Budgeting is important. But when my husband demanded I JUSTIFY every dollar I spent, even on essentials like diapers and tampons, I realized this wasn’t about money. So I played along, but he had no idea I was about to teach him the most expensive lesson of his life.
I never thought marriage would turn into a daily accounting session. Yet there I was, a mother of twin babies, writing down why I needed to buy diapers and shampoo like I was applying for a loan from the world’s most condescending bank. But trust me when I say this… the reckoning that followed was worth every humiliating entry in that little notebook.
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Let me start from the beginning…
My husband, Ethan, and I had been together for six years, married for three. Before our twins arrived, we were equals. I had my marketing career and he had his finance job. We split expenses evenly and never argued about money.
“Look at us adulting like pros,” Ethan joked after we finished our monthly budget review. “Most couples fight about money, but we’ve got this down to a science.”
I laughed and clinked my coffee mug against his. “That’s because neither of us is trying to be the boss of the other’s wallet. Novel concept, right?”
Then I got pregnant with twins… and EVERYTHING changed.
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We agreed I’d take a year off to care for our babies before returning to work. It seemed like a solid plan at the time.
The twins, James and Lily, arrived in a whirlwind of sleepless nights and endless diaper changes. I barely had time to shower, let alone worry about household finances.
But as months passed, I noticed the change in Ethan. It began with small comments, dropped casually like breadcrumbs leading to something darker.
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“Holy cow, we’re burning through formula like it’s free,” he remarked one evening, eyebrows shooting up as I added it to our shopping list.
“Yeah, turns out babies don’t photosynthesize,” I replied dryly. “They need actual food! Crazy concept.”
He sighed. “At this rate, I might as well just hand my paycheck straight to the cashier and call it a day.”
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The comments continued, gaining frequency and edge. One night, as I rocked Lily to sleep, Ethan appeared in the doorway, waving a receipt like it was evidence in a murder trial.
“Another grocery run? What is this, your third pilgrimage this week?”
“No, it’s my secret affair with the cashier,” I whispered sarcastically. “We needed diapers, Ethan. Unless you’d prefer the twins start using the backyard like the neighbor’s dog.”
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The breaking point came on a Tuesday night. The twins were finally asleep, and I managed to cook an actual meal instead of ordering takeout.
Ethan sat down at the table, looking at the roast chicken with approval. “Wow, real food that doesn’t come in a delivery bag. I’m impressed.”
“Thanks,” I smiled, pouring water. “I figured we deserved something that didn’t taste like cardboard for once.”
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He took a bite, then set down his fork with the deliberation of someone about to detonate an explosive. “I’ve been thinking about our spending.”
My stomach tightened. “What about it?”
“I think you need to be more mindful about spending since you’re NOT earning right now.”
I blinked. “I’m sorry, what was that? The sound of your foot entering your mouth must have distorted your words.”
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“You’re not earning right now, Lauren,” he repeated firmly. “I think you should track what you spend and justify it. It’ll teach you to be more economical.”
I laughed sharply. “Oh, that’s rich. Tell me, what’s the going rate for a 24/7 nanny, housekeeper, and personal chef these days? Because I’m pretty sure I’m saving us about five grand a month.”
“Don’t be dramatic,” he snapped. “I just think it would be helpful for you to understand where the money goes.”
“Oh, I understand perfectly. Into keeping your children alive and your house from turning into a biohazard zone.”
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“Why are you making this into such a big deal?” he asked, exasperated. “I’m the only one bringing in money right now.”
“Fine,” I said, pushing back from the table. “You want receipts? I’ll give you receipts. And I hope you enjoy sleeping in the guest room tonight, because the Bank of Ethan doesn’t extend credit to this particular bed.”
The next morning, I found a notebook on the kitchen counter with a bright yellow sticky note: “Every purchase needs an explanation. This will help you learn better budgeting!”
I stood there, my twins balanced on each hip, staring at that patronizing exclamation mark as tears threatened to spill.
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When Ethan came into the kitchen, I was still standing there.
“You can’t be serious about this,” I said, nodding toward the notebook.
He poured himself coffee, calm as he could be. “I am. It’s just a good habit to develop.”
“A good habit? Next you’ll be asking me to raise my hand to use the bathroom.”
