How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
O.J. Simpson: A Complex Legacy
O.J. Simpson, whose name has come to represent scandal, died at the age of 76. Simpson, who is well-known for his football prowess and his contentious murder prosecution, had both joys and sorrows throughout his life.
Simpson was born in San Francisco on July 9, 1947, and was a gifted athlete from a young age. After participating in football during his high school years, he went on to play at the University of Southern California, where he excelled as a running back. Simpson’s skill made the Buffalo Bills select him with the first pick in the 1969 NFL Draft. After that, he had a prosperous career with the Bills and then the 49ers in San Francisco.
Simpson made incredible strides in the football game. He broke the record in 1973 when he became the first athlete to rush for more than 2,000 yards in a single season. He was known as “Juice” because he was a strong and lively player. He was honored for his accomplishments to the game in 1983 when he was admitted into the Pro Football Hall of Fame.
Following his football retirement, Simpson went on to seek a career in acting and television. He went on to become a football commentator and made appearances in movies and TV series. But his personal sorrow and legal issues quickly overshadowed his career accomplishment.
Nicole Brown Simpson, Simpson’s ex-wife, and her friend Ron Goldman were brutally murdered in 1994. The “Trial of the Century” officially began when Simpson was taken into custody and accused of the crimes. Millions of people watched the trial proceedings on television as it captured the attention of the country.
In a highly contentious decision, Simpson was found not guilty of the killings despite a ton of evidence against him. The trial’s verdict severely polarized the nation, permanently damaging Simpson’s reputation.
Following his acquittal, Simpson encountered several legal difficulties. In a civil lawsuit, he was judged responsible for the deaths of Ron Goldman and Nicole Brown Simpson, and his family received an order to compensate him handsomely. Furthermore, Simpson was found guilty in 2008 of kidnapping and armed robbery connected to a Las Vegas event. Before his release in 2017, he spent almost nine years behind bars.
Simpson left behind a complex legacy during his life. Despite being a well-known football player and having a captivating personality, his legal issues and criminal prosecutions eclipsed his on-field accomplishments. His experience serves as a reminder of the complexity of human nature and the long-term effects of the decisions we make.
Let’s remember the victims of the crimes O.J. Simpson was accused of as we consider his life and demise. During this time, our thoughts are with their families and loved ones. As they continue to heal from their loss, may they find comfort and closure.
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