In August 2017, Tony Alarcon’s phone rang unexpectedly.
Like many parents, he thought it might be a telemarketer. But this time, he answered the call.
Hearing from the school can be nerve-wracking for any parent. Tony immediately started worrying—was his daughter, Demetra, okay? Had something happened?
What he found out left him surprised.
It was a hot summer day in Northern California, with temperatures reaching 90 degrees. Tony had dropped off his 13-year-old daughter, Demetra, at school that morning. She wore a blue romper to stay cool in the heat, and neither of them thought the outfit would cause any issues.
Demetra, a student at Raymond J. Fisher Middle School in Los Gatos, California, had simply dressed for the weather.
Not everyone agreed with Demetra’s outfit. A teacher at her school said her romper was “too distracting” for the boys.
When the teacher told Demetra that her outfit was too short, her dad, Tony, rushed back to the school with a change of clothes—jean shorts and a tank top. But the school said those clothes were also inappropriate.
Tony was shocked. He asked Demetra to bend over and touch her toes in front of the school administrator. “Nothing is hanging out. There’s nothing inappropriate. I don’t understand this dress code rule,” he told TODAY.
Still, the school said her clothes were “distracting.” Since it was 90 degrees outside, Tony had no choice but to go to his car and grab a pair of leggings for Demetra to wear.
Demetra felt embarrassed.
Tony expressed his frustration, saying, “She’s just a kid. She’s only 13. She’s not trying to be a sex symbol. She just wants to be comfortable and attend class, but we’re not giving her that chance.”
This wasn’t the first time Demetra had been in trouble for her clothes. Just a week before, she was called out for a visible bra strap. “When I got dress coded last week, they said my bra strap was showing,” Demetra told the *San Jose Mercury News*. “Like, I’m wearing a bra—what’s the big deal?”
Tony, a successful investment advisor and father of two, didn’t let it go. Angry at what he saw as an unfair rule that mostly targeted girls, he took his complaint to social media. Parents from all over the country showed their support, agreeing that the school’s dress code was outdated and unfair to girls.
“Demetra’s not the only one. If you sit in the school parking lot, you’ll see that,” Tony said. “Lots of girls just want to be comfortable, but they feel forced to wear leggings even when it’s 100 degrees outside.”
Tony believed that parents, not schools, should decide if their children’s clothes are appropriate. He was also worried about how being told their clothing is a “distraction” to boys could affect young girls emotionally in the long run.
The story quickly got attention from the media, with major news outlets reporting on Tony’s efforts to change the dress code. While the school didn’t speak on camera, they did release a statement:
“The Los Gatos Union School District believes that appropriate dress and grooming contribute to a productive learning environment,” the district said. “Students are expected to wear clothes that reflect the core values of our learning community.”
Tony’s efforts made an impact. His push for change led the Los Gatos Union School District to reevaluate its dress code to make it fairer and less strict for all students.
Lisa Fraser, the school’s principal, explained that the dress code rules, called “Fashion Faux Pas,” apply to both girls and boys. Some of the rules include no hats or hoods indoors, no visible underwear, no inappropriate logos or words, and shorts must have at least 4-inch inseams.
“There has always been a dress code,” Fraser told a newspaper. “These are basic rules for appropriate behavior. I can set guidelines for the school, but I want them to reflect the community’s values.”
In the end, Tony Alarcon’s persistence started an important discussion about how school dress codes affect young girls — showing that one parent’s voice can truly make a difference.
What do you think about the school’s dress code? Have you or your children faced a similar situation? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!
Taylor Swift’s Freckled Makeup at Kansas City Chiefs Game Is Under Discussion: Too ‘Mature’ ‘Fillers’
Taylor Swift’s recent makeup at a football game has caught a lot of attention. Some fans loved it, while others were more critical. The star sported a sparkling look with glittery freckles during a Kansas City Chiefs game. The freckle patches, created by beauty brand Fazit, stood out and sparked online reactions.
**Fans Have Mixed Reactions**
Swift was attending the Chiefs’ game against the New Orleans Saints in a plaid dress and black boots, but it was her unique makeup that people noticed. Some fans thought the glitter freckles were too youthful for a woman of her age. One Instagram user questioned, “Is she 15?” while another said, “You can wear that at 65. Age is just a number!” But others agreed with the critics, saying Swift might be too old for this style.
Another user on X said, “She’s in her mid-thirties. Why is she wearing face glitter?” Some also wondered if Swift had undergone cosmetic procedures like Botox or fillers.
**Some Fans Loved the Look**
Despite the criticism, many fans thought Swift looked amazing. One fan wrote, “Love her sparkle face,” while another gushed, “Taylor looks stunningly beautiful.” The co-owner of Fazit, Aliett Buttelman, also praised Swift’s makeup. She shared her excitement on Instagram, saying, “Is life real?! I just stopped sobbing!” She even posted a close-up video of Swift wearing the glitter freckles.
**Jason Kelce Comments on Swift’s Look**
Jason Kelce, the brother of Swift’s boyfriend, also noticed her appearance. During an ESPN broadcast, Kelce mentioned Swift’s makeup, saying, “Hey, look at that now. She’s got the part on right there. That looks good.”
**Not the First Time Swift Has Sparked Reactions**
This isn’t the first time Swift has sparked debate about her style. Earlier in September 2024, she wore a denim corset top with red boots to a Chiefs game, which led to a lot of online discussion. Some fans questioned whether she was pregnant, while others criticized her outfit. However, some fans defended Swift, saying she looked better with a bit of extra weight.
**Swift Enjoyed the Game**
Throughout the game, Swift seemed to have a great time. She sat in Travis Kelce’s luxury suite with his family and was seen cheering passionately for him. After the game, Swift and Kelce left the stadium together, looking happy and in love as they walked hand-in-hand.
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