of Grant.

It was taken at his bachelor party two nights before. In the picture, he sat with a woman on his lap. They were kissing.

I stared at the screen, the image burning into my mind.

I could barely process the caption beneath the photo, “Guess she’s not the one walking down the aisle this weekend.”

A bride looking at her friend's phone | Source: Midjourney

A bride looking at her friend’s phone | Source: Midjourney

“This can’t be real,” I whispered, shaking my head in disbelief.

“Sadie…” Lila placed a hand on my arm, steadying me. “It is. I double-checked. That’s him. That’s Grant.”

I dropped onto the nearest chair, my legs too weak to hold me.

Grant? The man I’d loved for years? My Grant?

I couldn’t believe it. I couldn’t digest that a photo of my fiancé kissing another woman was circulating online, being dissected by strangers.

“I can’t do this,” I whispered.

An upset bride on her wedding day | Source: Midjourney

An upset bride on her wedding day | Source: Midjourney

That’s when Lila knelt beside me.

“Sadie, you don’t have to,” she said. “You don’t owe him anything. But you need to decide now.”

I looked at her through tears. “What am I supposed to do? There are 150 people waiting for me out there.”

“Forget them,” she said firmly. “This is about you. What do you want to do?”

I took a deep breath, trying to steady myself. Every instinct told me to confront Grant, demand answers. But how? In front of everyone?

No. I couldn’t do it. Not like this.

An upset bride thinking about her life | Source: Midjourney

An upset bride thinking about her life | Source: Midjourney

“I’m leaving,” I said while grabbing my things. “I’m done.”

Lila stood, nodding. “I’ll cover for you as long as I can.”

Without looking back, I left the bridal suite. I didn’t know where I was going, but I just kept walking, past the church, past the guests waiting inside.

Cars sped by, honking occasionally at the sight of a bride walking along the highway. My dress dragged through the dirt, and mascara streaked down my face. I must have looked like something out of a sad country song.

Then, a pickup truck pulled over.

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A pickup truck | Source: Pexels

I wiped my eyes and glanced up, surprised to see a man leaning out the window.

“Sadie?” he called, his voice unsure. “Is that you?”

I looked at him and immediately recognized him from photos. It was Ethan. Grant’s older brother.

He’d never come to visit while I was with Grant, but I knew who he was. The black sheep of the family, they called him.

“What happened?” Ethan asked, his brows knitting in concern. “Why are you out here like this? Get in. I’ll drive you wherever you need to go.”

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A man sitting in his car | Source: Midjourney

I shook my head. “Only if you promise to drive me away.”

His lips twitched into a small smile. “Deal.”

I nodded and climbed into the truck.

As we drove, I finally let it all out. The betrayal, the photo, and the humiliation.

Ethan listened quietly, handing me tissues as I sobbed. “What a jerk,” he muttered at one point, making me laugh through my tears.

It felt good to talk.

But just as I started to relax, Ethan slammed on the brakes.

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A man holding a steering wheel | Source: Pexels

“What are you doing, Ethan?” I yelped, my heart racing.

Ethan looked at me, guilt etched across his face. “Sadie, I’m sorry. I have to.”

Before I could ask what he meant, he turned the truck around. We were heading straight back to the wedding.

“I can’t go back there,” I said, my voice cracking. “They’re all going to see me like this and I don’t want that! They’ll think I ran away because—”

“You have nothing to be ashamed of,” Ethan cut me off. “The person who should be humiliated is Grant. Not you. You’ll expose him. Tell everyone what he really is.”

A serious man driving a car | Source: Midjourney

A serious man driving a car | Source: Midjourney

I wanted to argue, to insist he drop me off anywhere but there. But deep down, I knew Ethan was right. The truth had to come out.

“You’ll be there with me?” I whispered.

He nodded. “Every step of the way.”

When we pulled into the church parking lot, the guests were already trickling out. The ceremony had clearly been canceled, but some family members lingered near the entrance, including Grant.

A groom standing in a parking lot | Source: Midjourney

A groom standing in a parking lot | Source: Midjourney

My heart pounded as I climbed out of the truck. Lila spotted me first and rushed over.