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“Very funny. Just write down WHAT you buy and WHY.”
“And if I don’t?”
His jaw tightened. “Then maybe we need to rethink how we handle household finances.”
“Meaning what, exactly? An allowance? A gold star when I’ve been extra thrifty? Or maybe you’d prefer if I just start bartering… a load of laundry for a new tube of toothpaste?”
“Just try this for now. Period.”
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“Sure thing, boss,” I replied, my voice syrupy sweet. “Anything else? Should I start calling you Sir? Perhaps bow when you enter the room?”
He rolled his eyes and headed for the door. “Just fill out the notebook, Lauren.”
I looked down at James and Lily, then back at the notebook.
“Well, kids,” I whispered. “Looks like Mommy’s about to teach Daddy a lesson in creative accounting.”
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For the first week, I played along. Every purchase was meticulously documented with an explanation that walked the line between compliance and defiance.
“Milk – $4.99. Because apparently the twins can’t survive on water and good intentions.” They need calcium.”
“Diapers – $19.50. Unless you’d prefer I use your dress shirts as alternative wiping materials.”
“Toilet paper – $8.99. For when nature calls and doesn’t send a text first.”
Ethan reviewed the notebook each night, his mouth tightening.
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“Is all this sarcasm really necessary?” he asked, skimming through the pages.
I batted my eyelashes innocently. “What? I’m being thorough. Isn’t that what financial responsibility looks like?”
“You know what I meant.”
“Do I? Because from where I’m standing, it seems like you’ve mistaken me for an employee rather than your wife.”
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Week two arrived, and with it, my counter-strategy. While Ethan was at work, I went through his wallet, our credit card statements, and his personal account. That evening, when he sat down to review my entries, he found something unexpected.
“Six-pack of craft beer – $14.99,” he read aloud, his voice rising. “Note: Essential for husband’s ability to watch sports without becoming insufferable.”
His eyes widened as he continued.
“Online poker deposit – $50. Note: Because gambling is a ‘hobby’ when men do it and ‘irresponsible’ when women buy a $5 latte.”
He flipped the page, his face reddening.
“Takeout lunch – $17.45. Note: Could have packed a lunch for $2, but that would require advance planning and basic kitchen skills.”
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He slammed the notebook down. “What the hell is this?”
I looked up from the laundry I was folding, the picture of innocence. “Oh, I decided to be extra helpful and track all household expenses. Comprehensive budgeting, right?”
“This isn’t about me,” he snapped.
“Oh, but it is. You’re part of this household, aren’t you? Or does the great financial overlord exist outside the rules he creates for his subjects?”
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Ethan stood up and walked out of the room.
“Don’t forget to document tomorrow’s coffee run!” I called after him. “I hear financial transparency is all the rage these days!”
But I wasn’t done yet.
For the next few days, an uneasy truce settled over our home. Then came the invitation to dinner at his parents’ house. Perfect.
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“Mom wants to see the twins on Saturday,” Ethan said.
I nodded, a plan forming. “It’ll be nice to get out of the house and interact with adults who don’t ask me to justify buying toothpaste.”
My in-laws, Mary and Victor, had always been kind to me, especially Mary, who had been a source of support since the twins were born.
Saturday arrived, and I packed the diaper bag with extra care, making sure to include one special item.
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Mary greeted us warmly, cooing over James and Lily. Dinner was pleasant enough, and as we finished the dessert, Mary turned to me.
“Lauren, honey, you look exhausted. Are the twins still not sleeping through the night?”
I smiled, seeing my opening. “Oh, you know, between the babies and the homework, sleep is a luxury.”
She tilted her head, confused. “Homework? What homework?”
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“Oh, didn’t Ethan tell you about his exciting new financial literacy program?” I reached into the diaper bag and pulled out the notebook. “Ethan’s been teaching me the value of a dollar while I’m on maternity leave.”
Her eyebrows shot up. “Is that so?”
“Mmm-hmm. He makes me write explanations for everything I buy. Like a seventh-grade economics project, but with more sleep deprivation.”
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Mary’s expression shifted from curiosity to disbelief. “He what..?”
Victor leaned forward, frowning. “Son, please tell me this isn’t what it sounds like.”
Ethan’s face drained of color. “It’s not… Mom, Dad, it’s just a budgeting exercise.”
