The Tragic Story of Jessica Lange, Who Chose to Never Marry Again

Jessica Lange, renowned for her performances in popular films such as Tootsie, King Kong, and American Horror Story, has faced numerous challenges in her personal life. Despite her success in the entertainment industry, Lange’s romantic journey has been marked by difficulty. At the young age of 21, she entered into matrimony with a photographer, only to later divorce him after a few years. Since then, the talented actress has chosen not to remarry.
Born on April 20, 1949, in Minnesota, Jessica Phyllis Lange hails from a diverse heritage. Her ancestry includes German, Dutch, and Finnish roots. Growing up, Jessica was part of a family of six, which consisted of her two older sisters, Jane and Ann, as well as her younger brother, George. Her father held the professions of both a teacher and a traveling salesman, while her mother dedicated herself to homemaking. Due to her father’s line of work, the Lange family frequently relocated, constantly moving from one city to another.

In 1967, Jessica was granted a scholarship to pursue her studies in art and photography at the University of Minnesota. It was during her time there that she encountered Paco Grande, a talented Spanish photographer, whom she eventually married in 1970. Following this, Lange made the decision to leave her college education behind in favor of a more unconventional and free-spirited lifestyle. Alongside Paco, she embarked on an adventurous expedition across the United States and Mexico in a microbus, fully embracing a nomadic way of life.

The beginning of her career in films


The couple’s daring and exciting life ultimately brought them to Paris, but as they established themselves there, their relationship started to deteriorate. During their time in the City of Light, Lange uncovered her love for mime theater and ventured into the realm of modeling. Her professional journey took a momentous turn when she caught the attention of Hollywood producer Dino De Laurentiis, which led to her debut in the 1976 remake of King Kong. In the film, she portrayed the classic damsel-in-distress character. Despite the movie’s success, her performance faced criticism from reviewers, resulting in a two-year struggle to secure another acting opportunity.
However, this obstacle proved to be just a minor setback in her professional journey. In 1982, Jessica Lange created a milestone by receiving Academy Award nods for Best Actress (Frances) and Best Supporting Actress (Tootsie). This remarkable feat had not been accomplished in more than forty years. Throughout her illustrious career, she has garnered two Oscars, three Emmys, a Tony Award, and five Golden Globes.

Her relationships never worked out.

Jessica Lange had a number of relationships in her personal life. She was married to photographer Francisco “Paco” Grande from 1970 to 1982, with the divorce being finalized in the early 1980s and involving undisclosed alimony payments. In the late 1970s and early 1980s, Lange was romantically linked with the famous Latvian ballet dancer Mikhail Baryshnikov. They welcomed their first child, Aleksandra Lange “Shura” Baryshnikov, in 1981.
1. In 1982, Lange began a romantic involvement with playwright Sam Shepard. Together, they welcomed two children: Hannah Jane Shepard and Samuel Walker Shepard. Throughout their relationship, they resided in different places such as Virginia, New Mexico, Minnesota, and New York City, until their separation in 2009.
She never married after her divorce.

Jessica Lange and Sam Shepherd were in a relationship for 27 years, yet they never tied the knot. Jessica mentioned that Sam was not very laid-back. Loyalty was also a problem for the couple, as both of them had been unfaithful to their previous partners. Sam confessed that he felt remorse for leaving his wife and child for Jessica. Jessica has openly discussed her ongoing struggles with severe depression, attributing her creativity to the well of emotions such as anguish, rage, and sadness that she experiences.
She has chosen to not let the negatives pull her down.


Following the birth of her children, her focus shifted entirely to them. She feels that they have provided her with a fresh outlook on life. “Every decision I make is made with my children in consideration. Being a mother is the most fulfilling role I have ever had,” she shares.
In spite of facing her own obstacles, Lange has dedicated herself to various charitable endeavors. She is actively involved as a Goodwill Ambassador for UNICEF. Moreover, in the early 1990s, she took in a child with special needs from Romania, showcasing her dedication to humanitarian efforts.

