Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
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Claire simply wanted to play her part as the mother-of-the-groom at her son Mark’s wedding to Alice. However, tensions flared as she became more involved in the wedding arrangements, particularly over the choice of the wedding dress.
“I didn’t realize—they look so different in color,” Claire defended herself when Alice accused her of selecting a dress similar to Alice’s dream gown.
Feeling hurt and overshadowed, Alice believed Claire had made the wedding about herself. Mark intervened, urging both women to prioritize the success of the wedding.
Reflecting on the situation, Claire questioned whether she had been too focused on her own vision at the expense of Alice’s happiness. She pondered whether her actions were wrong and regretted potentially overshadowing the wedding with her desires.
Meanwhile, Evie faced a different challenge as rumors circulated about her husband, James, threatening to disrupt her best friend Jade’s wedding. As the whispers spread, Evie found herself grappling with the secrets behind the rumors.
In the end, both Claire and Evie confronted the consequences of their actions and choices leading up to the weddings. While Claire questioned her role in the wedding planning process and its impact on Alice, Evie wrestled with the rumors surrounding her husband and their potential effect on Jade’s special day.
Both stories highlight the complexities and challenges that arise in the lead-up to weddings, reminding us of the importance of communication, empathy, and understanding in navigating such significant events.
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