“A budgeting exercise?” I asked, grinning like a Cheshire cat. “Let me read you my personal favorite entry: ‘Tampons – $10.49. Note: Because Mother Nature’s monthly gift doesn’t accept returns and I left my cork collection at my parents’ house.’”
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The silence was deafening. Then Mary erupted.
“ETHAN!” she thundered, slamming her hand on the table. “Are you out of your mind? Is this how we raised you to treat your wife?”
Victor shook his head. “Son, I’ve never been more ashamed.”
Ethan sputtered, “It… it wasn’t like that! We agreed —”
“She’s home raising YOUR children!” Mary cut him off. “What exactly do you think that’s worth per hour? Because I can tell you right now, you couldn’t afford her if she sent you an invoice!”
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I slid the notebook toward her. “There’s more. I started tracking his expenses too. For educational purposes, of course.”
Mary flipped through the pages, her expression darkening. When she reached the section with Ethan’s expenses, she let out a laugh that could only be described as predatory.
“Oh, this is rich,” she said to Victor. “Apparently, $50 poker games are essential, but Lauren needs to explain why she bought baby wipes.”
Victor crossed his arms. “You expect your wife to care for twins without pay, then make her grovel for necessities? What kind of man have you become?”
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Ethan finally broke. “ENOUGH! I GET IT! I SCREWED UP!”
He grabbed the notebook and ripped it in half, then stormed out. The door slammed moments later.
Mary reached for my hand. “Sweetheart, are you okay? Do you need money?”
I squeezed her hand. “No, don’t worry about the money. As it turns out, I’ve become quite the budgeting expert.”
The drive home was silent. When we pulled in, Ethan turned off the engine but didn’t move.
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“That was a nuclear-level humiliation back there,” he finally said.
“Imagine that feeling, but every day, in your own home… from the person who’s supposed to be your partner.”
He turned to look at me. “I didn’t mean to make you feel like that.”
“What did you think would happen? That I’d thank you for treating me like I was embezzling from the family cookie jar?”
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“I was scared,” he admitted. “The responsibility of being the only provider… it freaked me out. But I handled it all wrong.”
“That’s the understatement of the century.”
“I’m sorry, Lauren. Truly. I was an ass.”
“You were a world-class, gold-medal-winning ass, Ethan.”
A small smile flickered across his face. “I deserve that.”
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“I need you to understand something,” I continued. “I may not be bringing in a paycheck right now, but what I do has value. Massive value. I’m not spending your money… I’m investing it in our family.”
He nodded. “Crystal clear.”
The aftermath was transformative. Ethan never mentioned tracking my spending again. He started coming home earlier, taking the twins so I could have time to myself. Small gestures that spoke louder than any apology.
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And from that day on, he never questioned me about money. Not once.
Because every now and then, when a hint of his old controlling self surfaced, I would simply look him dead in the eye and ask:
“Would you like me to start another notebook? I still have your mother on speed dial.”
And just like that, he remembered not just the humiliation, but the lesson beneath it: that partnerships aren’t built on balance sheets and justifications, but on trust, respect, and the understanding that some contributions will never fit into the narrow columns of a ledger.
I never thought I’d need to teach my husband how to see me as an equal again. But sometimes, the hardest lessons are the ones that leave the deepest marks.
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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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My Teenage Daughter Was Against My Marriage to a New Man, and It Tore Our Family Apart — Story of the Day
Falling in love at 47 was something I never saw coming, especially after the heartbreak of my first marriage. Now, as I prepare to marry John, my teenage daughter, Emilia, is struggling to accept him. Balancing my love for John and my bond with Emilia, I’m faced with difficult choices and unspoken fears.
I never could have imagined that at 47, I would fall in love again, or that I would ever want a relationship after my failed first marriage, which ended 12 years ago.
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For a long time, I thought I was done with love. My ex-husband had been horrible to me. He constantly nagged, telling me I wasn’t doing enough around the house, even though I worked just as much as he did.
His words cut deep, especially when he made fun of me for gaining weight after my pregnancy. He didn’t care how hard I was trying or how much I juggled. I knew he was cheating, but I forgave him every time.