Jessica Lange continues to be an influential figure in the industry, consistently voicing her concerns about the gender bias prevalent in Hollywood. Recently, she showcased her remarkable talent in the movie Marlowe, marking another significant milestone in her career. Similarly, Kathy Bates, her co-star from American Horror Story, continues to captivate audiences

I Recognized My Bracelet That Went Missing a Month Ago on the Wrist of the Nurse Taking Care of Me in the Hospital

The moment my eyes landed on the delicate gold bracelet wrapped around Stephanie’s wrist, my breath caught in my throat. I knew that bracelet. I had spent weeks searching for it and was convinced it was lost forever. But now, it was on the wrist of the nurse taking care of me.

Life had been good before I ended up in the hospital.

I’d been married to Toby for three years, and we were living a happy life.

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A couple looking out a window | Source: Midjourney

I worked as a consultant in a clothing store, and he had a stable job in finance. It’s not like we were rolling in money. We had enough to live comfortably.

Most nights, Toby came home exhausted. He didn’t even have time to ask me how my day went. But honestly, I never complained.

I knew he was working hard for us.

One evening, as we sat on the couch, I held his hand gently.

“I can’t wait until we have our own place,” I murmured.

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A woman talking to her husband | Source: Midjourney

“Yeah,” he sighed. “I just need a little more time to save up. You know how expensive houses are right now.”

“I know.” I smiled. “But when we finally get it, I want a big kitchen. And a backyard.”

“For a dog?” he teased.

“For a baby,” I corrected with a grin.

His expression softened, and he kissed my forehead. “We’ll get there.”

I believed him.

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A man looking at his wife | Source: Midjourney

When he left for a work trip that Friday, I didn’t think much of it. His job required travel, and I had grown used to it.

I figured I’d use the weekend to deep clean the apartment.

Little did I know it was not the right decision.

I was dusting the top shelf of the hallway closet when the ladder wobbled beneath me.

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A woman’s foot on a ladder | Source: Pexels

For a split second, I was weightless. And then I was falling.

The impact was instant. A sharp, searing pain shot through my right leg, unlike anything I’d ever felt before. I gasped and my vision started blurring as I struggled to move.

Gritting my teeth, I reached for my phone, barely managing to swipe the screen. My fingers trembled as I dialed 911.

Minutes later, the paramedics arrived. The pain was unbearable as they lifted me onto the stretcher. I could barely keep my eyes open as they wheeled me into the ambulance.

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An ambulance | Source: Pexels

At the hospital, the X-ray confirmed what I already suspected. I had broken my leg.

“You’ll need to stay here for a few days,” the doctor informed me after wrapping my leg in a cast. “We need to monitor the swelling before we can send you home.”

The moment he left the room, I grabbed my phone and called Toby.

He picked up immediately. “Kate? Hey! How’s my beautiful wife doing?”

“Toby,” I whispered. “I… I broke my leg.”

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A woman talking to her husband on the phone | Source: Midjourney

“What?” His tone shifted from playful to panicked. “How? What happened?”

I exhaled shakily. “I fell off a ladder while cleaning.”

“Jesus, Kate.” I heard rustling on the other end like he was moving around. “I’m coming home. I’ll cut my trip short.”

“No, you don’t have to—”

“Don’t even argue. I should be there with you.”

Tears pricked my eyes. “Okay.”

I was still on the phone with him when the door opened. A nurse walked in.

I quickly told Toby I’d call him later and hung up.

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A close-up shot of a phone | Source: Pexels

“You must be Kate,” the nurse said. “I’m Stephanie. I’ll be looking after you while you’re here.”

“Nice to meet you,” I said, forcing a smile through my discomfort.

“Don’t you worry about a thing,” Stephanie assured me. “We’re going to take great care of you.”

I let out a breath, nodding. She seemed kind.

I had no idea that in just a few days, this woman would shatter everything I thought I knew about my life.