“Sadie!” she cried, relief flooding her face. “Are you okay?”

“I’m fine,” I nodded. “I need to do this.”

Grant’s eyes locked on me as I walked toward him with Ethan by my side. His expression shifted from confusion to anger the moment he saw Ethan.

“Where the heck have you been?” Grant snapped. “What’s he doing here?”

I ignored his questions.

A bride standing in a parking lot | Source: Midjourney

A bride standing in a parking lot | Source: Midjourney

Then, I pulled out my phone, opened the post Lila had shown me, and held it up for everyone to see.

“This is why I left,” I announced. “Grant was with another woman two nights ago at his bachelor party.”

Gasps rippled through the small crowd as they looked at the photo.

“That’s not what it looks like!” Grant argued. “It’s taken out of context!”

“Out of context?” I shot back. “How do you explain kissing another woman while celebrating your bachelor party?!”

A bride looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

A bride looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

Grant opened his mouth to speak, but Ethan stepped in front of me, cutting him off.

“Don’t,” Ethan said firmly. “You’ve done enough.”

Grant’s face contorted with fury. “Stay out of this, Ethan! This has nothing to do with you!”

“That doesn’t mean you can get away with this, Grant!” Ethan yelled. “You can’t cheat on Sadie like that!”

At that point, Grant lunged forward and pushed Ethan, but thankfully, Grant’s friends held him back. Their father also came forward and helped Ethan get up.

That day marked the end of my relationship with Grant. I never spoke to him again.

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A woman standing near a window | Source: Pexels

But Ethan? We stayed in touch.

Over the following weeks, I learned about his struggles. A failing family farm and a mountain of debt that Grant had refused to help him with.

Ethan was planning to sell his pickup truck, his last possession of value, to stay afloat.

That’s when I had an idea.

I took the money I’d saved for my honeymoon and offered to help Ethan turn his farm into a farm-to-table subscription box business.

It was a risk, but it paid off.

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A green field near a house | Source: Pexels

A year later, Ethan invited me back to the farm. The fields were thriving, the business was booming, and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I was exactly where I was meant to be.

And standing there, side by side with Ethan, I realized I’d gained something far better than a husband. I’d found a loyal partner and the best friend I never knew I needed.

I’m so grateful to Lila for showing me that Reddit post. Otherwise, I would’ve married Grant without knowing what kind of a person he truly was.

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Vertigo Star Kim Novak Is Spending Her 91st Birthday with ‘Friends and Lots of Fudge’ (Exclusive)

Tuesday marks the 91st birthday for Kim Novak, the star of Alfred Hitchcock’s 1958 film Vertigo, who walked away from Hollywood over five decades ago.

“She’s spending her birthday having a picnic on her property with friends and lots of fudge,” says her longtime manager and close friend Sue Cameron.

Life is sweet these days for Novak, who lives quietly on the Oregon coast, surrounded by her beloved horses.

In honor of her 91st birthday, read on for an interview from 2021 in which Novak shared why she left Hollywood and found her true self.

How Vertigo Actress Kim Novak Spent Her 91st Birthday with 'Friends and Lots of Fudge'
Kim Novak in November 2023. Courtesy of Sue Cameron 

Over 50 years ago, Kim Novak, the enigmatic star of Alfred Hitchcock’s Vertigo, walked away from Hollywood. The woman who had once been the No. 1 box office draw in the world put her belongings in a van and drove north, first to Carmel, California and then two decades later to Oregon, to live her life as an artist.

“I had to leave to survive,” she tells PEOPLE. “It was a survival issue.”

“I lost a sense of who I truly was and what I stood for,” says Novak in a rare interview to talk about her new book, Kim Novak : Her Art and Life. published by the Butler Museum of American Art.

“I fought all the time back in Hollywood to keep my identity so you do whatever you have to do to hold on to who you are and what you stand for,” she explains.

“I’ve never done one of those tell-all books that they wanted me to do for so long, and I thought this is the kind of book I’d like to do,” she says of her art book. “Actually, I had written my autobiography and it was almost complete but I had a house fire and the house burned down and I made no copies. I just couldn’t go through it again because I had spent so much time. But it was okay because it was a catharsis just to do it.”