I told myself it was for the sake of our family, for our daughter. But when my then 4-year-old Emilia saw him with another woman, something broke inside me. That was the final straw. I couldn’t live like that anymore.
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The only good thing from that marriage is Emilia. She’s my everything—the best thing that ever happened to me. We’ve always been close.
For so long, it was just her and me, like a team against the world. I never thought I needed anyone else until a year ago when John came into my life.
John was different. He made me feel loved and cared for in ways I hadn’t felt in years. He treated Emilia with kindness, like she was his own daughter. Watching the two of them together gave me hope. I started to believe that maybe, just maybe, John could be the father Emilia never had.
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But everything changed after he proposed. Suddenly, Emilia wasn’t the same. She argued with John, with me, and left the house every time he came over. I didn’t understand it, and it broke my heart.
One evening, I sat in the kitchen with John, staring down at my cup of tea. I sighed, feeling the weight of everything. “I don’t know what to do,” I said, my voice barely above a whisper.
John looked at me, concerned. “Maybe we should start meeting at my place instead?” he suggested.
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I shook my head. “We’re getting married soon. What are we supposed to do, live apart then too?” I sighed again, feeling even more frustrated. “I don’t understand why she’s acting like this.”
John leaned back in his chair, thinking. “She’s jealous, Lucy. It’s been just you and her for so long. Now, you’ve got someone else in your life. Someone who’s taking up your time and love.”
“I guess,” I said. “But you two were fine before. She liked you.”
“That was different,” he replied calmly. “Back then, I was just your boyfriend. Now I’m going to be your husband and her stepfather. That’s a big change for her.”
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I nodded slowly. “You’re right. But I still don’t know what to do.”
John reached for my hand. “Talk to her,” he said softly.
I snorted, trying to hide my nerves. “Talk to a teenage girl? That’s like walking into a fire.”
John smiled. “No, talk to your daughter. She needs you.” I leaned my head on his shoulder, wishing I had the answers.
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The next day, I knew I had to talk to Emilia. I stood outside her door for a moment before knocking. “Come in,” she said, sounding annoyed. I could almost hear her eyes rolling.
I stepped inside, feeling nervous, and sat down on the edge of her bed. She looked at me, waiting for me to speak. “I wanted to talk to you,” I said.
Emilia raised an eyebrow but said nothing.
“I know it’s probably hard for you, with John becoming part of our family,” I said, trying to meet her gaze.
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She shrugged. “It’s not hard. John’s fine.”
“Then why do you leave every time he comes over?” I asked, keeping my voice calm. “And why do you argue with him?”
“Just because,” she muttered.
I took a deep breath. “Look, just because I love John doesn’t mean I’ll love you any less. You’re my daughter, and—”
She cut me off, her voice rising. “I don’t believe that!” she shouted. “I don’t want to talk about this anymore. I have homework.”
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Her words stung, but I stood up slowly. “Alright. But if you ever want to talk, you can always come to me. It’s still you and me against the world, remember?”
Emilia didn’t respond. I looked at her for a moment, hoping for something, but she stayed silent. With a heavy heart, I left the room.
As the wedding day got closer, Emilia’s behavior only got worse. Every decision John and I made, she had a problem with. If we liked a caterer, she’d complain about the menu.
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It wasn’t until we chose the one she recommended that the complaints stopped. Picking out my wedding dress became a two-week ordeal, and she insisted on making my bouquet herself.
I thought it was her way of staying involved, but each time she demanded something to be changed, I could feel the tension growing. She had her own dress altered seven times, and John quietly paid for each adjustment.
It wasn’t just the wedding preparations that were exhausting—it was seeing how much pain she was in. I knew she was struggling, but I didn’t know how to help. Her anger felt like a wall between us, and every day, it seemed to grow taller.
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“Maybe we should cancel the wedding,” I said to John one evening, my voice soft.
John looked at me, surprised. “What? Did I do something wrong?” he asked, concerned.
“No, you’re perfect,” I reassured him. “I love you, and that hasn’t changed. It’s just Emilia…”
John nodded, understanding. “This is really hard for her,” he said, confirming what I had feared all along.
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“Yes,” I admitted, finally saying the words out loud. “I thought maybe if we just kept dating, she would come around. She might accept it better if we didn’t rush.”
