If there is one thing we are certain of in life, it’s the fact that people have an opinion. Some will even try to voice that opinion as loud as possible, despite the fact that very few people are listening.
The Internet really makes it easy for anyone to have such an opinion and to voice it for the world to hear. The funny thing is that the stranger the opinion, the more press it seems to receive.
That is what one expert is now experiencing, thanks to their unusual recommendation for parents. They are a self-proclaimed relationship expert, and they said that parents should ask for permission before changing a diaper.
We realize that there are a lot of issues revolving around consent these days, and it can be difficult to navigate them. As far as many parents are concerned, however, asking a baby’s permission before changing a dirty diaper is just out of the question.
To be honest, most parents are not very happy about the fact that they have to change diapers but it is a necessity if you are going to raise your children happy and healthy. Adding the extra layer of having to ask permission before doing so is above and beyond.
The woman who made this claim says that she is a ‘sexuality educator, speaker, and author.’ Her name is Deanne Carson and her unusual recommendation for parents is making waves.
She was on ABC in 2018 to share these insights. She said that this is typically done with children above the age of three but she also feels that consent is important to introduce at a much younger age.
She does admit that babies will not be able to verbally respond to the request for consent, but they should be able to give nonverbal communication with eye contact and in other forms.
She claims that it’s about setting up a culture of consent in the home, and asking if it is okay to change the nappy before doing so.
Carson went further to explain the process, saying that allowing a moment for anticipation and waiting for any nonverbal cues can help parents and toddlers communicate on a deeper level.
Perhaps the most interesting thing was the way the reporters reacted to the suggestion. Not only were they very verbal, but they were also wondering what would happen if the baby said no.
My Stepfather’s Secret Stunned Me on My Birthday & My Payback Left Him in Tears
On Nancy’s 18th birthday, a letter from her late mother revealed a stunning secret: the man she knew as her stepfather, Stephen, was actually her biological father. This revelation sparked a journey of forgiveness and a heartfelt father-daughter vacation that changed their lives forever.
Growing up, my stepfather Stephen was more than just a parent. He became my rock after my mom passed away when I was just 10. Our home felt empty and strange without her. The first few years were tough for both of us.
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Everything in my life changed. Stephen wasn’t just a new parent; he was a stranger trying to fill my mom’s shoes. At first, I didn’t make it easy for him.
I was angry and sad, and Stephen was the one who had to deal with all of it. But he never gave up on me. He was always there, helping with homework, attending school events, and listening when I needed to talk.
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“Hey, kiddo,” Stephen would say softly, peeking into my room. “How was school today?”
“Fine,” I muttered, not looking up from my book. I missed my mom so much, and Stephen had no idea how to handle my grief.
“Dinner’s ready if you’re hungry,” he said, trying to sound cheerful.
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“I’m not hungry,” I snapped, feeling a surge of anger. “I want Mom!”
Stephen worked tirelessly to provide for us. He made sure I had everything I needed, from school supplies to support for my hobbies.
“I’m trying my best here, Nancy,” Stephen said one night after a particularly heated argument about my curfew. “This isn’t easy for me either.”
“You’re not my dad!” I yelled, tears streaming down my face. “You can’t tell me what to do!”
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But Stephen never gave up. He attended every school event, no matter how small.
“Look, there’s Stephen,” my friend whispered at a school play. “He never misses anything.”
“Yeah,” I admitted grudgingly. “He always shows up.”
“I signed you up for soccer camp,” Stephen announced one day, handing me a registration form.
“Really?” I asked, my eyes lighting up. “Thanks, Stephen!”
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He did all this without expecting anything in return. His dedication slowly broke down the walls I had built around my heart. Over time, I started to see him not just as my stepfather, but as someone who truly cared for me.
“Stephen,” I said one evening, “I just want to say thank you.”
“For what?” he asked, surprised.
“For everything,” I replied, smiling. “You’ve been there for me, even when I didn’t make it easy.”
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As I packed for college, my room was a mess of boxes and bags. I felt a mix of excitement and sadness. Leaving home meant a new beginning, but also saying goodbye to the life I knew.
