Calling someone “fat” can be a hurtful insult. But why is that?
This question came up when a mother named Allison shared her story about a recent swimming trip with her children. When her daughter called her fat, 30-year-old Allison had a clever response, and her message is now spreading quickly online.
Allison Kimmey began dieting when she was just 14 years old. She managed to stay at a size two to four through graduate school, but it was tough, and she wasn’t happy. Three years ago, at age 27, Allison reached a size eight and realized she would be much happier if she stopped fighting against her weight gain.
To motivate herself, Allison started an Instagram account, @allisonkimmey, where she shares pictures and inspirational messages. Her body positivity spreads joy and encourages her followers, but her important message doesn’t always reach everyone.
**Me:** “Actually, everyone, every single person in the world has fat. But each of us has different amounts.”
**Her brother:** “Oh right! I have some to protect my big muscles! But you have more than me.”
**Me:** “Yes, that’s true. Some people have a lot, and others don’t have much. But that doesn’t mean one person is better than the other. Do you both understand?”
**Both:** “Yes, mama.”
**Me:** “So can you repeat what I said?”
**Them:** “Yes! I shouldn’t say someone is fat because you can’t just be fat, but everyone HAS fat, and it’s okay to have different fat.”
**Me:** “Exactly right!”
Not only did Allison want to teach her children how to talk to others, but she also felt it was important to spread the message that everyone is equal, no matter their body shape. Now, her post on Instagram has gone viral.
“If I shame my children for saying it, then I’m proving that it’s an insulting word and continuing the stigma that being fat is unworthy, gross, comical, and undesirable,” writes Allison.
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Those stories definitely illustrate how instinct and observation can sometimes reveal hidden truths in relationships. It’s fascinating—and often heartbreaking—how small signs can lead to major revelations. Each scenario highlights the importance of communication and trust, and how a lack of transparency can lead to suspicion and betrayal.
In the first story, the protagonist’s gut feeling ultimately led her to uncover a painful secret, showing that sometimes our instincts are our best guides. In the second, the act of proposing with a ring that had a past tied to an ex raised red flags that became impossible to ignore, leading to a significant breakdown in trust. And the last story reflects how misunderstandings can spiral out of control, illustrating the delicate balance between trust and suspicion.
It’s interesting to see how these dynamics play out and how they can either lead to resolution and healing or further complications in relationships. What do you think about these kinds of situations?
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