John took a deep breath and said, “Lucy, I’ll support you no matter what. But this is your life, not Emilia’s. In two years, she’ll be in college, living her own life.”
“I know,” I replied, my chest tightening. “But it hurts to see her struggling like this.”
John reached for my hand. “You’re not alone in this. I’m here for both of you. We’ll figure it out together. I just want to make you both happy.”
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Then he paused as if considering something. “Actually, I’ve been thinking… I’d like to adopt Emilia. If she’s willing, of course. I already see her as my daughter.”
Tears filled my eyes as I threw my arms around him, hugging him tightly. Somewhere in the hallway, I heard a small noise, but I didn’t pay it much attention. Right now, I was focused on the love and support I had right in front of me.
The wedding day had finally come, and I felt both excited and nervous. I prayed to every god I could think of, hoping everything would go smoothly. But it seemed my prayers went unheard. Just minutes before the ceremony, my friend Kyra hurried into the room, looking worried.
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“Lucy, we have a problem,” she said, her voice tense. My heart sank instantly. “Emilia hasn’t shown up yet.”
“What do you mean, she hasn’t shown up?” I asked, feeling my chest tighten.
“I don’t know,” Kyra said. “She’s not answering her phone or replying to texts.”
Panic rushed through me. I didn’t even think before I bolted out of the room to find John. When I saw him, I blurted out, “Emilia’s gone. She’s disappeared.”
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John stayed calm. “Go find her,” he said with a small smile.
“But the ceremony starts in twenty minutes,” I said, unsure.
“Go,” he repeated, his voice gentle. “This wedding won’t mean anything if Emilia isn’t there.”
I wrapped my arms around him, hugging him tight. In that moment, I knew—once again—that I had chosen the right man.
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I had a feeling I knew where Emilia might be. My heart raced as I drove to the old playground we used to visit when she was younger. Sure enough, when I arrived, I spotted her sitting on one of the swings, her head down, gently swaying back and forth. Relief washed over me.
“Hey,” I said as I approached her, trying to keep my voice steady.
Emilia looked up at me, her eyes red and filled with tears. “Mom? What are you doing here? Isn’t your wedding starting soon?”
I sat down on the swing next to her and shook my head. “The ceremony doesn’t matter without you,” I said.
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She wiped her eyes and asked, “How did John take it? Did he leave you?”
“No, he didn’t leave,” I assured her. “He’s the one who sent me to find you. He told me the same thing I just told you—the ceremony won’t mean anything if you’re not there.”
Emilia blinked, surprised. “Really? He said that?”
I nodded. “What’s going on, Emilia? Why are you trying to stop the wedding? I thought you liked John.”
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“It’s not that,” she muttered. “It’s… it’s just that it’s always been you and me. I thought it would always stay that way. What if he leaves us like Dad did? I couldn’t handle that again.”
Hearing her say that made my heart ache. “So that’s what this is about? You’re testing John?”
She sighed, her voice small. “Not on purpose… but maybe.”
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I reached over and took her hand. “Sweetheart, you don’t need to protect me. I’m the one who’s supposed to protect you. And trust me, John isn’t going anywhere. He loves both of us. He even told me he wants to adopt you.”
“I know,” she whispered. “I overheard you two talking about it. That’s why I’m not at the ceremony right now. What if I let him in, and then he just… leaves? I’m scared, Mom.”
I pulled her into my arms, holding her tight. “Oh, baby. I’m scared too. But love is about taking risks. We don’t know the future, but we choose love because it’s worth it.”
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She rested her head on my shoulder. “I don’t know if I’m ready…”
“I get it,” I said softly. “But no matter what, you’ll always have me. No one, not even John, can change that. You and I? We’ve been a team from the start.”
Emilia let out a small laugh. “But now John’s part of the team too…”
I smiled and squeezed her hand. “It’s easier to fight with three of us, don’t you think?”
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She nodded, smiling a little. “I guess so.”
“Do you trust me?” I asked, looking her in the eyes. She nodded.
“And I trust John. Can you trust my trust?”
After a moment, she nodded again. “Yes.”
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I stood up, holding out my hand. “Then let’s go. I’m late to my own wedding,” I said with a wink.
Emilia took my hand, standing up beside me. We shared a tight hug, knowing that no matter what, we would always have each other.
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