How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
Baby Born With Unusual Syndrome – 22 Years Later She Looks Amazing
These young, allegedly productive qualities are seen in the 99-63-91 body, which stands 1.68 meters tall.
In reality, though, a woman’s level of fertility would rely on a multitude of factors, with physical type playing a relatively minor role.
Despite the fact that obesity has been linked to miscarriages, pregnancy difficulties, and infertility in women, infertility problems can affect anyone, regardless of size.
Mary’s pregnancy and delivery had proceeded without any complications. There were no signs that their daughter Michelle experienced any problems when she was born. Yet the moment she opened her eyes, the physicians realized something wasn’t quite right. They didn’t figure out what it was until they perused medical texts and talked to a geneticist at a different hospital.
Michelle’s face was large and innocent. She had a nose like a little beak, and she was balding. It was discovered that she had Hallermann-Streiff syndrome, a hereditary illness of which there are only 250 known cases worldwide.
Michelle was born at Children’s Memorial Hospital, where no one had ever seen it in person.
When the doctor told us we had Hallermann-Streiff syndrome, my heart fell. “I was concerned about how we were going to care for our child who had a rare genetic disease that was one in five million,” Michelle’s mother said.
Michelle exhibits 26 of the 28 symptoms that are associated with the condition. Although the sickness affects only one in five million people, it can lead to a variety of health issues.
Michelle is just two years older than her sister, yet she can barely reach over her waist because of Hallermann-Streiff syndrome and dwarfism.
Because of her illness, Michelle needs a lot of help, including an electric wheelchair, a respirator, a hearing aid, a probe, and visual aids. Michelle and her family have also had to spend a lot of time in the hospital as a result of the illness. She may be mistaken for a toddler while being 25 years old due to her appearance.
As a 20-year-old, Michelle is happier than ever and as intelligent as a poodle. She is among the happiest twentysomethings I’ve ever met.Her mother Mary continued, saying:
She brightens people’s days with her happiness. She is aware of her differences, but she refuses to let them define her.
Michelle is a great, distinctive young woman despite her challenges. Among other things, she aspires to date and become like her older sister. She doesn’t mind his height because practically everyone is taller than her, but she wished his hair was longer.
Her goal is to become a doctor as well!
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