How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
“This Woman Had 4 Kids,” Blake Lively Shocks People in a Skin-Tight Suit
Blake Lively recently captivated audiences with her stunning post-maternity figure, making a striking appearance in a form-fitting outfit that highlighted her impressive physique. Fans and fashion enthusiasts alike were astounded by Lively’s shape.
Blake Lively arrived at the Deadpool & Wolverine premier.
Blake Lively made a stunning entrance at the world premiere of her husband Ryan Reynolds‘ latest film, Deadpool & Wolverine. Embracing a theme that paid tribute to his character, Lively wore a Versace bodysuit. The striking red outfit featured long sleeves and an off-the-shoulder design, embellished with intricate patterns, perfectly capturing a superhero essence.
She complemented her bold look with a high ponytail, adding a sophisticated touch. Lively’s choice of attire not only celebrated the film but also demonstrated her flair for fashion and ability to stand out on the red carpet.
Fans of the movie speculated the same thing.
Fans of the movie speculated excitedly after seeing the trailer, which features a mysterious Lady Deadpool character fully clad in a red suit. The character’s blonde hair and the red-and-black suit matching Deadpool’s sparked curiosity about the actress behind the mask.
Blake Lively’s choice of outfit at the premiere, reminiscent of the Lady Deadpool costume, fueled fan theories that she might be the one playing the enigmatic role.
Fans were astonished by her looks.
Fans were shock by Blake Lively’s appearance. Comments flooded social media, with one fan exclaiming, “Blake looks amazing, this woman had 4 kids!” Another humorously remarked, “Blake looks amazing! But after four kids, how does she go to the bathroom?” referencing her sleek, one-piece suit. Admirers continued to express their awe, with one stating, “Blake Lively is so insanely perfect and beautiful.”
Her red carpet look not only showcased her incredible post-maternity physique but also left fans in awe of her elegance and beauty.
In a stunning display of grace and confidence, Salma Hayek, 57, was recently hailed as the epitome of elegance at a high-profile event. Proudly embracing her natural gray hair, the actress captivated onlookers and fans alike, redefining beauty standards with her timeless charm.
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