Devastated parents forced to pull the plug on their 13-year-old daughter after sleepover horror. They’ve now issued a warning to spare others from the same tragedy.
When Esra Haynes died, she was just 13 years old, and the reason for her tragic death is bizarre.
This young girl who was referred to as “determined, fun, cheeky and talented” by the Montrose Football Netball Club that she co-captained, got caught in a viral craze called chrominghttps://comsoftvn.com/in-order-to-pick…a-tiny-stray-dog/, which involves inhaling toxic chemicals through the mouth or nose to get high.
Esra was an athlete and lead a healthy life, racing BMX bikes with her brothers, and leading her team to a national aerobics’ championship in Queensland. But all that was taken away from her after a wrong decision she made on March 31 during a sleepover at a friend’s house.
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As she wanted to be part of the viral trend, Esra inhaled a toxic amount of aerosol deodorant and went into cardiac arrest, sustaining irreparable brain damage.
Her parents were devastated. Appearing on A Current Affair with host Ally Langdon, they spoke of the heartbreak and the fatal consequences of inhaling toxic chemicals in an attempt to prevent something similar from happening to other naive young people.
“It was just the regular routine of going to hang out with her mates,” her mom Andrea, told Langdon in the interview. Her father Paul added, “We always knew where she was and we knew who she was with.
It wasn’t anything out of the ordinary…To get this phone call at that time of night, (it) was one of the calls no parent ever wants to have to receive, and we unfortunately got that call: ‘Come and get your daughter.’”
Initially, her friends weren’t aware how serious Esra’s condition was. They only thought she was having a panic attack, not aware that their friends was dying right in front of their eyes. “But after inhaling deodorant, her body was actually starting to shut down, she was in cardiac arrest and no one at the sleepover used cardiac arrest,” Langdon explained.
When her mom arrived by Esra’s side, paramedics were trying to revive her and told Andrea that her daughter had been chroming, a word that the scared mother heard for the first time ever.
Esra was transferred to the hospital and was placed on life support, but just eight hours later, the parents were told that her brain was damaged beyond repair and that needed to make a decision to turn the life support off.
Knowing there was nothing that could be done, Andrea and Paul called relatives and family members to say their final goodbyes. “It was a very, very difficult thing to do to such a young soul. She was put onto a bed so we could lay with her. We cuddled her until the end.”
Esra’s siblings, Imogen, Seth and Charlie are have been shattered ever since their sister is gone.
“It was really devastating, devastating for everyone involved, all her friends as well,” Paul said. “It’s been the most difficult, traumatic time any parent could go through. We haven’t been sleeping, we’ve hardly been eating, we haven’t been smiling–we’re not ourselves…But it’s not just affected us, it’s the community as well.”
Following Esra’s passing, Andrea and Paul are doing all in their power to put an end to the crazy viral craze that took their daughter’s life.
Speaking to 7 News, Paul said he wished he knew of chroming when Esra was still alive, so he could have warned her of the dangers: “If we were educated and the word had been put out there, we would have had the discussion around our kitchen table for sure.
“We need to ramp it up and let these kids find out the information first-hand, and not through friends, and not through social media–then they’re given the right advice off the bat.”
Esra isn’t the first victim of chroming. Over the years, a number of young people lost their lives from the consequences of it as it can easily lead to seizures, heart attack, suffocation, sudden sniffing death, coma, and organ failure.
“We’ve got the pictures in our mind which will never be erased, you know, of what we were confronted with,” Paul told Langdon. “Our gut was ripped out.”
We are so very sorry for this family’s loss and we wish no parent ever experiences such heartbreak.
I Caught This Woman Wearing My Dress & Destroying It, but Karma Hit Her the Very Next Moment
When Mrs. Schwimmer found her cherished dress ruined by the fiancée of the boy she’d raised, she never expected what would come next. Jack’s bold decision reshaped their futures and redefined family loyalty.
My name is Mrs. Hannah Schwimmer, and for the last thirty years, I’ve had the honor of being a nanny to a wonderful family. More than a job, it’s been my life. The highlight of those years has been watching Jack grow up. He was just a little boy when I started, and now, here he is, a fine young man about to get married.
Mrs. Schwimmer and Jack | Source: Midjourney
Jack has always been like a son to me, and knowing he’s happy should fill my heart with joy. And it does, mostly. But there’s a bit of shadow in all the light: Jane, his fiancée. She’s beautiful and smart, yes, but from the day I met her, something didn’t quite click between us.
It’s not something she says but how she acts—those little glances, the slight curl of her lip when I speak, the way she finds reasons to leave the room when I enter.
It hurts, but I’ve kept it to myself. After all, Jack’s happiness is what matters most. But as the wedding day approaches, the tension is harder to ignore, and I wonder how things will unfold.
Jack and Jane | Source: Midjourney
It was a sunny Thursday afternoon, and the house buzzed with wedding preparations. Despite the cheerful chaos, the coldness between Jane and me grew. During lunch, I heard her whisper to a friend, “Can you believe she’s still around?”
They both glanced my way, their laughter like a pinch to my heart. But I brushed it off and focused on my chores, trying to keep a calm facade.
That evening, I needed a break from the noise and bustle, so I decided to retreat to my room. It was my little sanctuary, filled with personal mementos and the comforting scent of lavender.