Stephen walked in, his eyes filled with tears. He held an envelope, his hands trembling. “This is from your mother,” he said, his voice breaking. “She asked me to give it to you on your 18th birthday.”
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I opened the letter, my heart pounding.
“Dear Nancy,
If you are reading this letter, it means you have turned 18, a milestone that fills me with pride even though I can’t be there to celebrate with you. First, I want to tell you how much I love you. You have always been the light of my life, and watching you grow has been my greatest joy.”
After initial words of love and support, she dropped a bombshell. Stephen, the man I knew as my stepfather, was actually my biological one.
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“When I found out I was pregnant with you, Stephen was overwhelmed and scared. He left, not knowing how to handle the responsibility. For nearly ten years, he stayed away, and I raised you on my own. Those years were tough, but you were my strength and reason for persevering.”
But one day, Stephen came back. He was filled with regret and asked for her forgiveness. He wanted to be part of my life.
My mom was hesitant. She didn’t want me to get hurt again. She decided it was best to introduce Stephen as her new boyfriend, not my dad.
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“Before I passed, I asked Stephen to give you this letter on your 18th birthday. I wanted you to know the truth when you were old enough to understand. Stephen has been there for you all these years, not just out of obligation, but because he truly loves you. He is a good man who made a mistake, and he has spent every day since trying to make it right.”
Reading those words, I felt a mix of anger, confusion, and relief. The man I had known as my stepfather was actually my real dad. It was hard to process, but it also explained why our bond felt so strong.
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Stephen’s eyes were filled with tears. “Nancy, I can explain,” he said, his voice shaking. “Please give me a chance.”
I looked at him, the letter still in my hand. “This explains everything!” I said, feeling a strange sense of happiness. “You’ve always been a great dad. Knowing you’re my real father makes it even better.”
I suddenly remembered my surprise. “I have something for you,” I said, running to get his bags. I placed them in the center of the room. “Pack your stuff. We’re going on a father-daughter vacation!”
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Stephen’s eyes widened. “What?” he asked, tears streaming down his face.
I explained my plan. With the money from my trust fund, I booked a one-week trip to an all-inclusive hotel near the ocean. It was my way of thanking him for all he had done. Stephen hugged me tightly, both of us crying.
This vacation was going to be special. It was a chance to bond and enjoy each other’s company before I left for college. We would swim, relax, and create new memories together. It was the perfect way to start this new chapter in our lives.
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One evening, we sat by the ocean and Stephen apologized. He spoke about his regret for leaving and the pain it caused. I listened, and I forgave him. It wasn’t easy, but I knew he had made up for his mistakes by being there for me all these years.
We shared many memorable moments. We took a boat tour to see dolphins, went snorkeling, and had a fancy dinner by the beach. We laughed a lot, and for the first time, I felt like we were truly a family.
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Reflecting on the journey, I realized how strong our bond had become. Stephen had gone from being a stepfather to a real dad in every sense. As I looked forward to college, I felt a renewed sense of family and love.
I am grateful for Stephen’s unwavering support and love. This vacation brought us even closer and taught me the power of forgiveness. Family is everything, and I am lucky to have him by my side.
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My Ex-husband Sent Me a Flash Drive Before He Died – Now I Can’t Forgive Myself for Divorcing Him
Katherine’s heart raced as she unearthed a forgotten flash drive left by her late ex-husband Tom. What she discovered on that drive would haunt her with both regret and a deeper, unresolved affection.
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I’m Katherine, 43 years old, with no husband and no kids. I live a quiet life, and honestly, I’m pretty happy with how things turned out. My days are simple, filled with work, books, and long walks in the park near my house. It’s a peaceful existence, one I’ve come to cherish after all the noise of my younger years.
That peace was shattered last Thursday. When I checked my mail, among the usual bills and catalogs, there was an envelope that stood out. It was plain, but it felt heavy. Curious, I opened it right there in the hallway. Inside was a flash drive, nothing else, just a small piece of plastic that seemed so innocent yet ominous.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.
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