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A nurse in a hospital room | Source: Midjourney

At first, Stephanie was wonderful.

From the moment she started looking after me, she made sure I was comfortable. She checked on me regularly, adjusted my pillows when I couldn’t move properly, and even brought me an extra blanket when I mentioned feeling chilly.

“You must be tired of hospital food already,” she joked one afternoon as she handed me a tray. “I wouldn’t blame you if you refuse to eat this.”

I laughed. “I wasn’t going to say anything, but yeah… this is not exactly gourmet dining.”

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A woman talking to a nurse | Source: Midjourney

She grinned. “Don’t worry. I’ll sneak you something better if I can.”

Over time, we started talking about our lives.

“So,” she asked one evening as she fluffed my pillows, “do you have kids?”

“Not yet,” I admitted. “My husband and I want to buy a house first, then start thinking about kids.”

She nodded. “That’s smart. Kids are expensive.”

I smiled. “What about you? Are you married?”

She shook her head. “No, but there’s someone in my life. We’re dating. Nothing serious yet.”

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A couple holding hands | Source: Pexels

“Do you think he’s the one?” I teased.

“Maybe,” she shrugged. “He’s great. You know, the kind types. He’s been spoiling me lately.”

“That’s sweet,” I said. “It’s nice when someone makes you feel special.”

The next day, when Stephanie walked into my room, something caught my eye.

A bracelet.

It was not just any bracelet. It was a delicate gold chain with a small heart charm, and it looked just like the one my grandmother had given me.

The same bracelet that I had lost a month ago.

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A heart bracelet | Source: Midjourney

At first, I thought it was a coincidence. But then, as Stephanie rested her arm on the side table while adjusting my IV, I saw it up close.

The tiny engraving on the back of the heart charm had a little smiley face.

My grandmother had requested the jeweler for that smiley. She told me it was especially for me.

Suddenly, I felt lightheaded.

How is this even possible? I thought.

I had looked for it everywhere, and I was convinced I had misplaced it. But now, it was there. On my nurse’s wrist.

“That’s a beautiful bracelet,” I said, forcing a smile. “Where did you get it?”

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A woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

Stephanie glanced down, then smiled. “My boyfriend gave it to me.”

A chill ran down my spine.

“That’s sweet,” I said. “When did he give it to you?”

“A month ago.”

My fingers gripped the hospital blanket.

Suddenly, memories flooded back.

I had been getting ready for a party. I had done my makeup and reached for my jewelry box when I realized my bracelet was missing.

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Pieces of jewelry | Source: Pexels

“Toby, have you seen my bracelet?” I asked, rummaging through the drawers.

“You probably left it somewhere,” he said.

“But it’s always in my jewelry box.”

He sighed, glancing at his watch. “Kate, we’re getting late. Just wear something else.”

His reaction had felt off at the time, but I let it go, thinking I had misplaced it.

Now, as I stared at the bracelet on Stephanie’s wrist, the pieces started clicking into place.

Toby had taken it.

And he had given it to Stephanie.

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A man holding a bracelet | Source: Midjourney

Before I could say anything else, I needed to be sure.

My heart pounded as I reached for my phone. I quickly scrolled through my photos until I found one of Toby and me from our anniversary dinner.

Then, I turned the screen toward Stephanie.

“Is this your boyfriend?” I asked.

She glanced at the photo, her smile lingering for a brief second before fading.

“How do you know him?” she asked, confused.

I swallowed the lump in my throat. “Because that’s my husband.”

Silence.

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A nurse in a hospital room | Source: Midjourney

Her eyes darted back to the bracelet on her wrist, and then back to me.

“Wh-what do you mean? Your husband?” she asked. “I… I don’t understand.”

“I’m saying that Toby is not just your boyfriend,” I explained. “He’s my husband. And that bracelet? It was mine before he stole it and gave it to you.”

Stephanie took a shaky step back, crossing her arms. “That… that can’t be true. He wouldn’t do that to me.”