After starring in Picnic (1955) with William Holden, The Man With the Golden Arm (1955) and Pal Joey (1957), opposite Frank Sinatra, and Vertigo, with Jimmy Stewart, Novak was at the height of her career but still under the control of the studio.

As she writes in her book’s introduction, “I was both dazzled and disturbed to see me being packaged as a Hollywood sex symbol. However, I did win my fight over identity. I wouldn’t allow [Columbia Pictures chief] Harry Cohn to take my bohemian roots away by denying me my family name. Novak. I stood my ground and won my first major battle.”

Cohn wanted her to change her name to Kit Marlowe, telling her that audiences would be turned off by her Eastern European roots. She refused. In the late ’50s, she defied him again when she began dating singer Sammy Davis Jr. against his wishes and she fought to live her life as an independent woman.

“There was constant pressure to be seen and not heard,” writes Novak, “especially if you had a pretty face.”

“In Hollywood a lot of people assume who you are, because of the character you play, but also just because of who they expect you to be, how they expect you to dress,” she says. “It influences you because if you’re in some gorgeous sequined gown, you can’t run along the ocean and run on the beaches.”

VERTIGO, Kim Novak, 1958.
Kim Novak in “Vertigo” (1958). Everett

“I kept feeling like I was going deeper and deeper, lost in almost like a quicksand, where it’s swallowing you up, your own personality, and I’d started to wonder who I am,” she explains. “I realized needed to save myself.”

She found peace living and painting in the Rogue River Valley of Oregon and notes, “I needed the Pacific Ocean to inspire me, the animals, the beauty.”

“I wanted to live a normal life and a life with animals,” says the actress, who had always loved drawing and painting as a young girl growing up in Chicago. She was awarded two scholarships to the Chicago Art Institute before she was spotted by a talent scout on a trip to L.A. and her life changed course.

Once she left Hollywood, Novak returned to her twin passions: art and animals. “My teachers were the animals, not just dogs and cats, but other animals, horses and llamas, whom you have to meet half way, because they’re not ready to accept humans. I had to learn to win them over,” she says. “They understand a person who’s genuine so I had to become more real and that made me rely on my inner self — and that also encouraged me to paint. Everything seemed to flow from that.”

“You learn how to count on, not how you look, which is a big thing as a movie star, especially if you were recognized because of how you look,” she adds. “That can be a difficult thing when you change — but looks had nothing to do with it.”

She met second husband, Robert Malloy, an equine veterinarian, in the late ’70s, when he paid her a house call to treat one of her Arabian horses. She called him her “soul mate.” He died last December.

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Jimmy Stewart and Kim Novak in “Vertigo”. Richard C. Miller/Donaldson Collection/Getty

“I don’t feel 87,” says Novak. “I don’t keep tract of the time. If I did, I’d be an old lady and I’m not an old lady. I’m still riding my horse. I stay as healthy as I can.”

In 2012, Novak revealed she’d been living with bipolar disorder. “I don’t mind being open about who I am because these are all characteristics which make you who you are, especially as an artist,” she says. “Now, of course, I have medication for it but the best medicine of all is art.”

She’s proud of her favorite films, including Vertigo and Bell, Book and Candle (1958), and has fond memories, especially of her friend and costar Jimmy Stewart. Says Novak: “He didn’t let Hollywood change who he was.”

“People can remember me in movies but I want them to see me as an artist,” says Novak, whose paintings were exhibited at a 2019 retrospective at the Butler Museum in Youngstown, Ohio. “What’s great about painting is, you become the director too. No one’s telling you how to do it. You get to direct the whole thing.”

“I’ve been influenced a lot by Hitchcock in my work because he did mysteries and at first glance, I want my painting to be a mystery,” she says. “I love being the director, the producer, the actor in my paintings.”

“This is who I am. I want people to see I was not just a movie star.”

Looking back, Novak says, “I’m so glad I didn’t do the tell-all book, where you write all about your love life. That wasn’t who I was. This book tells who I am. I just needed to be free.”

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