Jake and Mary Jacobs marked their 70th anniversary of a happy marriage last year, but their journey wasn’t simple.
Mary, who is White, and Jake, who is Black, lived in the same city in 1940s Britain. At that time, there weren’t many Black men there.
Even though Mary’s father told her to leave, Mary chose love over easy choices.
“When I told my father I was going to marry Jake, he said, ‘If you marry that man, you will never set foot in this house again.’”
Mary and Jake first met at a technical college where Mary was learning typing and shorthand, and Jake was undergoing Air Force training. They met during the war when Jake moved from Trinidad to Britain.
Jake impressed Mary with his understanding of Shakespeare, and they got to know each other. One day, they invited Mary and her friend to join them for a picnic. Unfortunately, someone passing by saw them and reported Mary to her father. The woman was shocked to see two English girls talking with black guys. After this incident, Mary wasn’t allowed to visit her father again.
After Jake returned to Trinidad, they kept in touch through letters. A few years later, he came back to the U.K. to find a better-paying job.
Jake surprised Mary by proposing, and she, at 19, said yes. However, when she told her family, they kicked her out.
“I left with only one small suitcase. No family came to our registry office wedding in 1948.”
Mary’s father was upset about her marrying a black man, and Mary didn’t realize that society felt the same way.
The early years of their marriage in Birmingham were tough. Mary cried every day, hardly ate, and they faced many challenges. Nobody would talk to them, they couldn’t find a place to live because nobody would rent to a black man, and they had little money.
Even walking down the street together was hard because people would point at them, Mary explained.
Mary and Jake were excited to become parents, but at eight months, Mary gave birth to a stillborn child. She mentioned it wasn’t due to the stress she was under, but it deeply saddened them, and they didn’t have any more children.
As time passed, their lives improved. Mary became a teacher and eventually an assistant principal, while Jake found a job with the Post Office. They made new friends, but Mary felt the need to explain to people that her husband was black before introducing them.
“My father passed away when I was 30, and even though we reconciled by then, he never approved of Jake,” she shared.
Currently, Jake, 89, and Mary, 84, live in Solihull, a town south of Birmingham. They recently celebrated 70 years of marriage.
Jake said he has no regrets, but he also mentioned that today’s black youth may not fully understand the challenges he faced in 1940s Britain.
“When I arrived in the U.K., I faced abuse every day. Once, on a bus, a man rubbed his hands on my neck and said, ‘I wanted to see if the dirt would come off.’ Back then, working in an office as a black man with white girls wasn’t considered safe,” Jake explained.
Despite all the challenges, bias, and abuse, the pair is still deeply in love and has no regrets about being married. They have been happily married for more than 70 years.
These two are a true inspiration, and I wish them a lifetime of pleasure because of the love they have for one another.
Kim Kardashian Is Accused of Nepotism for Her Daughter’s Hollywood Debut
Kim Kardashian’s daughter has recently come under scrutiny amid accusations of nepotism after being cast in a significant role. Critics argue that her selection was driven more by her famous family name than by her talent or experience, sparking a debate about fairness in the industry.
The nepotism accusations followed her daughter North West’s Hollywood debut as Simba in Disney’s The Lion King live concert. The 10-year-old took to the stage at the prestigious Hollywood Bowl in Los Angeles, performing in celebration of the film’s 30th anniversary.
Despite the momentous occasion, the performance quickly sparked controversy, with critics questioning North’s singing abilities and the influence of her famous parents in securing the role.
A video of North’s performance went viral, and it wasn’t long before detractors voiced their opinions. Comments like “She wasn’t appropriate for the role,” and “She can’t even sing,” flooded social media, with some accusing Kim Kardashian and Kanye West of using their clout to get their daughter a spot she wasn’t ready for.
One critic remarked, “I don’t mind nepotism, but at least be good at what you’re trying to do,” while another stated, “Y’all forget that this is a child, blame the director and Kim for the nepotism.” The backlash highlights the ongoing debate about the ethics of celebrity influence in Hollywood.
However, not everyone was quick to condemn North’s performance. Some people came to her defense, appreciating her efforts and potential. Supportive comments included, “Just me or does she sound a lot like the original singer? Just needs a little more practice and would be perfect. Happy for her,” and “Y’all gotta chill on North and stop acting like she ain’t a child too 😂💀 I’m sure the other billionaires and their kids are fine.”
These supporters argue that North, as a child, deserves encouragement rather than harsh criticism, and believe that with time and practice, she could excel in her role.
The mixed reactions to North West’s performance underscore the complexities of navigating a career in the spotlight, especially for the children of celebrities. While some see her Hollywood debut as an example of nepotism, others view it as an opportunity for a young talent to grow.
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