“He’s been doing it to me for months,” I said bitterly. “You just didn’t know.”

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A close-up shot of a woman’s eyes | Source: Midjourney

“No…” she said. “He told me he was single. He never mentioned a wife.”

I almost laughed. “Of course, he didn’t.”

Stephanie’s breathing grew uneven as she processed everything. Then, her expression hardened.

“I can’t believe this,” she exhaled sharply. “I can’t believe I trusted him.”

I met her gaze as a plan formed in my mind.

“If you’re willing to help me, we can make him confess when he comes here tonight,” I suggested. “He said he’d be back from his trip today.”

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A man walking on the road with his luggage | Source: Pexels

“What do you have in mind?” she asked.

“We call the cops,” I said. “And when he comes in, we make him admit to what he did.”

“Alright,” she nodded. “I’ll do it.”

Then, she took the bracelet off her wrist and handed it to me.

“It’s yours,” she whispered. “Keep it.”

***

That evening, Toby arrived at the hospital. He looked frantic and exhausted as he rushed to my bedside.

“Kate, baby, I got here as soon as I could,” he said, brushing his hand over mine. “How are you feeling?”

I studied him carefully.

He was the same man who had been my husband for three years. The man I had trusted. The man who had stolen from me and lied straight to my face.

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A man standing in a hospital room | Source: Midjourney

Before I could respond, the door opened.

Two police officers walked in, followed by Stephanie.

“What’s going on?” Toby asked, his face filled with confusion.

Stephanie stepped forward and pointed at my bracelet. “She says you stole that from her and gave it to me.”

Toby’s brows shot up. “What?”

The officer looked at me. “Ma’am, is it true?”

Before I could answer, Stephanie’s voice cut in. “No. It’s not true. I don’t have any bracelet. I don’t know why she thinks her husband is interested in me.”

I couldn’t believe it. Was this the same woman who had just agreed to expose Toby? The same woman who had seemed just as betrayed as I was?

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A woman looking straight ahead | Source: Midjourney

“See?” Toby let out a nervous chuckle. “This is ridiculous. I don’t even know what this is about.”

I was still reeling from the betrayal when I heard it.

A sigh.

Then, a quiet, shaky voice.

“Alright… I did it.”

I snapped my head toward Toby, watching as he ran a hand down his face, his expression defeated.

“I stole the bracelet,” he admitted, his voice heavy with guilt. “I took it from Kate’s jewelry box and gave it to Stephanie.”

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A bracelet with a heart charm | Source: Midjourney

“Toby!” Stephanie shouted. “No!”

But he ignored her.

“I met her at a bar one night after an argument with Kate,” he confessed. “It wasn’t supposed to be anything serious, but… things happened. I took the bracelet because I thought Kate wouldn’t notice. But she did.”

I heaved a sigh of relief.

The officers exchanged glances before one of them spoke. “Ma’am, do you want to press charges?”

I looked at Toby. He wouldn’t even meet my eyes.

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A side-view shot of a man | Source: Midjourney

“No, officer,” I said. “I don’t want to press any charges.”

Toby’s head lifted slightly in surprise.

“I’m not going to ruin your life,” I said. “But I’m not going to stay in it either.”

Once the officers left, I turned to Stephanie.

“What the heck was that?” I yelled at her. “What were you trying to do?”

“I’m… I—”

“Get out!” I shouted. “Just get out of this room. Now!”

She hesitated, but then she nodded and left without another word.

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A nurse walking away | Source: Midjourney

Toby stepped closer and tried to apologize. “Kate, I—”

“Don’t.” My voice was calm. “Just leave.”

His eyes filled with regret, but I didn’t care anymore.

He walked out, and that was the last time I saw him. Our divorce was finalized soon after.

Leaving him wasn’t easy. Letting go of the life I had built wasn’t easy. But I had no choice. I couldn’t stay with someone who had betrayed me so deeply.

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A woman sitting on a bench | Source: Pexels

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

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