Jane tried on Mrs. Schwimmer’s dress | Source: Midjourney
On my dresser lay the dress I had bought for the wedding—a simple, elegant blue gown that I had saved for months to afford. It was more than just fabric; it was a symbol of my pride in being part of Jack’s special day.
As I approached my room, the door was ajar, which was unusual. Pushing it open, my heart dropped. There was Jane, twirling in front of my mirror, wearing my dress. The shock rooted me to the spot.
“Jane! What are you doing?” I managed to stammer.
Jane spills wine on the dress | Source: Midjourney
She looked at me through the mirror, a smirk forming on her lips. “Oh, it was so beautiful that I decided to try it on! Hope you don’t mind?” Her tone was light, but her eyes dared me to object.
Before I could reply, she casually reached for a glass of red wine from my nightstand and poured it down the front of the dress. The wine stained the fabric instantly, spreading like a blot across the blue.
“Oops! Seems like you have nothing to wear to the wedding now,” she said with a cold laugh.
Shocked Mrs. Schwimmer | Source: Midjourney
I stood frozen, the ruined dress blurring before my eyes as tears welled up. It felt like a physical blow, not just to my dress but to all the years I had devoted to this family. Her act felt like a final, unbearable dismissal. As I struggled to find words, a new voice echoed behind me, startling us both. It was Jack.
Jack’s voice shattered the silence like a clap of thunder. “Did you just do that?” he demanded, his tone icy with disbelief.
I turned around to see him standing in the doorway, his face a mixture of shock and anger. The room felt charged with tension, as if a storm was about to break.
Shocked Jack | Source: Midjourney
Jane froze, her smirk vanishing. She looked from the stained dress to Jack, her face paling. “Jack, I—It was just a joke,” she stammered, her voice shaky.
“A joke?” Jack’s voice rose, his eyes never leaving the ruined dress. “You call this a joke?” He stepped into the room, his gaze locked on Jane. “This isn’t just any dress. Do you even understand what you’ve done?”
I stood there, my own heart hammering in my chest. Jane tried to speak again, but words seemed to fail her as she realized the gravity of her actions. The air felt heavy, suffocating.
Mrs. Schwimmer talks to Jack | Source: Midjourney
Jack turned to me, his expression softening. “I’m so sorry, Mrs. Schwimmer. This should never have happened.” His voice was gentle, but the fury was still evident in his eyes, a fierce protector defending what was dear to him.
After ensuring I was alright, Jack asked me to give him a moment alone with Jane. I stepped out, but the murmurs from the room were audible. I could hear Jack’s firm voice as he addressed what had just happened.
“This isn’t just about a dress,” he told her. “It’s about respect, Jane. Mrs. Schwimmer has been part of my life longer than almost anyone else. She’s family.”
Jack confronts Jane | Source: Midjourney
I leaned against the hallway wall, listening as Jack continued. “I can’t marry someone who treats people I care about like this. It’s not right.”
The next few hours were a whirlwind. Jack made several phone calls. I overheard him canceling the large wedding venue and talking to various vendors. His voice was calm but resolute, a tone I recognized from times he’d stood up for what he believed was right.
Later, Jack sat down with me in the living room. “I’m planning something different,” he said. “A smaller ceremony. Just close family and friends who understand the meaning of respect and community.”
Jack plans another dinner | Source: Midjourney
He apologized again for Jane’s behavior and assured me that she would make amends. “She will cover the cost of your dress, and more importantly, she will apologize to you in front of our family. I want her to acknowledge her mistake publicly.”
The thought of a smaller ceremony, filled with people who truly cared, brought a sense of peace. Jack’s decision to stand by his values, and by me, restored my faith in the goodness I’d always seen in him as a child. It felt like the dark cloud that had been looming over what should have been a joyful occasion was starting to lift.
Close family dinner | Source: Midjourney
The day of the small ceremony arrived, bathed in soft sunlight that seemed to promise a fresh start. The backyard was transformed with flowers and white ribbons, an intimate setting that was both simple and elegant. The attendees were few, but each face was familiar and dear, reflecting warmth and genuine happiness.
As I arrived, Jack greeted me with a smile and a beautifully wrapped box. “This is for you,” he said, handing it over with a gentle reverence. Inside was a stunning dress, more beautiful than the one that had been ruined. It was a deep shade of sapphire, shimmering subtly in the light. I was overwhelmed, not just by the gift, but by the thoughtfulness behind it.
Mrs. Schwimmer in her new dress | Source: Midjourney
During the ceremony, Jack took a moment to address everyone. He thanked them for their presence and specifically turned to me, expressing his gratitude for the years of love and care I had given him.
His words were heartfelt, and as I looked around, I saw nods and smiles of agreement. It was more than an apology; it was an affirmation of my place in this extended family, my dignity fully restored.
Jack talks about the importance of family values | Source: Midjourney
After the ceremony, the story of Jack’s decision and his stand for respect spread among friends and family. It was told and retold, each time reinforcing his reputation as a man of integrity.
Reflecting on everything that had happened, I felt a profound sense of pride in Jack. He had grown into a man who not only recognized the importance of respect and integrity but also acted on those values. This experience, painful as it was, had reinforced those principles not just for Jack but for all of us involved.
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